Do you find this statement true in many life situations, including dating?

[MoonFace2]

Not to wish too hard, or you might get what you wished for? (Then you’ll regret having wished for it, as you realise the reality of having it wasn’t nearly as good as you’d expected it to be)?

[Berethor]

I don't think that I can regret for wishing for a virgin, that's a pretty safe wish to have.

[MoonFace2]

No, that’s everyone’s personal choice. If you look for someone really pious, on a church or a synagogue or religious site, you might find one. One of my guy friends is in his forties; and somehow got a 25 year old virgin girlfriend (he prefers virgins, too). Wants to stay a virgin until marriage.

[MoonFace2]

Are you someone like him, in your wishes?

[MoonFace2]

I’ve never knocked him for it. I’d prefer an experienced person, personally than a virgin, but to each their own

[Berethor]

Well who is better to marry than a virgin? why did he not married her on spot? yea I am like him, just much less lucky, and yes it known that women don't tend to look for virgins.

[MoonFace2]

I think he wants to take things slowly. But they do seem happy together.

[Berethor]

If he happy with the waiting it only proves my point, man can't get wrong with a virgin.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[MoonFace2]

Not if they feel that their first night should be as a married couple, they won’t. I get that that’s important to a lot of people, while not mattering to a lot of others.

[Berethor]

How else could they feel? traditionally woman's virginity was always important to men.

[MoonFace2]

So, men prefer virgins and women prefer experience, in general?

[Berethor]

Yea, so a man is likely to be virgin-shamed, while a woman is likely to be slut-shamed.

[MoonFace2]

That’s true 😊. It’s not fair on either side, is it?

[Berethor]

It based on biology, heard the saying, a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock?

allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Girl_Is_Not_a_Slut

[MoonFace2]

Nope

[Berethor]

Well you can look at the link, on the top of the list is have the full saying.

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely.

[Nikki1989]

Well, people tend to get what they deserve.