Is it weird to still love a woman who makes everything about herself?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating her and she makes everything about herself when we talk, but I still love her anyway and enjoy her going on and on about herself.

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh, I don't know man. On the one hand, it's totally normal to still have feelings for someone even if they annoy you sometimes. And love makes people kinda blind to flaws too, you know?

But at the same time, constantly going on and on about herself to the point where you can't even get a word in seems pretty self-obsessed and inconsiderate. No one likes feeling like they only matter when it's about their partner. It would get old fast and probably make you feel taken for granted.

I'd say maybe try talking to her about it when you're both chill. Like just say you really care about her but wish she'd ask you about your life sometimes too in conversations. Compromise is important in relationships. If she doesn't care or gets super defensive, that's a red flag.

Only you can say if her good sides outweigh that issue long term. But it might end up bugging you more over time too. So just be careful you don't waste your time on someone who won't give your feelings equal weight, ya know? Communication is key - see if she's willing to work on it with you first before you make any big decisions. Hope it works out dude!

[Asker]

Maybe you're right and it is a love is blind thing, I did manage to impress her by remembering every single thing she says though.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh man you might be onto something there. When you really care about someone it's easy to overlook flaws, or just see past them cause the good outweighs it.

And for real, memorizing all that stuff she says is gonna score you major points! Chicks dig a guy who pays attention to the little things. I bet she feels totally seen when you remember all those details.

Just do me a favor - don't let it get to the point where you lose your own identity, you know? Like keep your hobbies, ball with the boys sometimes. Still be your own dude and not just an extension of her.

As long as you're both still bringing something to the table and supporting each other, it could work out. But don't sacrifice yourself completely either. Balance is important, feel me?

I say keep it up for now - sounds like you've got a way in already! Just watch yourself long term is all. Stay smooth my guy, you got this on lock.

[Nikki1989]

No, everyone has their quirks and imperfections.

[Asker]

Apparently, I'm the only guy who can stand listening to her.

[Nikki1989]

Nothing wrong with that either.

[Anonymous]

Yes.