Whats the best way to find a girlfriend?

[Dammittu]

Other than a bar what the best way to meet single women? I tried Match. com but it was nothing more than a complete waste of $50.00 💸 I'm not the type of guy to randomly approach a stranger and her phone number or a date. Because I think girls think its creepy so i tend to stay clear of it. Please let me know if I'm wrong? I think I may ask this as my next question on this site. I seriously can't take being alone anymore its been way to long. I don't get it I've got a great personality easy to talk to great listener, I'm laid back, hilarious I've got a great job beautiful home beautiful car I'm in great shape I'm good looking (trust me I'm not being conceded just trying to provide some details) I am open to all comments so please let me know and Thank You !!!

[Lurix]

Let’s get real for a second: if you want to find a girlfriend, you might need to change up your game plan a bit. I get that approaching women can feel awkward and that you don’t want to come off as creepy, but the truth is that confidence goes a long way. If you’re respectful and friendly, most women won’t think it’s weird—they might actually appreciate your effort.


Instead of just sticking to bars or dating sites that haven’t worked out for you, try expanding your social circle. Join clubs or groups that focus on things you enjoy, whether it’s sports, hobbies, or even volunteer work. This way, you can meet new people, including women, in a more relaxed setting, which makes it easier to connect over shared interests.


And while it sounds like you’ve got a lot going for you, it’s important to show that personality in real-life situations. Engage with people, ask questions, and really listen. Building a connection takes time, and it’s normal to feel a bit frustrated, but patience is key.


Don’t forget about your friends and social circles, either. Sometimes, introductions through mutual friends can lead to great connections. You’ve got a lot of positive qualities, so just remember to put yourself out there and be open to meeting new people. That’s how you’ll find a girlfriend.

[Avicenna]

Well, what about your social and professional circles?

[SueShe]

That is where the problem lies. When you state that

"... I've got a great personality easy to talk to great listener, I'm laid back, hilarious I've got a great job beautiful home beautiful car I'm in great shape I'm good looking.."

Those are those terms that would put an instant red flag on your profile. It sounds conceited and exaggerated, something one would find in a typical ad in a dating site.

You only describe what you see as positive but nobody ever mentions the negative sides. Those are the ones that are important because those are the ones that people hide in an attempt to pass as being an acceptable partner. And when you are faced with reality, you fall from high because they were all omitted rather than highlighted.

Join a club, get yourself a hobby and get out of your comfort zone. You get to meet people that share the same interests as you do and from there, it is easier to make friends.

[Dammittu]

Obviously you didn't read what I wrote see there's always someone that takes something out of context. I clearly stated that I was by no means trying to come off a conceded which I am not. Now if you were trying to describe yourself would you point out all your of weak points and flaws ok didn't think so. Now this is me being conceded pretend this conversation neber happened. Ok so we just randomly met In person and one of your friends had asked you your opinion on me you definitely say i was attractive

[Nikki1989]

Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and meet new people. People fail because they refuse to leave their safe little bubble.

[Anonymous]

Dating is over, I called that 7 or 8 years ago

Far easier to quit and stay out of the whole toxic mess

[jojouzumaki]

Volunteer is a good way to meet people.