tried any of the girls out here? There's girls clearly looking. don't think there's a best way, I really think it's about being on your best and making the most of when you engage with people. sort of like what it takes to ignire fire, right conditions. So always be prepared, create lots of opportunites wherever you are or go, and make the most of them. take a lot of no's and such. it's just what it is.
you are similar in makeup to other women on this site... granted those are usually ldr's and may not be what you want.
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What you want is all over the place.
If you want someone who's even decently attractive then you too are going after looks. If you don't want someone who's not after looks, then start going after the girls you don't find attractive at all.
You want a 50/50 relationship that's casual, but long-term, but serious? Are you kidding. This is a lose lose for most women. Having to pay half on everything yet, being committed to you without the title of a relationship. Worst deal ever.
Sex plays a part here. A woman will eventually end up risking her body. The stakes have to be worth it. That's why men are expected to bring more.
50/50 may be happiness to you, but for most women 50/50 is a nightmare. What's fulfilling to you, isn't fulfilling to those you are trying to date.
"like casual but long term and serious".
Make up your mind, and you might have better success.
Do you want it to be casual, or serious? You don't get both.
it would be nice to have a friend at the end but it doesn't always work that way. mediocrity is not attractive
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