Girls, do you like guys who have male egos or those who don’t?

[Anonymous]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Since you defined, in the comments, male ego as: "who feel superior to women or thinks it’s unmanly to do any girly stuff like household chores or some".

Then you defined masculinity as a massive blend of narcissism went wrong and traditional gender separation. Which strikes me as men with mommy issues + traditional views, when simplifying a lot. I've yet to see one girl attracted to such a personality. But I'm curious to see if that black swan of a girl would appear in the comments lol

[Asker]

Well u’ll be surprised to know many girls fall for such guys… nice guys doesn’t exist for such girls

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Anything is possible, my perspective has to be limited by my surroundings and the people I talk with

[Finchie40]

Every guy has an ego , it’s just comes down to the way he uses his ego , on how he looks at love and respect and trust and honesty if he is able to give the same way he wants to receive. Most females’ aren’t attracted to a guy that has a huge ego that doesn’t think his shit doesn’t stink , and thinks he is superior to everyone around him , if she likes that shit she is in for a rude awakening

[Asker]

As far as i have seen… most women fall for such guys… i know they won’t admit it here but i’ve seen them chosing such guys over the decent ones

[Finchie40]

Yea it happens unfortunately and sadly she learns the hard way , when he starts treating her like shit and loses all respect for her , because she will eventually not be good enough for him and he will pretty much kick her to the curb or cheat on her , but most girls’ like the bad boy type because she doesn’t really know any better , but after he uses her and kicks her to the curb , she will try to run to a nice guy , and if that nice guy is wise , he would stay clear of her all together because she is now damaged and will make that nice guys’ life a living hell , because all she is used to is being treated like shit. I have experienced and witnessed it a bunch of times. The best thing for a guy to do is to balance in between good and bad with a girl , to keep her on her toes , Most girls’ love a guy that ‘s a challenge to her , if he is too nice , she will lose attraction to him , if he is to mean she will lose attraction to him , so if he can balance between good and bad he will more than likely keep her by his side. A good girl respects her man and looks up to him to take lead , a bad girl tries to take lead and doesn’t respect her man because she looks down at him. So if a girl is trying to take lead over you , don’t allow it to happen , put her in her place and tell her you will not be disrespected that way , you don’t have to be an asshole but be stern about it to the point you have no problem walking away. Most of us men need respect from a girl for us to want to stay with her , if we aren’t being respected by her , we will trade her ass in and she can go try her chances with another guy. I only like girls’ that bring happiness into my life , not constant misery , I will treat her with respect as long as she does the same for me

[Asker]

Exactly…. U’re completely right

[Simslover92]

Girls generally aren't attracted to guys with big egos. It's okay to be confident, but there is a big difference between confidence and arrogance.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

No. Masculinity does not equal egoistic. It's such an unattractive trait that only desperate and insecure women will try to put up with. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Account]

It is disgusting to me.

My ego should be bigger. Not theirs.

Semi-joking.

But yeah I can't stand them.

[SuckOnThisOpinion]

You talk a lot about "decent" or "nice" guys in the comments which apparently get not chosen by women and instead the guys with the "male ego" are being chosen. It sounds like there is some very black-and-white-categorization happening here with quite undefined terms, which can be dangerous, Sir. Could you clarify for me what you mean by "nice"/"decent" guys? And could you also maybe give me a few examples of situations that made you think that?

[SlightlyMental]

I am a decent and kind enough guy.

I have very strict rules though and I will have my way with anyone who goes against them, whilst it's ok to show you are a caring person etc, you also need to maintain boundaries and order, if not you are a walk over.

Nie guys, I think hat people ar egetting at are those who do not accept their shadow and instead project it onto others rather than dealing with it, they are also mor elikely to abuse down the line.

Not saying straiught upo egoistical people don't abuse then and there, they can and even do.

[236color]

If you do define "Male ego" as @Maybe_Maybe_not says you do, I would suggest that is not, in fact ego, but rather massive insecurity. If your ego is so fragile you can't wash the freaking dishes with being concerned about other people's opinions of your masculinity, you have big problems.

[Sour-rose]

idc, just have some money so we can go get fked up on some food that's better than ihop

[Billlewis]

Yes, please. 🤑🐷

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Waffle House?

[Sour-rose]

@Oncewildtwiceburned Waffle house strikes me as Waffles or burger. Not good enough, i want filling and not sweet.

[paledreams]

I feel like so many humans, and others, have egos that it's almost impossible - so surely they'd have to say they don't mind it at bare minimum lol 😆😔

[Squatting_Slav]

If a guy sticks to his word, is confident, successful and charming regardless of whether he has an ego or not he will be successful with women

So losers with big egos are the ones who fail.

[Tomisworthless]

Women dont know what they want. Their nature is to be a whore but their mind tells them their a princess, so they try to reason with themselves.

[Anonymous]

most of the girls like it. ultimate boyfriend material

[kaucky1]

Oh hell no cut off their titties no just derma depict them➰↖️⬅️↙️⬇️➡️make them grow perky the higher you go

[noohair]

Do you want a guy with no male ego? It would be like dating a girl.

[PeachyPie93]

What do you mean by male egos?

[Asker]

As in who feel superior to women or thinks it’s unmanly to do any girly stuff like household chores or some

[PeachyPie93]

Oh then no I don't like them..

[Asker]

Ok….

[JesseP1nk]

But you expect a man to protect you in case of danger?

[PeachyPie93]

@JesseP1nk I don't like dudes who think they are better than me and expect me to be his slave.. and who said I expect a man to protect me? I can do it myself especially if it would cost me my dignity..

[Shiprex]

Everyone who has self respect has an ego, but here you've tagged that natural feature of humanity to a particular social behaviour which is less about ego and more about traditional (call it religiously determined) gender roles.

[SugarSugarplum]

What other kind of egos should a man have?

[MoonFace2]

Those who are more humble.

[valentina4eva]

what is a ‘male ego’ versus a ‘non-male ego’ ?🤔🤔

[chocolatetwopointo]

no they r weird asf