Ladies, would you be friends with an undateable guy?

[Anonymous]

Only friends, nothing more 👍

[BettaBreedingBabe]

I don’t think anyone says you’re undateable. Unless you’ve labeled yourself in that category.


Maybe you just need to stop looking and it will happen naturally. I felt like I needed to be in a relationship or people would think I was a homosexual. It’s funny because I have a lot of male and female friends that are, and I never cared. Not sure why I would care if someone thought I was.


Now I guess I don’t seek relationships, I seek Friends and I don’t care what the others think. I guess I’ve been single for quite some time and I actually prefer it. I can do what I want when I want and don’t have to worry about people getting hurt feelings (including me).


Maybe one day, but for now I’m just focused on working and my pets lol

[Asker]

I'm only having the discussion over the topic. Yes, i am under that calegory because i don't drive at all. Plus, I'm a hermit

[BettaBreedingBabe]

Driving doesn’t mean you can’t date or aren’t dateable. Just means you have to be a little more creative and more intentional in making time for the other person.

[Asker]

Yeah, not driving is my top rejections I always get from people. My second top rejections I always get from people is im too sexually or too kinky in bed.

[BettaBreedingBabe]

Is there such a thing?

[Asker]

Sexual compatibility. I can't find people with similar kinks like me.

[BettaBreedingBabe]

😳

I kinda want to ask more, but I embarrass easily.

[Asker]

I'll DM you

[Asker]

im unjudgmental

[mandyfire98]

What makes him undateable? Is it his personality?

[Asker]

Lots of negative reasons, like low self-esteem, low confidence, and doesn't drive any vehicles. I know every guy who is undateable guy is different, and ladies have reasons not to date him. Only Friends Zone him forever. Some of those undateable have good hearts, and others don't

[mandyfire98]

It would depend on how strong his insecurities are. They can affect people's entire personality and poison it.

[Asker]

I say some of their insecurities are very strong. Me on the other hand, im under that category. I don't drive, and women have found that extreme turn off and red flags to them. That's my top rejections I get from people. I have also been rejected on friendships too.

[mandyfire98]

Well our insecurities can make us tough to be around if they consume us.

[Asker]

Sounds like the undateables have very slim chances on success. Me, on the other hand, doesn't sound too good or promising. If I'm a permanent bachelor, then i'll accept it

[Gwendoline]

Single guy friends of dateable age are difficult to be friends with. The undateable guy either wants a relationship with you or sex.