Why do I never ever get jealous?

[Anonymous]

Why do some people get jealous of others looks or of other peopl? Is it because of attention seeking behavior? Or mental instability?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl I don't know, jealousy is such a weird thing. With me I think it's just cuz I'm really secure and confident in myself. Like I know my worth doesn't depend on what some dude thinks of me, ya know?

I've seen other girls get totally bent outta shape if their man even looks at another female. But honestly that just seems exhausting to me! Like chill, it ain't that serious. People are gonna find others attractive, that's normal. As long as they're not actually cheating who cares?

I'm not saying jealous types are attention seeking or crazy or anything. Emotions ain't always logical. But for me personally, I just don't feel the need to keep tabs on a girl 24/7 or worry what she's doing. If she wants to leave, deuces! Plenty more fish and all that.

Maybe it comes down to trust and self-confidence at the end of the day. I trust myself and my choices, so I don't worry someone's gonna steal my woman. When you really love yourself, one person ain't make or break. Could be why jealousy ain't my thing - just my theory though sis!

[Bilboes]

I think you get jealous when you invest your own self-worth in another person..

[ProbablyClueless]

That's a really interesting perspective. I think you're probably spot on about that.

[Anonymous]

What does jealousy mean to you

[jahaims]

It's a maturity thing