Why are Indian guys more popular than Indian girls in the West?

[Babygirl_S]

Many of them come to India to marry a virgin and then cheat and divorce them. They’re still able to get girls. Why are white girls rejecting white guys to be with these losers?

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1 y

If Indian girls were at least equally popular they could also find partners out there. I don’t understand why Indian men are more popular than Indian women. Are men more racist? Are women gold diggers? I’m sure these girls can find better partners within their own communities

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1 y

Because literally every Indian knows that these Indian guys who are living in the Western countries aren’t good for Indian girls from India. They usually cheat and leave them after a few months. It’s extremely common. They exploit these women. Plenty of such women are now living with their parents in Punjab.

[BoobMan]

I'm not sure that's even true. Also, from what I've read, women tend to be less open to dating outside their race than men are. Check out the abstracts of these two papers on the topic:

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-021-09931-9

https://sites.bu.edu/fisman/files/2015/11/RES08-racial_preferences.pdf

Are you currently in the West and having problems dating?

[Babygirl_S]

No, but I imagine I would be rejected

[BoobMan]

Why would you be rejected?

[Babygirl_S]

Because I’m Indian

[BoobMan]

And you think that would get you rejected by someone you've already established a positive conversation with?

[BoobMan]

I have a lot of thoughts on this. PM me. It would be interesting to discuss

[BoobMan]

Thanks for Superb o! Would still be interested in learning more if you're game.

[UnusualWeirdo]

This all depends where they are looking for someone. If you are looking for someone in a party city like LA you're more than likely going to find one night stands, looking for sometime meaningful is hard but worth the time, Indian women are very beautiful but I imagine they have high standards, sometimes you need to lower your standards a bit.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think they are, unless they’re rich. Granted, my school was different, but a lot of Western girls think Indian guys are jerks, while a lot of Western guys think Indian girls (at least Indian girls my age) are hot because they’re exotic.

Note: I don’t feel this way. I don’t racially stereotype people.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm curious... from where do you take your statistics? In Europe Indian women are seen as beautiful and are very liked by men of all nationalities...

I think you have some kind of insecurities based on your nationality or something... but you won't solve it on g@g... you know...

[Gauoda_]

@islathewitch Are you really a witch or its just a username?

My granny told me there used to be live a witch in the old forest and I still don't go through that way 😨😲

[IslaTheWitch]

@Gauoda_
the one and the real witch :D

[Gauoda_]

@islathewitch Oh No, I swear I will leave GAG... Please !!! don't eat me up Alive 😥

[IslaTheWitch]

@Gauoda_ why should I? I have a great curry for dinner :D

[Gauoda_]

@islathewitch I know you will try to eat me on Halloween 😥😥

[IslaTheWitch]

@Gauoda_ and where did you take those stories from?

[Gauoda_]

@islathewitch Netflix 😥

[IslaTheWitch]

@Gauoda_ yeah... lmao

[meepmeeperton]

Indian men are extremely unpopular in the west from my observations. Most white girls I know would gag at the thought of dating one. Whereas Indian women are semi-popular with white men. I mean, look at JD Vance and his wife for example.

[Babygirl_S]

Wow! He’s so handsome. So an Indian girl prettier than her would have similar guys interested in her? Can she be with someone like Lucky Blue Smith? 😍

[meepmeeperton]

Sure, plenty of white guys would stir your curry.

[SuckOnThisOpinion]

I've never heard about or witnessed a women from here thirsting over an indian guy. I thought they were rather especially unpopular? Indian women on the other hand I'd say are pretty gorgeous. But I'm talking about Europe here, don't know about the US.

[NathanDavis]

personally, I don't care for Indian men... lmao

Indian women... they can be all kinds of beautiful, yes

and the ones I've met, great people as well... no doubt at all about that

[Nirmroth]

I found it to be the other way around from what I heard from indian guys trying to date in the west.

Why are you so obsessed with indian western relationships by the way?

[Babygirl_S]

Because I’m looking for a husband and I get proposals from Indian guys living in the West whom I reject due to what they’re known for. Also, I am attracted to Western men

[Babygirl_S]

So many women have faced the injustice of marrying an Indian guy settled abroad who cheated and divorced them. How are they still able to get girls?

[Nirmroth]

Then get a dating app, set location to a western country of your choice and text/date away?

Well again first time I heard of it that indian guys are more prone to cheating etc. And I dont get were you got the view that indian men are more popular than indian women and why that should even matter for you?

[Babygirl_S]

Because you don’t know that it’s safer to marry an Indian guy from India than one living in a Western country. They almost always leave their wives.

[Nirmroth]

Okay but why do you care if you're not interested in dating an indian guy anyway?

[Babygirl_S]

Because I don’t have any other options. I live in India. The closest I can get to dating a western guy is if I date an Indian immigrant because they do show interest in Indian girls from India. They aren’t good for marriage because they almost never stay with the same girl. Many are even racist towards their own Indian wives making them feel inferior to the other girls. Clearly they marry them only because their parents force them to or they wanted to ruin an innocent virgin girl’s life. They have this sort of fetish for such women and almost always dump them later.

[Nirmroth]

Well its not about that people from the west aren't interested in indian girls its more like that rarely anyone wants to bother dating a foreign girl many many km/miles away that probably doesn't even speak the same language or doesn't have a foothold when they can just find that near them in a western women.

[Nirmroth]

Best move you could do is saving up money and then move into one of those countries

[Curiosity868]

It is significantly easier for Indian women to find a partner in the west than you’d think. I don’t think it’s that difficult for either sex to find a partner if they are kind charismatic and charming.

[Gauoda_]

@Curiosity868 Agree with you, Even Guys from Cuba or West-Indies can get white girls as their girlfriend and the other way around, The asker is in dilemma and she is not very mentally stable for some reasons, She has lots of " Self-doubt " and lacks confidence

[Babygirl_S]

No actually pretty much every Indian knows that Indian guys living out there come to India to only EXPLOIT Indian girls. It’s incredibly common for them to take their virgin wife’s virginity and after a few months or impregnating them, they actually LEAVE these women in pursuit of western women.

[Curiosity868]

Well, you’re talking more about what happens to the girls in India, in the west it’s very easy for Indian women to meet western men.

I can’t comment on what Indian men do in India as I’ve never been back there

[Babygirl_S]

I’m talking about how Indian guys living in the West marry and leave Indian girls from India.

[Gauoda_]

@babygirl_s Okay, why don't you marry French or Dutch guys instead? even why don't you take a job and live life on your terms happily?

[Curiosity868]

Okay.

[Babygirl_S]

But it’s not easy getting a job in a different country

[Berethor]

Looks like you answered that yourself, men are more racist and women are more gold diggers.

[college-student2021]

I don’t think that’s true I seen many Indian girls with White man but maybe that’s only in the circles I run in.

[Bubbatech24065]

because they only marry for tradition, not love or attraction. and you can't have a relationship with someone that you would not give the time of day to IRL.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nah. It's the other way around. The girls tend to be more chased after.

[zagor]

They aren't. There are just more Indian men in tech and therefore able to get visas and have money.

[Knightwatch27]

I'd look up real statistics before making any sort of claim on things like that.

[Babygirl_S]

You can read about “NRI marriages and how they leave their wives”

[Knightwatch27]

That speaks of Indian marriages though, not on either of their status in the west.

[Babygirl_S]

Because their husbands can find girls in the West and their wives have to come back to India

[TheWombRaider]

Wtf how do u even come up with this. Where are your statistics that say they are more popular?

[beefcakebradybatson]

White boys aren't being rejected by white girls for Indian boys unless I'm missing something.

[noohair]

As a man, I am not attracted to any guys. Indian women are very attractive.

[Amur8711]

I have no clue where you get your stats from as always but that's just plain BS.

[LazerBean]

They definitely are not lmao

[DryGermanGuy]

... but try to get this into her obsessing head. Impossible.

[LazerBean]

I don't know why so many people are like this on here

[Jennz6]

No, Indian guys have a great smile 😊

[Jennz6]

And a big package

[Babygirl_S]

I like that you’re so optimistic 🙂

[Jennz6]

I met an Indian

[Agape93]

They aren't

[soe11]

To be honest I don't know about it.

[Pohjolan]

Because they are more proactive?

[Babygirl_S]

No I think because white men would rather suck an Indian d**k plenty of videos on the internet

[Pohjolan]

You are projecting. You can find plenty of clips of panda bears on the internet but they are still a endangered species.

[Babygirl_S]

No I’m just saying you’d date an Indian guys in a heartbeat

[Pohjolan]

The gay ones might but they are a minority, not a majority.

[Babygirl_S]

But there are more videos of white guys sucking some Indian d**k than going down on an Indian woman so I guess I know the minority

[Pohjolan]

But you will get twice as many video results for white man fucking indian woman so by your own logic you would be wrong,

[Babygirl_S]

I think every white guy who hates Indian women is “straight” until he sees an Indian man naked 😃 Most of them target their hate towards the women for a reason 😃

[Pohjolan]

@babygirl_s
I don't think that most white guys hate Indian women.

[MasterKS]

who told you this? we like Indian girls here more!

[RedInnocent69]

Um, they’re not