Why do men seem to hit on me or are interested in dating more when I’m not interested in dating/relationships?

[Anonymous]

It seems like when I was actively dating or looking for a relationship, I always came across men that didn’t want to date and hardly got hit on.

[Nikki1989]

When someone is not openly seeking a relationship, they can be perceived as more desirable or challenging to win over.

[Anonymous]

Just the way it is. Women have invariably pursued me at the times when I didn't want to date anyone.

[justabuddy]

The brain starts to wonder what you may have missed out on once it's gone.

[Anonymous]

Coincidence.