Getting along :)?

Question

Okay so, my boyfriend has said a few times now that he wants a groups of girls he’s with to all get along and talk about how much they love him and have some fun with him.
Am I wrong to think that’s really stupid and wouldn’t happen. Cuz I know I wouldn’t do it. The way I thought it’d go is they’d all get together all learn he was seeing other people then get into an argument. But that’s just my opinion.
How realistic is his idea and if he’s thinking this should I even bother sticking around anymore.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Yo that's a really tough situation. Honestly it doesn't sound like your boyfriend's idea would end well at all. I can understand why you'd be uncomfortable with it and don't really blame you. The way I see it, it just doesn't seem respectful to expect your girl to be cool with him seeing and talking to other girls like that. And yeah like you said, it'd probably just lead to arguments and drama between everyone if they all found out about each other.

I get guys can be dumb sometimes and think with the wrong things, but wanting a whole group of girls to fawn all over him is taking it way too far. That's not fair to you at all. A good relationship is built on trust and loyalty, not messing around with multiple people. Seems like he's not being very loyal if he keeps bringing this up after you've told him how you feel about it.

Sticking around probably won't end well and will just stress you out more. You deserve to be with someone who respects your feelings and wants to focus just on you, not other girls. I know it's probably not easy to end things since you've been together, but is it really worth staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy? You could do way better than some dude who doesn't appreciate how awesome you are. If I was in your shoes, I'd probably move on and find someone who treats me right and doesn't try to make me uncomfortable. Just my two cents though, it's your decision at the end of the day. I just don't want to see you stressing over some guy who isn't worth it.

DryGermanGuy · Accepted Answer

Is the guy of Saudi descent and needs a harem? Weird.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Wait, he wants all the girls to talk about how much they love him? That’s odd. Lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Run away, like yesterday. That's so weird lol

Anonymous · Answer

It's probably wishful th8nking for him. But I don't know him. If he hawt enough women will suspend every common sense to accomidate him. Even do this.