Am I ever going to find love?

[Anonymous]

I'm 16 and almost everyone I know has already had multiple relationships and then there's me, a girl who has never held hands, never kissed with anybody, never been loved. I feel like I am unlovable and I'm gonna stay alone forever. Is it because of my looks? My personality? I don't even know, it makes me feel sad and ashamed. Any advices?

[Mwolf]

Never was able to have an introductory conversation with a male person/a guy/person with a 🍆, until 20's. TBH, I don't consider highschool relationships REAL just cause a lot of it is to have a FB relationship status and fit in due to peer pressure of others being in a relationship. A LOT of people say they have or are in one same with sex, just to fit in and get others to stop sticking their noses where their noses don't belong. If you are questioning if you should or want to be with or pursue a guy, might be sign it's not meant to be. If you like someone you know you like them.

[Asker]

Okay then, thankss.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for love it works in mysterious ways & as for love it will find you when you least expect it or you will find it where you least expect it. As for me I always say if you want to meet people you have to get out & greet people & when it comes to love if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

Love is a wonderful thing & when you are in love you will know it & it’s a feeling like none other. As for you go find love instead of it finding you & if you like someone don’t be afraid to let them know. Start by saying hello & don’t do it online or via text message say hello face to face & don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone & walk up to someone who catches your attention.

[Phoenix98]

Relax your only 16 not even an adult yet you have plenty of time. If it makes you feel any better I didn't even have my first relationship till I was around your age 16, 17.

It's not uncommon and it's not something you should rush or force.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Phoenix98]

Yup.

[MoonFace2]

I didn’t get my first boyfriend until I was nineteen. I was a virgin until then, too. I know that must seem awfully old to you, but it’s really not. You are very young and maybe just need a bit more time to find the right guy. Like I did; and grow into your looks and personality. It’ll happen. Keep being you and when you’re eighteen, I recommend online dating sites.

[StBerryPi]

Shhh big secret... Those relationships are not love! More lust and crushing. Toss in some love bombing and those are only short term puppy love relationships.

Real love takes time and two people who commit and work... Say it again... 2 people who work hard to love and do things together!

Your wonderful and amazing soon you will get a date and have real love! Till then your watching teen dramas!

Half end for no reason

[Asker]

Thanks 🥹

[StBerryPi]

Welcome the best loves are those who wait for someone right now every match! On tinder

[Mwolf]

Hormones and puberty and adolescents.

[slatyb]

Be patient. My wife was very shy at your age and believed she was unattractive. Looking back I expect she was the beauty of her high school class but didn't get attention because boys assumed she wasn't interested.

[Asker]

Aww :(

[slatyb]

So do you greet your classmates when you see them? That's often all it takes. Just start saying "Hi, ---, how was your weekend?" If you've been quiet they may be surprised but they will respond.

[Asker]

I do but my classmates don't really like me, so I kinda stopped talking to them lol.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, that depends- are you going to look for it, or wait for it to find you? Remember, a relationship isn't something that's found, it's something that's built.

[Asker]

I wait for somebody to approach me but it hasn't happened yet.

[NamerOfStars]

Then you may need to take a more active approach.

[Berethor]

Don't worry, virgin girls are best, save your first kiss for the right guy, don't waste it.

[Anonymous]

Depends largely if you ever start putting forth effort. Closed mouths don't get fed.

Just be glad you're not a guy. If you were a guy you'd have near zero chance with this attitude.

[jahaims]

No one your age is in love. It's just kids playing pretend picking up trauma/baggage

[Wise4myage]

Listen, you have your life in front of you stop stressing over this.

[scott04sa22]

Try 38, single and still no kids