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Took a photo of myself with 4 passerby’s shown, couple are with their girlfriends and all are caught guilty doing that! Why’s that? What makes you guys compulsory to do that even with girlfriends? Isn’t that rude?
Of course we're going to get blamed for looking at the butt but to be honest we look at everything from the butt to how tight her pants are what kind of dress she's wearing what color shirt does she have on what color are her eyes we look at everything
And it's not that big of a deal I don't think I could be walking through a mall with my girlfriend and they'll be two or three guys heading towards us and those are stare at her I'll look at her like check these guys out looking at you and she'll smile and I kind of giggle and is a pass by I'll say something pretty nice huh.. and then they have to smile people are going to check out other people
It doesn't mean that you want to be with them I mean you're with your partner. And if you didn't want to be with them then you shouldn't be with them. But every girlfriend I've ever had those that I look knows that I catch guys looking at my girlfriend knows that I catch my girlfriend looking at the guys looking at her and when it all comes together there's just a big smile when everybody catches everybody
I think butts just grab my attention in general. Not necessarily sexually…. often I’m silent judging😂 But overall I think just the “action” of buttcheeks in motion is just kind of eye-catching, even when innocent. If you’re walking behind someone, it’s just what you notice. Could be a 65 year old man, lmfao, I’m taking note. Actually just last night I was behind a guy just like that, and my thought was just “this dude looks like he’s never squatted in his life. Like not even gym-squats, like just squatting down in the course of life. Big protruding belly, but he had a wide, flat ass, that was fat yet I wasn’t sure how he keeps his pants up, even with a belt😂 Plus his shorts were so old and worn that one corner of his wallet poked through his back pocket. Had on ugly old man sneakers, with tall socks…. I was KILLING this guy in my mind😅
Anyway, I say all that to say I just notice people’s butts in general, but only with attractive and shapely women am I thinking sexual thoughts😈 But noticing in general is almost automatic, I guess it’s just my focal point on a rear-view of a human being. I guess I notice it on animals too, now that I think of it. My neighbor’s dog is a Corgi, and I’m always like “dammmmnnnnnn, bro, you DUMMY THICCCC”, lmfao, that breed has such a big, wobbly butt😂
Butt’s are just eye-catching, whether positive, negative, or neutral. But yes, a good looking gal’s butt, I’m probably trying to stare as discreetly as possible, I can’t lie😅😝
You must have a very distinctive butt! For those guys it's like shopping and not buying anything just looking.
That's... that's a guy for you. We got curves, and they don't. I don't mind a little glance now a then tho.
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Because most of us men are very visual when we notice a beautiful girl , or a beautiful ass , or boobs , it ‘s. just how most of us men our made , it’s our natural instincts , It can be considered disrespectful by his partner , if she catches him checking someone else out and she gets jealous about it , but unfortunately most of you females’ do the same when you notice an attractive guy. So it’s just a natural instinct , we have eyes to see , so it’s only really disrespectful if they act on it.
Men are visual creatures, and like to look at nice things. An attractive woman's rear is nice to look at. Why is that wrong? There's nothing wrong with looking. What's wrong would be doing...
Women are just as visual. They are just better at keeping it a secret.
@Sparking4th women are personality first. High quality women will go for ugly ass dudes if they are confident and have things going for them in life. And she will love and respect him to pieces.
It's extremely rare for a high quality man to go for an ugly woman, even if she has everything else going for her.
Men and women both get visual turn on just like men and women both have personality turn ons. Our priorities with them are what is different
@BlessedBlend94 Type in kostyxd on YouTube and you will see how visual women are. You have been lied too, buddy.
@Sparking4th I've noticed that women are very visual too but they have much more advanced peripheral vision than men. They make use of this and a lot of men miss this completely.
It's called hypergomy, and I believe men and women both do this differently. Men are physically and sexually minded. Men at an instinct level look for physical and sexual traits that tell our subconscious that a woman can bear healthy children (birthing hips, large breasts). In other words, we are always subconsciously looking for "the best" and as men we are wired to see "the best" through physical and sexual lenses first and foremost
On the other hand, from what I understand, women have the same thing, just less about sex. For women, it is about finding the most confident man, the best provider, the best protector, the best ________. Sometime height and muscles will tell her that, but it's usually personality traits.
What I'm saying is that men are programmed to constantly be hunting for the sexiest partner possible. This is why they check out women before noticing they are. It is rude when they are already happy with someone and if unchecked could and oftend does lead to cheating
On the flip side of that token, women are programmed to constantly be hunting for the most confident partner possible. This is why they instinctively compare other men's personalities and suave with their own man's. This is also rude and if unchecked could and often does lead to cheating
Why do men look at women's bottoms?
Why do males stare at females butts and breasts? - Quora. Evolution has shaped these to be sexually attractive and has shaped our brains to be powerfully attracted to such features. Such things are called secondary sex characteristics—evolved features that make the sexes attracted to each other and promote mating.
What do men check out in a woman?
Confidence is the #1 thing men find sexy in women.
Demonstrate your confidence by smiling, making eye contact, and standing tall with good posture. Assert yourself and your interests clearly rather than shying away from speaking up. Avoid being clingy, which can turn some men off.
Why would you ask this without showing me your ass?
You must have a nice one and the only reason we don't take pictures ourselves is because women don't like us to enjoy the good things in this life.
On the real though... I think women are just as bad. I overhear a dude talking shit about me, saying I'm on steroids and she's hanging on his arm, but then fucking winks at me... agreeing with him and then wink at me right there on his arm. I speak another language in a country that can't imagine that I speak their language... and I can be in McDonalds and the shit they say about me... with my wife right there that could be mistaken as one of them... My kids and everything there. But they just yap yap yap about how they'd suck my dick because they assume I can't hear them.
I just have to add these facts that I don't think it's really a man thing. Like, why do all women in video games have to be made ugly... but ripped dudes that look like male strippers are just fine? So yeah there are double standards there... but I don't think it's all angled in one direction. Women are just as bad as us... ask a male stripper... they can scratch us with their nails but a dude grabbing a tiddie will get him thrown out. Double standards.
I think there would be no such double standards if they all wore burqas that cover their dirty cum covered lips.
Yeah i mean the burqa would serve the purpose of keeping their mouths shut.
It's not to make them indistinguishable because your wife could already be mistaken as one of them.
I think this post was an excuse to humblebrag about multiple men checking out her booty
@meepmeeperton she has been this way for 2 years on here, repeatedly. Along with incoherent tales of traveling to boring countries.
"Humblebrag" is an evil thing to do, no different than normal bragging. The more a person brags the more they get used to bragging and prioritizes maximizing braggability of everything they do over the things actually being useful to themself or others.
It's one entirely different thing from bragging about the trolling I do, because people could get a good laugh out of it. Have you seen how I wanted to join the branch of military that is equipped with explosives? That's why my name is "kaboom" as in the sound of an explosion. Allahu akbar, but what does it benefit me to know that men looked at her ass? That's something 100% of women could brag about if they really tried to.
Hopefully she soon realizes that Mr. Right doesn't want to commit to an attention-whore.
I'll quote Humphrey Bogart - "It's natural ain't it?". We are hard wired that way. It is an unconscious response due to always on hot girl scanner running in our primal reptilian sex circuits.
Evolution has just put new layers on top of old layers and we do have a layer that looks the same as reptilian brains. So sexual response can be that unsophisticated.
Men need to constantly be aware of the butt environment around them. Otherwise, if a butt emergency were to arise, we might be caught unprepared.
The men checking out your butt are doing so in an effort to keep you safe.
SOURCE: Science
Guys check women out altogether, so of course booties would be in that bracket as well.. Women want to be checked out too.. Now guys doing it with their girlfriends is a little trifling, but I've seen women damn near oogling while their man was right next to them, so hey..
Back when we were walking on all fours, a woman's ass was eye level to us and that was our main attractor, sexually. That's why we still look at your ass.
That's also why we love looking at your tits! Once we learned to walk upright, ass was no longer at eye level so, nature decided to give you tits that look just like ass with nipples and THEY became the main sexual attraction.
@FunkyMonkee
I’ve read that before but it makes no sense when I read it again. Like…
So on all fours males ONLY approached females from behind?
But somehow when upright they only approached from the front? The direction changed?
Why wouldn’t they still approach from behind and see and like the hair of the lady at eye level or still look at the butt, OR look at the eyes at whaddya know EYE level lol 😂
It’s a social thing. Social contact. Seeing another being of our species and interacting intellectually. Which just throwing it in I find to be far better BUT
It still makes no sense why the approach supposedly “ “
Changed. Why would that be? Was this research claim just bogus? Do you really believe it?
@Rosexøxø If you're walking on all 4's, just about all you can see at eye level is ass, face, sides and legs. When standing upright, you get to see the entire body. But, because ass is now about 3' below his eye level, it's not QUITE as sexually attracting, anymore so, tits came about to act as ass cheeks. They're only a few inches below eye level.
We do! We see her hair, eyes, face, ass, legs, tits, the whole package.
Makes sense to me. An anthropologist made this claim about 15 years ago.
Look at how all the other mammals are built the same way. Ass is eye level. It's highly likely that ass is a big sexual attractor to them, too but, until they can learn to talk to us and tell us so, we'll never know for sure.
@FunkyMonkee I know how eye level works either on 4s or 2 feet. I’ve read about that before and I was questioning how the approach went from back to front and didn’t stay at the back
And why would the focal point change from eye level to shifting down instead of staying eye level. That was my whole curiosity. I’ll just read up on it though. You just kind of missed what I said and extended your initial paraphrase of that research topic. But thanks anyways
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@Rosexøxø Have someone get on all 4's. Now you get on all 4's behind them. what are you looking at if you look straight ahead? Ass!
Now, both of you stand up in the same spot, what are you looking at, now? Probably the back of their head. Ass is no longer at eye level, is it? It's now about 2.5" below eye level.
The confusion is eye level seems to have no correlation to arousal variables
Because eye level seems to be important for the one on 4s
But it is seemingly no longer important when upright.
If eye level were the rule
Then the males would be aroused and drawn to eye level hair or the eye level face.
Approach from behind also seems to be important so I don't know why it didn’t carry/ cross over for the upright species. Even if the approach is changed and it is indeed frontal
Why wouldn't the rule of eye level dictate or influence the gaze and focal point to be towards the eyes. Why does the gaze drop?
I’m just curious and cynical of it but the confusion lies with you cause I made a simple question and probably repeated twice now this time more in depth and you still don’t get it
Maybe just stick with talking to polygamous girls like rage babe
Kay hun?
Alrighty.
I’ll stick with google for my clarifications.
Leave the information to the thinkers and the sex to the sex maniacs. ✌️
@Rosexøxø Correct, but ass was the main attractor. There's no ass in a face. Might be one BEHIND the face!!
That's where tits come in. They look like ass and are almost at eye level.
Because eyes were NOT the main sexual attractor.
How much eye contact do dogs have when they're about to fuck? Hardly any, IF any! They check out each other's ass and, if the boy dog is horny enough, he just climbs aboard and starts pounding away!
Yeah, I don't understand what's so hard to understand about what I'm trying to make you understand. Understand?
Some of thinkers ARE sex maniacs!
“Yeah, I don't understand what's so hard to understand about what I'm trying to make you understand.”
Yeah, this is where you forget which way is the ground and which way is the sky
Because and let me list it out for ya nice and easy
1.) I GOT YOUR POINT YOUR ONLY POINT WAS PARAPHRASING A RESEARCH STUDY DONE WAY BACK WHEN
2.) I EVEN READ UP ON SUCH ARTICLES
3.) THIS IS WHERE I SAID THE WHOLE SCENARIO LACKS CONSISTENCY WHICH TRIGGERED MY CURIOSITY AND CYNICISM FOR THIS SCENARIO AND IT BEING FACTUAL.
YOU repeated yourself
YOU can't seem to understand MY side of this conversation and you go on repeating like yes a broken record.
EVERYONE can see you here flirting with a much younger lady on a question about butts and she is taken and yet she’s flirting back and asks for me to PRIVATE MESSAGE YOU
WHICH
I DONT WISH TO DO. Which is fine and my right, as this forum is built and intended for INTELLECTUAL conversations
NOT flirtations and orgies or virtual sex.
Either way
In YOUR final and annoyingly persistent response that remains aggravatingly redundant, at a loss for purpose or conclusion, you compare ideally yourself (cause I don’t support your comparison) to DOGS.
a nasty lacking good personal hygiene animal.
And you daringly add INTELLECTUALS are sex maniacs
That’s just you projecting there and it failed.
You don’t seem to be an intellectual
And yet you’re clearly a sex maniac.
I will just say THERE ARE intellectuals who are asexual.
I’ll lean more towards THAT side of this conversation.
I have nothing further to say to you and I’ll make that clear here.
If you wish to respond that’s your own personal decision.
I seriously regret having even posed my question and curiosities to you. It’s a pity she had to be on this thread and get panties in a twist to ask me to private message you. She wants things convenient and unrealistic. This is a public forum. Not a private one.
If multiple people had been discussing on this thread- what would she do? Ask all of us to private message? Make a private chat? That’s a bit high maintenance for a public forum.
A bit weird.
Anyways as I said
Literally the best to ya both. Hope that works out. 👍
Won’t be reading any notifications from here. Etc. and yes. It’s that easy to avoid them. Ya just don’t read them. Simple.
@Rosexøxø NOOOOO!! NOT A BROKEN RECORD!!! ANYTHING BUT THAT!!
You don't seem to understand that ass was eye level. That's what I'm trying to clarify. You keep asking about other things that don't have much to do with what I said.
When did I start flirting?
Looks to me like you're reading WAY more into it than actually happened.
I compared HUMANS, when we were still very much animals, to dogs and I could've, and did, expand that to ALL mammals!
Dogs are WAY cleaner than cats!
Some intellectuals ARE sex maniacs! You haven't been on this planet long enough to notice that.
If I AM a sex maniac, it'd be because I haven't had any in 29 years!
Intellectuals that have both genders?
Why would she ask you to PM me?
You actually think she's gonna come here to be with me? Who's lacking intelligence, now?
I know! I've avoided reading the others you posted on the first question you posted here last night!
@FunkyMonkee Okay. 👍
Girls show their butts off, guys look. It's the reason girls by form fitting clothes. They want their butts to look good. Why do girls in relationships show their butt's off? It's all basic human biology. It's normal and healthy. If you think it's disrespectful for guys to look, then it's simultaneously disrespectful for girls to show it off. Personally, I don't find either side disrespectful.
@Rosexøxø lol pretty much every clothing company, but def Victoria's Secret too
Women's butts are so sexy and appealing. I hardly ever will do it, if I am with a female. I don't want to be disrespectful or hurt her feelings. Sometimes I will see a woman with a nice butt and I have to take a quick glance. Sorry it's just my nature to appreciate a woman's body.
It is kinda rude in my opinion, especially if my girlfriend's with me. But in my opinion it is kinda normal to look at butts. I just do it discretely and would never do it with my girlfriend. I guess my girl also checks out guys on the street, when I'm not there.
Men will be men. You should hear what my male coworkers talk about when I am out of earshot. It can be truly disgusting.
Girls butts are so beautiful, the shape, the things you can do to them, when I see a good looking one I want to feel it, spank it and bite it. I love girls butts so much it's my biggest weakness. Offer me ass and I'll do anything for you.
I personally don’t do that, I think if you are with your girlfriend / partner don’t do that because if you are caught you’ll get a well deserved scolding. 🙄
I don't so I wouldn't know.
I've always been pretty good at keeping my eyes up since that's how I was raised, but the few times I have looked at someone it's just because something moved/shined and caught my eye for a moment.
u maybe, because it would be really REALLY weird to check them out while they are their home or something... lol
That’s not all we look at. However we might start there but we don’t stay there we look at the whole package. I mean she could look really attractive but then you get a glimpse at her teeth and it’s game over because her teeth are all fucked up.
Guys like butts. And boobs. And yeah it is rude. Just ignore them. Not much you can do about it. If you’re with a guy it happens less, at least in my experience.
No. Why is your butt out to the extent it is noticeable?
Its like the daft woman who went viral going to gym wearing painted on joggers!
That’s what guys do, if I don’t want it I just wear a long dark dress!
To estimate how much they could straight legged deadlift if other information (like upper back size) is not readily discernible.
When people are attracted to something, you’re gonna look. We have zero control on what we are attracted to. It’s not our fault
The same reason that a dog licks his balls.
Because we can.
I don't. But I do notice when something looks weird, like too short or too tight.
I really don;t know but i like it. Maybe that is all there is to it. You never check out guy's butts?
cause believe it or not, humans are still monkeys. that's why women let their tits and asses show and why men look at them.
Butts jiggle and wiggle around and the motion catches our eyes. This isn't the kind of thing you'll want to give much thought to.
Do you happen to wear an outfit which accentuates your arse?
If that’s the case, it’s like the focal point of a painting. You can’t help but look at it.
I'm not a derriere guy, but a lot of guys are and are drawn to that. They should learn to control themselves, especially when with their girlfriends or wives, but many fail.
I think we do it to see if a woman has the " whole package ". The thing I look at first is her eyes, then smile, hair, figure then butt if everything else looks good
Guys just being fetish 😈 for me boobs , for some buts , same applies for girls , they like man hands or chest etc 👀
Most guys will check out a nice pair of female buttocks. But it would be rude to do it in front of a female like your wife or mother.
"Why do men check out women’s butts on a street?"
Why? Is there a better place to do it?
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because... streets are public zones :)
Free to use for everyone.
Yes almost all guys do that... we just feel the urge to check them out as its our nature... there's no specific reason why we do it... we just can't help it
Same reason girls check out guys man bulges :-)
LOL My girlfriend checks out other women's butts too. LOL
same reason you look at men you find attractive. If you're pretty and dress for looks dont act surprised when your figure is being admired
Why do women check out on men's boners on the street?
I have never… Nor do any women I know…
Literally everyone would be looking if a guy was walking around with a visible penis. Mostly in shock, but some would just enjoy it. Guys don't tend to walk around with their penises plainly visible the way girls walk around with their butts plainly visible though. Fortunately.
@LaFemmeFatale_1 Then that's the same for men.
Personality, because I find some woman have asses that are so beautiful that I truly am appreciating them and yes I'm also having sexual thoughts to some of them.
Biological instinct. This is also why girls show their butts on the street. Subconscious stuff.
By wearing tight clothes. You don't have to avoid it. It's not a flaw
For the same reason women check out men's butts on the street
LaFemmeFatale would kick a guy in the nuts if he looked at her butt in public.
The last few days I've taken quite a few pics of great asses on the street.
women do the same thing so I'll let you figure it out yourself
it is in our genes. we (guys) love women's ass... it is a sexual turn on
This can't be a real question.
I think it's biology. They can't help it.
Ditto vice versa probably
I never miss one (women's)
Genetic programming.
because that's where the poop comes from...
Because they are guys and that is what they do.
It's coded in our DNA... that's just science 🤷🏻
Is it something wrong with it?
Maybe you're just that hot *shrugs*
All men are dirty minded
Because they have them
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