How are woman so unsympathetic that they will take advantage of a person’s heart for there own gain?

[MLGbreezy]

Man I feel like I really know how to pick um. Picking some of the worst girls to fall with has gotta be a sport in the Olympics and I’m right up there either way the best of the best. And you know what I think it’s my nativity more then anything I just don’t understand I never have since I was young I could never understand how someone could use or hurt someone that’s done nothing to wrong them just because it benefitted them. In fact I’d say nowadays in some cases you’d be looked at as stupid for not doing just that. But more than anything in dating this always cuts me deep when ya find out what kind of person someone you like really is behind the nice gestures and kind words. And it’s just nothing I don't know if how to feel I feel a mixture of great anger and frustration so much so that I wanna put my fist through a wall. But also great sadness and pity, I have an empathetic heart at my core it’s turned pessimistic over the last few years almost cold and a lot of the time I seriously wish it would freeze over. But I just can’t there’s always a little bit of hope in there I feel like that’s the childlike part of me just hanging on to my humanity. Anyway sorry for the rant kinda feel like I went off topic but hopefully it all ties together.

[Anonymous]

I've actually heard women on this site say, "guys do not feel emotional pain because they have testosterone". Which is of course ridiculous. But this just goes to show you how some of these women think. To women a man's pain will ALWAYS take a back seat to hers (until she's in a relationship with him), because after that she has a bond to him and his pain becomes part of her pain.

It's best you learn now to stop looking for reassurance from women. You're very unlikely to find it. And if you can't do that then dating probably isn't for you. You're most likely going to have to wait on that possible unicorn to come along.

Wish I had better news for you man.

The REALITY is MOST women are not relationship material. Stop being surprised by these women's actions. And try not to be affected by it. You have to learn what took me a while to learn. Not every woman is a lady. And an even greater number ONLY expect a guy to cater to them.

This is why we have such a problem in the dating world today. Women have almost completely eliminated every incentive for a man to want to date. You'll hear a lot of them complain that men only want sex and that's mainly because many of them have eliminated EVERYTHING ELSE.😆 So of course that's going to drive every decent guy away.

[Juxtapose]

A lot of people in general are pretty bad and it takes a lot of vetting before it's safe to invest yourself. Keep your expectations low and try to enjoy the moments as they come. If someone proves their loyalty then you can let down your guard a bit in my opinion.

[MLGbreezy]

Im never letting my guard down again

[Nikki1989]

(Some) women!

Not all women are unsympathetic or manipulative. Just like men, women are individuals with diverse personalities, and intentions.

[MLGbreezy]

Unfortunately I seem to get stuck with all the shitty ones or the good ones

[Avicenna]

There’s no way to reduce risk to zero

[MLGbreezy]

I said nothing about reducing the risks of anything