If your 21 year old daughter was dating a 44 year old man, what would you do? (Page 2)

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Anonymous
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1 y

I would be pissed but also it’s not like she’s a teenager.

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if she was 19?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  I would probably step in at that point. It’s one if she’s old enough to drink. But that’s on another level.
  
  Again we are talking about “dating”. It’s not like my daughter just fooled around with this guy (which I rather not even know about) but she’s going steady.
  
  But it would be tricky on how to confront it. I know telling her “you can’t do that” make backfire and make her even more attracted to him because he’s forbidden.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if they were just fuck buddies?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  Well the fact that I even know about it would be a problem.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if you found out by accident
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  You are really drilling me on this aren’t you?
  
  Technically she’s a legal adult. I can’t force anything. But I can speak my mind and even cut off any financial support I’m giving her if she’s really defiant.
  
  The bottom line is there is a 99% chance the man has zero plans to get serious with her. She needs to know that and not delude herself otherwise.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Why would she delude herself?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  Do you think the same way now as you did at 19?
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  In what way?
  
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Liz1990 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 35

1 y

I’d guess I’d support her. Cause then they might go under then it could become dangerous.

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Alex-Snow Follow
Guru Age: 20

2 mo
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Just remind her to always use protection and to not be taken advantage of.

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Seangreen Follow
Xper 6 Age: 43

3 mo

She's an adult and can make her own decisions on who she wants to date

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MisfitsLover92 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 33

11 mo

Wouldn't bother me as long as he' s a nice guy and makes her happy.

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i_am_an_engineer Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

1 y

As long as the man isn’t just using her for sex; I wouldn’t have a problem.

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if they were just friends with benefits?
  
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- i_am_an_engineer
  
  1 y
  That’s a “NO” for me.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Why?
  
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- i_am_an_engineer
  
  1 y
  I wouldn’t want my daughter to be with a 44 year old pervert or any main as “FWB”
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What would you do
  
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- i_am_an_engineer
  
  1 y
  I would try to explain her
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  So you want your daughter to have no sex?
  
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Rohaan2020 Follow
Yoda Age: 32

1 y

I’d talk to her about it and if i feel they both are serious then i’m fine with it

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if they were just having sex
  
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- Rohaan2020
  
  1 y
  If she knows what she is doing and the consequences then m ok withr hat
  
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JohnnyBGood2U Follow
Xper 1 Age: 42

9 mo

Ask her about how the relationship would be in ten or twenty years. Ask about how the children in from a relation would be affected by the age difference.

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fivebyfour Follow
Xper 5 Age: 58

4 mo

I'd check the guy out, take things from there,,,

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David5668 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 57

11 mo

As long as they weren’t hurting either of themselves let them get on with it. Age is but a number.

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msc545 Follow
Master Age: 38

1 y
5.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

I would invite them both to dinner and get to know him.

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- msc545
  
  1 y
  The heart wants what the heart wants, and it does not care about age differences.
  
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driven159 Follow
Yoda Age: 71

1 y
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the only thing that matters if she is happy and is treated well

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PeterLegg91 Follow
Yoda Age: 34

1 y

I'd let her get on with it , can't stop her she's a grown woman

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dean53AU Follow
Yoda Age: 57

1 y

If I had a 21yo daughter I wouldn't have any issues with his age as long as he respected her.

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Celticwolf78 Follow
Explorer Age: 47

1 y

Tell her to be careful and if she knows what true love is

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Why true love?
  
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- Celticwolf78
  
  1 y
  Because at that age some don't understand what that means
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  I assume they would be just fuck buddies
  
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- Celticwolf78
  
  1 y
  Probably that normally what happens
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  I wonder why so many think it's a full blown relationship
  
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- Celticwolf78
  
  1 y
  Well it all depends on what she wants
  
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oldtheseroads Follow
Xper 1 Age: 52

1 y

i would beat the shit out of him. sorry not sorry

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Feel sorry for the girl 😔
  
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krin_m Follow
Guru Age: 63

1 y
769 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Probably express my opinion but nothing more than that.

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purplepoppy Follow
Master Age: 25 , mho 53%

1 y
1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Make sure she was on the pill

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

11 mo

Say to her, "where did I go wrong with you"?🤦‍♂️😆

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Abdulwahh Follow
Yoda Age: 27

1 y

Honestly not a big deal as long as the person is decent.

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Kingofkings1992 Follow
Guru Age: 33

1 y
591 opinions shared on Dating topic.

I wouldn’t like it, but they’re both adults so 🤷‍♂️

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Arizona82 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 43

1 y

I would hope that he is a gentleman who treats her well and that she is happy.

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Anonymous
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10 mo

Take her on vacation out of country. Let her see other cultures and meet new people.

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slatyb Follow
Master Age: 51

1 y
12.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Check him out, and talk to her about it.

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What would you say to both?
  
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- slatyb
  
  1 y
  I wouldn't say anything to him. I would look at his progress in life.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if it wasn't good?
  
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- slatyb
  
  1 y
  Then I would talk to her -- what is she getting out of this relationship?
  
  How is your relationship with her? Maybe she's getting something from him that she should have been getting from you and her mother.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What if they were friends with benefits?
  
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- slatyb
  
  1 y
  Then I would ask if she was using a reliable form of birth control.
  
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- slatyb
  
  1 y
  ... and also whether they had been tested for STDs. The big risks are that he is carrying one, or they are careless and she becomes pregnant with his child. Not such a big risk if she's willing to terminate a pregnancy but still better not to take the risk.
  
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Hannajenky Follow
Guru Age: 30

1 y
557 opinions shared on Dating topic.

It’s her choice who she dates

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thatshydork Follow
Xper 7 Age: 22 , mho 32%

1 y

Kick his ass.

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  I am sure you would
  
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Kayleigh2005 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 20 , mho 38%

1 y

How about 19 🥰

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Are you into older men?
  
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- Kayleigh2005
  
  1 y
  They know how to give attention and not put up with my BS 🤣 respect for that
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Okay
  
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Unycorn Follow
Xper 6 Age: 44 , mho 35%

2 mo

She is 21. Nothing. It is her life. Her decision.

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ShivaniPandey Follow
Xper 4 Age: 22 , mho 39%

7 mo

If he's perfect for her then I'll support her.

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BobbieBoy666 Follow
Guru Age: 60 , mho 32%

1 y

Nothing I'm not a parent.

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summiter Follow
Master Age: 34 , mho 40%

1 y

I would make sure she is on birth control

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- DrPepper12
  
  1 y
  You do mean "encourage" right?
  
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- summiter
  
  1 y
  @DrPepper12 Yeah... good point!
  
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exitseven Follow
Master Age: 54

1 y
8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

maybe I would take him fishing.

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Why fishing?
  
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- exitseven
  
  1 y
  he would be a victim of a shark attack.
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Lol is that shark you?
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  I'd just give him a spanking 😊
  
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LEGENDARY4200 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 35

1 y

She's an adult, so nothing

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linka_pat307 Follow
Explorer Age: 21

1 y

negative reactions you cann thiink of

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Like what?
  
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- linka_pat307
  
  1 y
  probably sending herr out of the house
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  That's crazy
  
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- linka_pat307
  
  1 y
  🤣🤣🤣proba becaus she deserves it
  
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JHNS98 Follow
Explorer Age: 27

1 mo

I would question my own parenting choices

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ihateTaylorSwift Follow
Xper 5 Age: 23

1 y

if it can stand up who cares what's the problem

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negrl4a69 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 55

1 y

Nothing she's over 18

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LiamJHayden Follow
Master Age: 30

1 y
4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Make sure the man is a decent person.

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy Follow
Master Age: 39

1 y
5.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

I wouldn't be happy with that ish.

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  Okay but what would you do
  
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Graptemys79 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 46

11 mo

I would wish her luck and happiness.

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jahaims Follow
Master Age: 33

1 y
6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Tell her sorry for failing her as a parent

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CubaPirate Follow
Master Age: 55

1 y

Stop prying into her personal life

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  I am not
  
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MrPiercedD Follow
Xper 1 Age: 40

1 y

I would ask him for his bank statement.

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noohair Follow
Guru Age: 71

1 y
2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Nothing, she is an adult.

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captain_voidwalker Follow
Yoda Age: 40

1 y
501 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Nothing they're both consenting adults

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Jackson2005 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 20

1 y

If she’s21 that’s on her 🤷‍♂️

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curious_lady Follow
Xper 1 Age: 30

1 y

That would not go well for that man

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  What would you do
  
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boredquestions Follow
Xper 1 Age: 30

1 y

i would have her end it. its weird

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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  How would you do it?
  
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- boredquestions
  
  1 y
  are you datting a 44 year old?
  
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- MK1997
  
  1 y
  No I am not
  
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- boredquestions
  
  1 y
  okay
  
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Malemajor Follow
Xper 4 Age: 41 , mho 38%

4 mo

Nothing !

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TheKillerJason Follow
Xper 2 Age: 41

4 mo

Kick her out my house

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frankinla Follow
Xper 6 Age: 44

1 y

Ask him if he has a daughter.

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Open-minded99 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 50

1 y

Nothing. Her choice

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cavedweller1973 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 52

5 mo

Murder lol

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Blendi4474 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 19

8 mo

Bye bye bye

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lanarosine Follow
Xper 2 Age: 27

10 mo

Make him wear condom

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