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I would be pissed but also it’s not like she’s a teenager.
What if she was 19?
I would probably step in at that point. It’s one if she’s old enough to drink. But that’s on another level.
Again we are talking about “dating”. It’s not like my daughter just fooled around with this guy (which I rather not even know about) but she’s going steady.
But it would be tricky on how to confront it. I know telling her “you can’t do that” make backfire and make her even more attracted to him because he’s forbidden.
What if they were just fuck buddies?
Well the fact that I even know about it would be a problem.
What if you found out by accident
You are really drilling me on this aren’t you?
Technically she’s a legal adult. I can’t force anything. But I can speak my mind and even cut off any financial support I’m giving her if she’s really defiant.
The bottom line is there is a 99% chance the man has zero plans to get serious with her. She needs to know that and not delude herself otherwise.
Why would she delude herself?
Do you think the same way now as you did at 19?
In what way?
I’d guess I’d support her. Cause then they might go under then it could become dangerous.
Just remind her to always use protection and to not be taken advantage of.
She's an adult and can make her own decisions on who she wants to date
Wouldn't bother me as long as he' s a nice guy and makes her happy.
As long as the man isn’t just using her for sex; I wouldn’t have a problem.
What if they were just friends with benefits?
That’s a “NO” for me.
Why?
I wouldn’t want my daughter to be with a 44 year old pervert or any main as “FWB”
What would you do
I would try to explain her
So you want your daughter to have no sex?
I’d talk to her about it and if i feel they both are serious then i’m fine with it
What if they were just having sex
If she knows what she is doing and the consequences then m ok withr hat
Ask her about how the relationship would be in ten or twenty years. Ask about how the children in from a relation would be affected by the age difference.
I'd check the guy out, take things from there,,,
As long as they weren’t hurting either of themselves let them get on with it. Age is but a number.
I would invite them both to dinner and get to know him.
The heart wants what the heart wants, and it does not care about age differences.
the only thing that matters if she is happy and is treated well
I'd let her get on with it , can't stop her she's a grown woman
If I had a 21yo daughter I wouldn't have any issues with his age as long as he respected her.
Tell her to be careful and if she knows what true love is
Why true love?
Because at that age some don't understand what that means
I assume they would be just fuck buddies
Probably that normally what happens
I wonder why so many think it's a full blown relationship
Well it all depends on what she wants
i would beat the shit out of him. sorry not sorry
Feel sorry for the girl 😔
Probably express my opinion but nothing more than that.
Make sure she was on the pill
Say to her, "where did I go wrong with you"?🤦♂️😆
Honestly not a big deal as long as the person is decent.
I wouldn’t like it, but they’re both adults so 🤷♂️
I would hope that he is a gentleman who treats her well and that she is happy.
Take her on vacation out of country. Let her see other cultures and meet new people.
Check him out, and talk to her about it.
What would you say to both?
I wouldn't say anything to him. I would look at his progress in life.
What if it wasn't good?
Then I would talk to her -- what is she getting out of this relationship?
How is your relationship with her? Maybe she's getting something from him that she should have been getting from you and her mother.
What if they were friends with benefits?
Then I would ask if she was using a reliable form of birth control.
... and also whether they had been tested for STDs. The big risks are that he is carrying one, or they are careless and she becomes pregnant with his child. Not such a big risk if she's willing to terminate a pregnancy but still better not to take the risk.
It’s her choice who she dates
Kick his ass.
I am sure you would
How about 19 🥰
Are you into older men?
They know how to give attention and not put up with my BS 🤣 respect for that
Okay
She is 21. Nothing. It is her life. Her decision.
If he's perfect for her then I'll support her.
Nothing I'm not a parent.
I would make sure she is on birth control
You do mean "encourage" right?
@DrPepper12 Yeah... good point!
maybe I would take him fishing.
Why fishing?
he would be a victim of a shark attack.
Lol is that shark you?
I'd just give him a spanking 😊
She's an adult, so nothing
negative reactions you cann thiink of
Like what?
probably sending herr out of the house
That's crazy
🤣🤣🤣proba becaus she deserves it
I would question my own parenting choices
if it can stand up who cares what's the problem
Nothing she's over 18
Make sure the man is a decent person.
I wouldn't be happy with that ish.
Okay but what would you do
I would wish her luck and happiness.
Tell her sorry for failing her as a parent
Stop prying into her personal life
I am not
I would ask him for his bank statement.
Nothing, she is an adult.
Nothing they're both consenting adults
If she’s21 that’s on her 🤷♂️
That would not go well for that man
What would you do
i would have her end it. its weird
How would you do it?
are you datting a 44 year old?
No I am not
okay
Nothing !
Kick her out my house
Ask him if he has a daughter.
Nothing. Her choice
Murder lol
Bye bye bye
Make him wear condom