If your 20 year old daughter got into a relationship with a 31 year old man, in which he acts like her father while she behaves like his 3 year old daughter; they still have sex of course. How would you feel about your daughter being in such a relationship?
I'm not sure. My daughter will be 17 this yr and thankfully she hasn't had me worry to much about her relationships. Even though I met her father when I was 15 and he was 22 and I was pregnant at 16, and married at 17. He was a very controlling man so I am sure my parents prayed I would change my mind everyday and even tho I knew it was a huge mistake I went through with marrying him in hopes he would change and my daughter would have both parents in her life. She did have that until she was 6 and started asking why daddy always gave mommy black eyes and always tried to kill mommy, that was enough for me. I found a house for her and I and went through hell when I told him we were moving and I tried to get our things. So I don't know how I would feel about that situation but I probably wouldn't be happy about it.
I would want to make sure that man's intentions towards my daughter are pure and genuine and he's not trying to take advantage of her because of her age.
I'd be rather concerned about my grown up daughter acting like a toddler.
But then she's an adult, she can live how she wants
90% odds she had some awful trauma when she was a kid. But not dealing with it is certainly not doing herself any favors.
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Yeah, well, since they're both adults, their respective ages don't matter to me. It's her life and she decides who she dates. I'd just want to her date a guy who respects her, treats her well and with whom she's compatible.
I would lose my mind personally. I simply was not raised that way...
It's her life. I can't control what she does nor will I. I'd rather her not hate me and not want to speak to me.
As much as I wanna say I would be disappointed, I have to remember that it's her life and she can choose to do what she wants to with it. I no longer have any say over what she does.
It would not matter to me as long as they love each other that is all that matters to me
The age gap is something I'm not too fussed about. The weird dynamic grosses me out.
She be gots issues and siiit, but it's HER business.
In every parenting life there comes a time to cut the young ones loose.
Tell her I'm no longer her daddy since she found a new one. 🤣
That up to her
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