Can you be with someone who has an amazing personality but their looks aren't up to the mark in your eyes?

[Rashmixoxo]

[Wallythewalrus2]

Yes, it happened to me. She did have an amazing body (my first glimpse of her was her backside). Long golden blonde hair, long sexy legs, hour glass figure, with a sexy tushy! When she turned around, I was honestly shocked. Her face was probably a 4 and that's being generous! Later that night a mutual friend introduced us and she was amazing! Funny, sweet, very feminine and somewhat outgoing. I actually fell for her. Just to let you know about her looks, I overheard my own mother telling my brother (on the phone) about her. Her exact words: " Wally has a new girlfriend. Her name is Jenny, she's not pretty at all but is really sweet and has a really cute body)". That hurt!

[Subtle_Luminescence]

No, I wouldn't be able to do that. Physical attraction is a necessity. Besides, the thought may bug me and my partner in future that they're not good looking enough for me.

[Rashmixoxo]

I never thought of that! Makes sense!

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I'd only date a guy that I found attractive physically and personality. He doesn't have to fit some beauty standard. I've had crushes on guys who were short/tall/muscular/skinny/chubby/ etc

[Anonymous]

Depends. I’m pretty broad minded about people’s appearance but if for some reason I wasn’t attracted to them physically I would rather just be friends with them.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, as long as she isn’t butt ugly

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep, I actually learned getting attached to their personality might change your mind on that, it's unbelievable how powerful emotional attachment can be, you can actually start liking their appearance as well, it happened to me

[Rashmixoxo]

Cool.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Wow I wanna hear this story

[ChicoFromThe305]

Of course you do 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Ok just message me ☺️

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think what I've shared is enough information on the topic 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Fair enough

[Anonymous]

It could happen. Most men tend to go for looks first. Which isn’t always the best things, sometimes you find out she has a bad attitude. But over time if you get to interact w someone a lot who you didn’t find attractive physically speaking, over time they may grow on you.

[morganherrel]

Do you like him? Love him? If so, then you can appreciate him for the way he looks even if other girls would not find him attractive.

If you can't like/love him because there is not enough romantic attraction, then I think that's valid also.

Which one are you?

[Garud]

Yes. Looks will fade away with time but personality remains

[Nikki1989]

I'm not concerned about looks too much at all.

[Kelly6]

@Rashmixoxo that kind of person is mostly moved to friend zone by many, because for partner you need sex and for sex looks are as much important as personality.

[Ironic_Method]

Probably not, but I'm sure exceptions can be made. I find my partners' personalities attractive along with their looks.

[Anonymous]

When you get to be my age the women start looking a little gross. If you're just looking at looks you probably going to disappointed with everyone.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes i can looks aren't everything all that matters is how she treats me

[Kaneki05]

Of course, Character > Looks.

[Rohaan2020]

Yes i can… if we’re compatible

[Anonymous]

No, I could not.