Girls, Should I give this guy a chance?

[Anonymous]

i met the guy once but didn't feel physical attraction, maybe just a little emotional connection, but far from wanting to kiss or anything else. i sometimes worry that it's my fault that i dont feel anything. cause he looks good on paper, but i dont feel any attraction excitement, which im searching for, because i have felt it before, when you want to be close to person, emotionally and physically. So i have a question for other girls - if you have been in this situation what did you do and maybe it changed after a few meetings? im very thankfull for the advice!

[SueShe]

You have to know what your ultimate motive, your final goal is when you want to have a connection with that person.

Are you seeking a long term relationship, like 20+ years or just a casual fling that you will dispose of in a few days, weeks or months?

Only you can answer that question and you have to be honest with yourself.

If you are planning a long term relationship, then looks are secondary. More important are characters and personality since looks are ephemeral and fade with time.

If on the other hand, you intend to dispose of that guy after use, then go for the looks and then the other assets are not really important since they will never really impact you.

I have never personally been in that situation but I am trying to place myself in your shoes.