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I did that bc i was hurt after seeing his comments on reddit. I did that bc i was hurt when he told me he loved a girl even online but he never told me he loved me even tho in the past i told him i was attacged to him but he said he doesn't want a LDR. Okay i understand i dont want a LDR too but i wanted to be with you.. You also always mention that you're jealous of the guys that get to see me, you said you are possessive towards me and you wanted me all to yourself but you never told me that you loved me, but i had a feeling that you loved me, i felt it, you said am a goddess and no girl can be compared to me.. I don't know why you did that. But sorry for ghosting you i wish i can text you now telling you why
I regret ghosting and blocking an online friend?
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(25-29) I did that bc i was hurt after seeing his comments on reddit. I did that bc i was hurt when he told me he loved a girl even online but he never told me he loved me even tho in the past i told him i was attacged to him but he said he doesn't want a LDR. Okay i understand i dont want a LDR too but i wanted to be with you.. You also always mention that you're jealous of the guys that get to see me, you said you are possessive towards me and you wanted me all to yourself but you never told me that you loved me, but i had a feeling that you loved me, i felt it, you said am a goddess and no girl can be compared to me.. I don't know why you did that. But sorry for ghosting you i wish i can text you now telling you why
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Yeah, I understand why you felt hurt when you saw those things. It's confusing when someone treats you special in one way but then doesn't fully commit or admit their feelings, even if they say other things that imply affection. Him not telling you he loved you when you opened up must have stung, especially after you got attached.
Ghosting him was probably just a reaction to protect your heart in the moment. But I don't think continuing no contact will make you feel better either. Maybe you could send him a message explaining why you pulled away, and that you wanted more clarity on where you both stood. Apologize for ghosting, but also make clear you need honesty if you're going to continue a friendship. Seeing if he's willing to have that type of talk could help bring you both closure, in a good way or bad. At least you'll know you tried to resolve it before fully closing that door. Just do what feels right for your healing - you deserve to have your feelings validated after putting yourself out there. I'm here if you want to vent more too!
Im scared he ignore me
I get why you're scared he might just ignore you if you try to reach out. That's a totally valid concern, especially after you ghosted him before.
But you know what, I really think it's worth taking that chance. Yeah, he might not respond or he could even get upset. But at least you'd know you tried to make things right and have that closure.
It's always nerve-wracking putting yourself out there, but sometimes you just gotta go for it, ya know? The worst that can happen is he ignores you, and then at least you know where you stand. At least you won't have that lingering "what if" feeling.
Plus, if he really does care about you like he seemed to, he might just appreciate the apology and honesty. Even if he's not interested in rekindling things, at least you can have that peaceful resolution.
I know it's scary, but you gotta give it a shot. You'll feel so much better getting those feelings off your chest, regardless of how he responds. And who knows, maybe he's been hoping you'd reach out too.
Just take a deep breath, craft a thoughtful message, and put it out there. If he blows you off, at least you can start to move on. But if he's receptive, you could end up reconnecting in a really meaningful way. It's worth the risk, girl. You got this!
It’s pointless to text him now. Like if you did, what would be different? Not like your feelings for him just magically disappear, if anything reconnecting with him would make you fall in love all over again. Why put yourself through such pain? When you know you can’t be together? I get that you miss him and all but you are better off apart.
Then it’s only been a week? Girl of course you miss him and feel like this, no time has passed at all. Just because you feel this way it does not mean going back is the smart thing to do. It’s a dead end road and pointless heartache.
True! U described what am feeling exactly! I won't text him again and if he does text me again after months I don't know what to do
He deleted me off whatsapp and i thought he blocked me so i texted him yesterday to test if the text get two ticks and it did so i removed the text. so he didn't block me and i was so awkward. Im sure he saw it
If or when he does get around to texting you, I’d do my best not to respond. The temptation will be there and if you did respond then that isn’t “bad”, it’s just pointless that’s all. Cutting ties is not meant to be easy, especially if you still love him and have hope. But it’s so important to keep things in perspective. When you have weak moments (and you will have many), find a distraction and remember why you’re having to do all this in the first place. Things will get worse before they get easier but it WILL get easier, there’s just no other choice. We all move on, we all heal and find new people, that’s just life.
Too late. They will be mad about ghosting. It is over.
Ik. Its been like a week