- 9 d
I am married but as an observer, online dating, social media, the promiscuity of women, the family laws on divorce, the entitlement of women, the worship of women through feminism and the vilification of men in the culture.
If you just want to get laid it may be good for you since women, overall, are tramps these days.
If you wanted to just find a nice, family oriented girl, who has being a wife and mom as her main goals and who just wants to get married and not party, go to college, drink, have a hoe phase... you are in a dessert my man.
Get on BC, lose virginity at 16, go to college even if you don't really have a goal, party, drink, go wild, spring break, clubbing, get ran through, then look for some stable guy after 30 CHADS gave you the tingles, get herpes, get some tattoos and piercings, whip out your list of 100 demands your man must live up to because you are the queen and of such high value, women are holy and special and all deserve a fairy tail and to be worshipped all men are toxic, "controlling", "abusive", you are a tramp but men owe you traditional courting, marriage, financial entitlement, romance.
It is pretty bad out there.
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2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. clueless, but dating always is and has been a lot of work forever! You get out of it what you put into it.
Relationships that are successful are not found in 10 minutes on a computer, in this world of getting things instantly finding the right person is not one of those things. You have to go through the same stuff that we have had to go through as well as those that were here before us.00 Reply
- 10 d
Yes oml, the few men I talk to are just BORING. Flat out, maybe this is a gen z issue but it’s so difficult to get to know anyone now a days, when I try to talk to someone they have zero communication skills so the conversation will get dry very quickly. I’ll be the only one asking them questions about themselves, it’s just tiring, a lot of men feel entitled to the attention of women yet put no effort in themselves to receive the attention they desire so badly. Zero self awareness. I’d rather stay single forever after seeing the shitshow that is dating as a young adult
44 Reply- 10 d
That's partially an age thing, but Millennials have a similar issue.
- 9 d
@Staximus I've seen it too! Apparently a lot of them can't tell time on analogue clocks, or write cursive either.
I love writing cursive. I love people's signatures. I think they're gorgeous.
- 8 d
yes there are no new relationships being formed ever this year
it's an anomaly... i hear if you try to break it then you die
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- 10 d
it's dead for most men with low testosterone.
33 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Don't be silly. The problem is mainly expectations of dating. Most people just are not relationship material, but think they are.
So they aren't really being "rejected" out of hand. But not really the sort of people who can be trusted in others lives.
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Since people are still dating, no.
And dating as a concept of bumping into a good looking man / woman who peaks your interest & you talk to get to know each other then you decide to ask that person out & you both sit at a restaurant, go to the movies, etc. that is 100% still alive and will always be a thing for centuries to come, hate to break it to everyone rooting for human romance to die because it won’t.
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- 10 d
@Vivaldi “it is not a choice for a male”
Ever listen to Freewill by Rush? In that song “if you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice. you can choose from phantom fears or… I will choose a path that’s clear, I will choose freewill”.
You made a choice by not taking part therefore men do have a choice, I’m a man and I chose my girlfriend. - 10 d
@Vivaldi “I never date”, “If I can’t ever date, it is not a choice”. Those two negate each other since you can’t make up the rules of your small world, that is you holding yourself back not a fault of women as a whole. If you blame women then you are delusional.
Again, “If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.” Cool you choose not to date, if you can never date then you can never participate therefore can’t have a deeper meaningful opinion like me who denied other women & found my girlfriend who I’m dating currently. Sucks to suck Ig.
- 9 d
It's probably dead for a larger demographic than it used to be. If you're an average to below average man trying to date 20s women, then I wonder if dating is actually dead for you right now.
But there are still people dating. It has even expanded for other demographics, such as fat women and obnoxious women.
And like others have said, the essential concept behind dating will continue to exist for many years to come.
00 Reply - 9 d
Been dead for me ever since my last girlfriend shoved 6 inches of serrated steel between my colon and liver.
And on an unrelated not dear god gag can we fix the glit h that keeps adding text code to the end of my posts it's driving me nuts00 Reply 2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not entirely, but if you are looking for something more traditional outside of religious communities, and you are a man or woman looking for your equal, it is tough. Maybe it’s always been that way, but I think the plethora of porn and easy sluts have had a negative impact, not to mention dating apps
00 Reply- Anonymous(45 Plus)11 d
Only if you're really trying to have a relationship. If you want to be successful you need to always be working at it. And working on multiple women. 1. Because most women today only want a man who's in demand. 2. Most women today are at war with other women. It's not that they want you as much as they want to deny other women. 3 women today don't want a guy that is to settable. There's no draw. There's nothing of value there if she can you easily.
00 Reply - 9 d
I retired from dating or attempting to actively date when I got 30 earlier this year 2024 - I'm just "a sort of old timer now" in a humour sense re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
02 Reply- 9 d
So I felt I was happy to give up dating
- 9 d
*turned 30, not got 30 - error.
1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Social media has ruined dating and courtship. Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex. Women wanted equality and freedom. This is what we have now. Men and women wondering what the fu@k happened.
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It's not dead. But I noticed that a lot of people give up very easily. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
00 Reply - 10 d
No. I think Millennials are FINALLY starting to figure out that the way we approach (ed) dating was absolutely insane, so we've started to genuinely loosen up a little.
00 Reply - 10 d
What? Why would it be dead, seems like there's never been a better time to date. There's a plethora of women, there's less stigma on permiscuios women. I would use this time to enjoy the current scene if I were you.
00 Reply - 10 d
Maybe they’ll make family and divorce court more fair for dudes to get the birthrates up, eventually
10 Reply 3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes.
Many Girls are married to their phones and social media.
00 Reply- 9 d
It ended back in the mid 80's as far as I was concerned. That was my last breakup and the last time I would be in a relationship. I decided then at age 20/21 due to materialism I decided back then dating over.
00 Reply - 10 d
yes, im married.
I see others dating. some making baby humans.
00 Reply - 10 d
When you look like me dating will always be hard LOL
00 Reply No not really so many people are just chronically online so they lack social skills and don’t have any story’s taking that aside everyone else is fine tho
00 Reply462 opinions shared on Dating topic. Hell no. After a decade or two I'm about to woo, and wine and dine poper conservative ladies. Ultra conservetives. The type of ladies that make soy boys run crying for mama.
00 Reply- 10 d
yeah. fuck that. haven't dated since corona. maybe it's my age but I don't know. dating has been a shit show for me since i started trying it.
00 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)4 d
dating has been dead for many years now
expect a shit load of breakups and divorces as a result of this election cycle
00 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)9 d
I don’t try. I used to but there was no benefit. Luckily men have tits and lipstick now so they can all stick together with their confusion and desperation 😂
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Wow, it’s no wonder you chose to be anonymous judging by the stupidity and hate inside your opinion and taking accountability for it.
- Opinion Owner8 d
Who cares who’s anonymous, it’s irrelevant
- 10 d
Yes, it is dead. There is no point in dating anymore.
00 Reply I believe there's always light at the end of every dark tunnel. Dating is dead as long as there's hope for a better suitor
00 Reply- 10 d
It's hard, there are new challenges and a widening world view gap, but it's not dead, never.
00 Reply - 10 d
Nope, but guys who think so make it easier for me.
00 Reply - 10 d
I feel like as long as I'm fat it's always gonna be dead for me lol
01 Reply 5.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Dead for all men who are not rich, 6'+ tall, and good-looking.
00 Reply- 11 d
Wouldn’t say that. Apps are playing a big part though
02 Reply- 11 d
If dating apps aren't dead why is it impossible to get any matches
- 11 d
Luck of the draw
- 4 d
These days, it’s more of contract. Love is dead
00 Reply only those who looking for who looking for something serious.
00 Reply- 9 d
Effort is dead.
10 Reply - 10 d
If It Is There Is Always 2025!
00 Reply - u11 d
I've never had any issue with it
00 Reply - 9 d
It's been dead for me since 1995!
15 Reply- 9 d
That’s before I was even born! I guess I was just born into the era of dating
- 9 d
The worst era for dating*
- 9 d
@SolitarySolace so far, I've only ever been on 3 or 4 dates.
- 9 d
I haven’t been on a date in maybe 8 or 9 years 🤷🏻♂️
- 9 d
@SolitarySolace I went on one in summer 1980, another about 5 years later, another a few months later but, she made it pretty clear that she wasn't interested in me romantically another shortly after that and, in that case, she wanted a mutual friend to come along with us and, before the date was even half over, THEY were a couple! Another maybe 2 years later but, in that case, she wanted a friend of hers to come along. I think they're married, now. Another in `02 but, she brought one or 2 of her kids and her best friend to come with her. And, 2 more in the early `10's with casual friends where I KNEW nothing was gonna come of it! That's not including the 3 "dates" I had with a close married friend of mine.
I know that's about twice as many as I said before but, I forgot about a few of the earlier ones. But, not a single one of them panned out into anything beyond just that one date. None resulted in sex and most only got me a hug.
- 10 d
It is if you aren't Chad.
30 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)10 d
Yep. Too many clowns in this world. 😤
10 Reply - 4 d
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it surely is
00 Reply - 9 d
Of course not.
00 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Hoeflation killed it
10 Reply- 5 d
For men in American yes
00 Reply - 10 d
No, far from it.
00 Reply I don't know. Men don’t ask me on dates.
04 Reply- 10 d
@Billlewis you laugh?
- 9 d
😂😂😂
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How about you approach?
- 9 d
I’d say so
10 Reply - 10 d
I don't think so.
00 Reply - 10 d
Pretty much
10 Reply Never ever
00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. FOR ME YES
00 Reply- 10 d
Mostly.
00 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)9 d
RIP dating
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)10 d
yes, it is.
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