What do I do about this?

[LilSweetChicky]

so I have a crush on a guy who is in his early 20s I am in my 30s so I decided to cast a spell on him last night hoping it will work, mind you this guy has a partner and a kid but I just... I'm hoping someone understands, sometimes the heart wants what it wants and I really wanna be with him, or light the flame in his heart for me, the flame that I know is there because we hit it off so well the first time we met and there was so much chemistry even the astrology websites say we are so compatible. I never had a pull like this before just being drawn so much to someone, am I wrong? Should I just move on or fight the good fight? I just wanna know

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This question is closed now I decided I'm gonna move on, thanks for the advice!!!

[Account]

You are 31 according to this and you are doing a spell to get the attention of a guy who is in his early 20s and has a partner and a kid? Please re-read your question from a third point of view and till you realize how insane it sounds. Thanks.

[LilSweetChicky]

Yeah I understand but I feel like we have so much potential... Okay I do feel stupid for doing this last night I just I don't know I just really wish we could be together like I can unto the spell but... Maybe you're right I'm thinking about the situation as a whole honestly

[Account]

If a friend of yours was in a similar situation what would you recommend her to do?

[LilSweetChicky]

To be honest with you I would recommend doing what I did but the reason I'm not so confident in it anymore is because my sister told me off recently and now I feel really dumb *sighs*

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm gonna break your spell for him





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[LilSweetChicky]

Why would you do that?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause it's not right, if you want him to fall for you, you shouldn't artificially manipulate a natural emotional connection, besides there's truly nothing like the real thing, would you rather he love you because he chose to do so or he loves you because he had no choice, im doing both of y'all a favor.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Of things weren't meant to be, you can't force it, cause the results that were meant to be will always happen

[LilSweetChicky]

Right and I guess he loves his partner because if it weren't the case then he wouldn't be with her or have a kid with her, but the thing is I did think we had some kind of chemistry but I guess you are right I do think I'm in the wrong for doing that *sighs* you are 100% correct

[ChicoFromThe305]

Look, i get you want to experience love for yourself and have this special thing in your life but you really think trying to force it is the healthiest way to do it? You can have the same things in life as them but stealing it is surely not the proper way to receive those blessings, there's plenty fish in the sea as they say.

[LilSweetChicky]

No forcing things isn't a healthy way, I appreciate that you understood that I was craving what they had but I want things to be organic so I'm just gonna go to confession before Thanksgiving because I did do something stupid, this was really stupid, I wish them nothing but the best and will never look at this guy's Facebook ever again, it's for the best.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's good, trust the waiting process, it's a huge part of finding love, moving on in this situation is the best choice and you won't regret it when you find your actual chemistry with another guy, then you'll be able to start your own family and your own life with nothing extra necessary

[LilSweetChicky]

🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏 God bless!!!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Likewise 💯💯💯💯🙏🏽

[slatyb]

Move on. Seek professional counseling. by the way spells aren't real.

[Iron_Man]

You can’t cast a spell it doesn’t work on Christian people

[Avicenna]

Move on, of course