What do I do about this?

[Anonymous]

The girl I love has a child.

I’ve been searching for this girl for 7 years because I used to admire her a lot back in High School and we lost contacts, but still that feeling inside me didn’t fade away. We got in contact just recently and I’m not gonna lie I’ve been so happy.
After some time I told her how much I really admired her and till date. I even thought she was gonna have some attitude because people change but she was so cool and the vibe was still there…. I always loved the energy when we have a call.
So she explained all what she’s been through. I was so teary and empathized with her.

She had intimate with her past partner and the guy left her with the baby alone. I was really pissed for what he did.
I felt so bad because I felt I was too late, I should have found her earlier to prevent all this pain.

So she asked if she had a child would i still love her? That was way before she revealed to me.

I explained to her since I’m not even living on my own and saving money for my Masters and other plans it’s really gonna be tough for me.

The child lives with her mom. I can accept the child and her but that’s not what I want, that’s not the path I wanted to take🥺

It really hurts, all her friends abandoned her, called her names because of what happened.

I don’t know what to do about this. It feels heavy on my heart.

Searching for someone for 7 years only to hear all these, I’ve really sobbed.

[SaRang21]

If you love her, then think of a plan, make a plan. But I hope she doesn’t see you as a “plan B” just because she think she will not be able to find love again.
But if you really do love her, I think you can think of making a plan to be with her. You can finish your masters degree, and during this time, she can work on her own to raise the kid, when you finish your master degree, and love her, you both can work and create a family.