What do I do about this?

[Anonymous]

I used to love my stature and baby face but now... I don't know.
I look younger than my age and my petite stature isn't helping me.
People mistake me for a minor and treat me like some high school girl which really pisses me off and the worst of it all is that I'm really fragile and can easily get beaten up. Lol.
As a result, lots of teenage boys wants to date me - I probably look like their kind of girl.
Honestly I want people to see me as more than a delicate little girl who can't get things done by herself.
Girls my age are already getting married and I'm stuck with some immature teenagers looking my way.

• I'm not ready for marriage tho'😅

[MrHopper]

haha, i think there is some one for everyone. A friend of mine who is like bigger than me in stature (i am 6ft and broad and he is bigger than me) just married a petite girl a few years younger who looks 1/2 her age.

Guys and girls like different things, you are you and you are the best you thats around so embrace it and some one will love you for it!

[MrHopper]

Thanks for MHO

[Wise4myage]

You should be proud of your body.

[Wise4myage]

And don't stress about looking younger, and look to date older guys.

[Asker]

You think I should go ahead and date younger guys?

[Wise4myage]

No, older guys who are more mature and know what they want.

[Asker]

Oh.. ok.
Thanks

[Wise4myage]

You bet. I love petite girls.

[boggboss]

So act in a way that makes them treat u differently

[Asker]

When I do they call me arrogant!

[boggboss]

And that matters why?

[kingcarterv]

I don't know your age but I get what you're saying. Unless you dress more sophisticated or even more "adult" I don't feel it'll help cuz younger kids be dressing like that now. So truthfully I think you gotta live with it and assert yourself telling people you're a grown ass adult

[CaptainRonnie]

Don't worry, the ravages of age come for everyone eventually