Is there a default look that makes you want to meet a woman or at least makes it more likely?

[msc545]

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So for me, a tall thin woman with long straight hair and nice eyes is definitely a default look for me - I will probably at least want to talk to her. Shallow, I know. Sorry.

[nolabels]

Shallow?
Not at all, in my opinion.
We are attracted to that which we are attracted to.
To attempt to pursue a physical, romantic relationship with someone whom we find less than ideally attractive can lead to many problems.

I've found over the years that there are definitely certain female characteristics which catch my attention over and over again.

If one were to put together a collection of photographs of women whom I've been infatuated with over my life, one could easily see my most desired "default" favored female form.

It took some decades for me to fully realize that degree of commonality of my specific attraction to women, with me finally making that fully conscious realization several years ago, in my late 50s.
Of course, my internal being was aware of my particular preferences since who knows when, birth maybe, but it took a long while for my consciousness to catch up to my reality.

To again ask the question as to whether this is a matter of shallowness, I say absolutely not.
Over the years, I've been "wowed" by my visually encountering many lovely women, having many varying physical characteristics, of which of course there are myriad numbers of examples in the world.
When I encounter a woman who embodies my own special formula of lovely womanhood, the word "shallow" is the furthest notion from what takes place within my entire being.

Good question.

Cheers.

[msc545]

Thank you!

[ProbablyClueless]

Long dark hair. Pouty lips. Dramatic eyes

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well-developed calves and long hair with a perky butt. I've a weakness for grey eyes and for redheads though, not going to lie.

[Crimsyjo]

Haha I don't meet women.. but for a man, yes and no. I can't describe it but I just know. Nice face. Nice body. Doesn't look like a boy. So maybe a good jaw line and some stubble. Good hair. Good style of clothes.

[exitseven]

If she is in shape. Not skinny but a little muscular like it is obvious she works out

[KrakenAttackin]

Interesting question. I don't really have a type, except that she be feminine, kind, and have a great smile.

[Apple1996]

Not really with looks but a guy with a nice voice can draw me in real fast

[Sevenpointfive]

yes. i think most people strive to look younger

[slatyb]

An intelligent look.

[NathanDavis]

yes, but there's a few...