Should high value partners be considered ones that have good values or desirable traits?

[shortster]

What would you consider to be high value? Is it actual moral values (personality)? Or is it desirable traits (physical)? Or maybe something else?

Values

Traits

Other

[ProbablyClueless]

Values, definitely. I've had the chance to date some truly gorgeous women. Dating them was the exact same as dating any other woman, except you have to deal with more insecure antics.

If you want to have a good relationship, your values have to align.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Mixture of physical beauty, personality and values.

[IslaTheWitch]

nothing... as such a thing doesn't exist...

there are people... and we need time to get to know them... and with this knowledge comes the realization of whether we like them or not...

and as everyone has their own preferences, we see as interesting different people

[shortster]

Yet it is talked about quite frequently

[IslaTheWitch]

flat-earthers also make some noise... :D

[shortster]

Not a tenth as much as people talking about dating market value.

[IslaTheWitch]

people always talk about something... the more insecure people are, the more theories they create to hide their insecurities behind :D

[shortster]

Hmm, that is an interesting theory.🤔

[NathanDavis]

I just don't label people like that...

great people are great people... period

doesn't have to be about higher or lower than... others

[ClassicDropout]

Hmm probably people that don't buy into the "high-value, low-value" rhetoric. It's incredibly distasteful.

[shortster]

Unfortunately it is ubiquitous, hence the question.

[Anonymous]

They should. But let's be honest, they're not.

[In_Trance]

Everything you just said there is subjective

[shortster]

I am asking for your subjective opinion

[Adel50]

Both.