Is it normal for me to think that my boyfriend is less attractive than I am?

[Anonymous]

Before starting a relationship with my boyfriend, I was very indecisive because I wasn’t sure about his appearance. He didn’t seem ugly, but he wasn’t my type. However, his character and the way he treated me caught my attention. I realized I missed him, and that’s when we became a couple. I love him now, and I’m happy in the relationship, but questions like this cross my mind. He tells me a lot that I’m very beautiful, but I don’t see myself as madly in love with him like he is with me. I don’t want to say I love him less, because I truly love him, and I’m really happy with him, but I’m not as passionate about him as he is about me.

[slatyb]

It is possible to be objective about a partner's general attractiveness to others, while still wanting to be with them. I dated a woman who was not the most beautiful but she was very bright, funny, wise, kind, and the sex was great. I still miss her.

[In_Trance]

The reality is all women believe this.
Of course women want good looking guys but the guy can never be more attractive than she is or the relationship won't last

[Asker]

why do you think guy can never be more attractive abd thats why the relationship won't last

[In_Trance]

Women are too insecure about their looks. That's why they feel the need to use makeup but that's a different story.
If she is better looking than him then he has no reason to look elsewhere. If he is better looking to her then she is insecure thinking that he will constantly be looking or someone else will be looking at him

[moneymagnet24]

Yes it's totally normal...

[Anonymous]

How do u both look

[Asker]

i don’t understand wdym

[Opinion Owner]

Describe looks?

[Asker]

I have fair skin, hazel eyes, and hair that is between straight and wavy. I am 160 cm. He has a darker complexion, is 176 cm and has curly hair.

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh. Why don’t u love him that much

[Asker]

no i love him just before i met him he wasn’t my type that i imagined that’s why i am confused sometimes about my feelings