Is anyone fit but has an overweight partner?

[josepppiiii]

I’ve been with this girl for a few years and she has a tummy going on lol. I was wondering if anyone else here is with an overweight partner. The reason I’m with her is because she’s nice to me. I’ve been with skinny fit and what would be considered a hot girl before but would rather be with someone who is nice to me and excited to be around me so that’s why I love her and her belly. So I’m just curious to hear others opinions. Thanks

[HawkPerception]

It's always the guys that suffer from this. The women always shame the guy for not loving them no matter what and that their size shouldn't matter if they love them. That's just not true at all and women need to lose the sloth mentality.

If you don't put effort into your fitness and appearance, it shows you don't care to look good for your partner. I genuinely hate this body positivity movement. Obesity rates have TRIPLED since 1975. People nowadays eat because they crave rather than because they're actually hungry.

I personally don't understand why people (especially women) put less effort to look good in a relationship than out of one.

What many women don't realize is being fit is part of the personality we love in a girl. The desire to maintain your health and appearance is attractive. Once you stop caring about it, a guy can lose physical attraction and if it goes on long enough, he can lose sexual desire and then fall out of love if she's consistently not putting in any effort despite his communicating with her.

Unless she has some illness or disease which prevents her from working out, there is no excuse.

I make sure my partners understand that before I get into a relationship with them.

[josepppiiii]

Dude I agree with you totally we were at a party once and I don’t even remember what I said but I said somthjng about her belly and everyone went nuts and I don’t even like care. I’ve heard tons of women talk about how their husbands need to lose weight right in front of them and it’s all good

[ThebestIndian]

Good for her 🤣. She is in weight loss mode right now as far as you told G@G yesterday

[josepppiiii]

Yea I’m excited about it and very supportive lol

[ThebestIndian]

I bet you are gonna like her gains.

[josepppiiii]

Well I’m hoping there’s only losses like a smaller tummy and thighs

[MK1997]

My friends like that. He is a bodybuilder and his girlfriend is a whale 😂

[josepppiiii]

I bet she’s happy and excited to be around him tho

[MK1997]

Yeah good for her

[josepppiiii]

Yea I just want someone who is nice

[MK1997]

Can we talk In private?

[josepppiiii]

Yes you can message me Ofcourse !

[MK1997]

Follow me because otherwise I can't

[josepppiiii]

Sure

[Anonymous]

How many times are you going to post about this?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

My wife and I have been this at alternate moments. I have been overweight while she was very thin, now I slimmed down and she got a bit "thicc".

[exitseven]

My wife was putting on weight but has recently lost about 20 pounds. She looks great. I was putting on weight too and I lost about 15 pounds.

[josepppiiii]

Yea she has gained a lot since getting her new job and us moving in together. I’ve made a few little cute hints and nudges but you know I’m at a point in my life where I appreciate a kind person even if they are round and soft lol. But in the last few weeks she has decided to accept my bribe of a cruise in February that I’d like her to trim down a little for and if she does I’ll take her shopping for outfits for it. So she hasn’t lost any of the love around her waist yet but she’s trying