Is it reasonable for overweight or fat people to require their partner to be a healthy weight?

Do you think this is a reasonable request from an obese or fat person?

I don’t consider someone 15-30 pounds fat, either. But say for example a man who is 250 when they’re supposed to be 190 (ideally) wants an average sized woman. Is that fair?

Also, for the purpose of this question, healthy does not necessarily mean ‘fit’ or ‘muscular’. Healthy could also mean ‘average’ as a healthy weight varies from person to person.
Is it reasonable for overweight or fat people to require their partner to be a healthy weight?
Yes, it’s perfectly reasonable
It’s only reasonable if the obese person is a man
It’s only reasonable if the obese person is a woman
It’s only reasonable if the obese person is trying to lose weight
It’s only reasonable as a preference but not as a requirement
No, this is not reasonable at all
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Is it reasonable for overweight or fat people to require their partner to be a healthy weight?
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