Would you rather get in better shape or lower your attraction standards?

[Anonymous]

This is mostly for single people, but which option do you think is better for you? Getting in better shape to attract people that meet your attraction standards, or staying the exact same, but lower your attraction standards and giving less attractive people a chance. The world is filled with single 1/10 attractiveness, nice people, so this is an option for everyone.

Get in better shape

Give less attractive people a chance

Curious about results

[KingslayerC]

Get in better shape because I don't think I can magically retrain my brain to become attracted to girls I'm not physically attracted to.

[Asker]

Or just take Viagra and fake the attraction

[KingslayerC]

Nah, that wouldn't sustain. And even then, sex wouldn't feel good.

[Anonymous]

Neither. I mean, of course I want to be in better shape (and I work to that end), who doesn't. But f*** her if she think she's going to dictate that. I do that for me and my health, not for her. And why would I lower my standards? She's not going to do that for me? I wouldn't want her doing that for me. So why would I do that for her?

[Nikki1989]

Why would you have to lower your attraction standards?

Sounds awfully insecure to me.

[KingslayerC]

Because people of the attraction level you require aren't attracted to you, because you are a lower attraction level. Why is that insecure?

Let's say you require a guy to be 8/10 attractive, but are a 4/10 yourself. The 8s will never get in a relationship with you. You can improve yourself, remain single, or stop being so picky when it comes to physical attraction standards. Up to you.

[Asker]

To find people willing to be in a relationship with you.