How can a black girl attract non black guys?

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Darwin_n_chill · Accepted Answer

Well I'll just be completely real with you, It won't be the majority that will be interested but there definitely will be some. The thing you have going for you is exoticism, as well as the perception that black women are generally pretty freaky sexually, which most men want at least in the short term. If you can demonstrate that you can do all that sexual stuff that men desire but simultaneously be faithful and not slutty (because the best predictor of who will cheat is who was promiscuous before they were in a relationship), then there's a good chance you can get one. Basically what men want is a woman who is a slut exclusively for them. Also if you can throw in some perks like cooking good food and being willing to do housework and things like that. Basically, it's not fair and it's not right and I don't take any pleasure in saying this, but your race is working against you here. However, it is totally possible to add so many pros into the mix that it outweighs that con, and of course there are a minority of non-black guys who specifically like black women actually. But pretty much everything you can do to remove as many things working against you as possible, you should do. The most important is looking as good as you can, being physically fit and feminine as you can, eliminating any hairiness or things like that; really, although most of us won't admit it, the majority of what men really care about is looks. It's purely for instinctual reasons, looking for those young healthy fertile baby makers. Good luck.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

I would say just be yourself and hang out where there are white guys around.

I met my black girlfriend in a restaurant when we were both working and went out for lunch. We were together for a few years and I think it was a fantastic relationship. I had dated a few black women before her but never really had a serious long term relationship until then. She was also a lot younger than me.

I'd say most white men are not into interracial dating, but some are. So just be yourself and socialize where there are white guys so you have opportunities to meet one.

MoonFace2 · Accepted Answer

Try getting to know men as friends and then when you know them quite well, if they haven’t asked you out, ask them out. I’m white and I’ve dated most races of people, or at least been interested in them. Sometimes white men do fall for black women. If that’s your preference, there’s no issue with that from my end or most people’s end I’m betting. We’re different colours, not a different species 😊. Meetup activities, church groups, college/university or through mutual friends are the best ways to meet people. Dating sites are okay, but mostly for hook ups.

jazzy34 · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, you can’t make someone like you no matter what you do. If you’re not someone’s type, you’re just not their type. Anyway, focus on those who  do  like you. Not those who don’t. Oh, one last thing. I am also black. So please. Don’t come for me. 😊

Summeroflove · Answer

I mean you just be you I know it sounds cheesy. But what you need to do is attract those men who are genuinely attracted to you for who you are not a front that you put on.

Im sure that you have met guys that seemed one way at first but as you got to know them they aren’t who they seemed. That’s where authenticity is important. Rejecting someone romantically doesn’t mean they’re rejecting you as a human being. It simply means you’re looking for different things.

Another thing is while it’s okay to have preferences what matters most is on the inside. Someone’s race what they’re born as is out of their control but who they choose to be is another story.

Men and women of every race are different so what one person is attracted to isn’t another. That’s what we call compatibility what are you looking for and what is someone else looking for.

If you want good men be a good woman. That’s pretty plain and simple. Don’t have double standards. Don’t be entitled. Don’t lack moral values. You should be fine.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

The one trait that attracts white guys is modesty and moderation. If you have that, guys will marry you, even if you are very typical looking and not a super model in appearance.

ohsheeT · Answer

Just be yourself I don't understand why people think color has something to do with anything it doesn't just be yourself and be real.

Avicenna · Answer

They do all the time. Be friendly and fun to be around.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

By not being an airhead like you. You're 18-24 years old focused on this rather than an education. I'm sorry but majority of men aren't into black women for this reason. You guys lack standards, self respect, have no manners and generally aren't attractive. Candace owens, Serena , beyonce and rihanna are pretty with class but you'll never be on their level.

HighValue · Answer

I'll be honest so maybe it will be useful for you.

The majority aren't attracted to Black women, and part of the reason is because so many are racist and liberal/Democrats. If you dress normally (not provocative/revealing), have no tattoos, and wear a red MAGA hat so they will know that you don't automatically hate them, more non-Black men may be interested. If you happen to have a facial structure similar to Candace Owens or Rihanna, that would help too.

Anonymous · Answer

It ain't that hard hun. You're black, not purple.

Most black women do not dig non black guys. That's the biggest thing that's going to work against you, the perception.

So you're probably going to have to put yourself out there. The black women I've dated have probably been better/more successful then the non black women I've dated. But until she shows interest I always assume she's turned off by the fact that I'm white.

Also your ahe might work against you. I never co sidereal black women when I was your age. And I would assume a guy s'more likely to fetishize you at your age bracket. So be careful of that.

alessandro_di · Answer

Is it love or attraction? Based on the above, a man also looks for specifications in a woman that suit him and help him fall in love with her. Tastes differ, of course, whether for men or women. There is a man who prefers a woman's beauty over anything else in order to be attracted to her, and perhaps fall in love with her. Here we must clarify that a large number of men, 62% of them, according to global statistics, confuse love with attraction. The difference is big between the two cases, especially if it is based on the intimate aspect, but love does not end no matter how many years pass. Here, men must be careful and cautious, and they must try to differentiate between intimate attraction and a relationship based on love.

yourpalval · Answer

ya like literally just approach a guy and be flirty and u will probly get digits the day my bro met his girlfriend (gorgeous black woman) literally best day of his life cuz she walked up to flirt first

Anonymous · Answer

Being skinny and nice will 100% guarantee you any race of guy. It guarantees any female on the planet a man. But for some reason women have convinced other women that being fat and abusive is the way to a man's heart.

Raaj4you · Answer

Approach all non black guys you like and try to strike up a conversation. Then if you like each other exchange phone numbers. Call him/ text him to find out what he is doing? Is he free to talk or hangout? If yes, meet him at a restaurant, understand each other and become friends first.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

By just being a wonderful person :) My favorite cousin is in a long term relationship with a black girl who is absolutely lovely. It's the person, not the skin color, that matters. :)

Garud · Answer

Being a normal girl as it is for all girls. A nice friendly, feminine, loving, caring natural lady who doesn't play games, but with strict boundaries and is focused on her goals.  Not obese also

molonski2 · Answer

Plenty of gorgeous black women , so I hardly think it would be an issue to attract a non black guy , when I was last in the US I saw numerous examples of this , so I'm kinda surprised you are even asking the question.

slatyb · Answer

Spend time around open-minded men of other races. Some ideas: outdoor activity groups, co-rec sports, nerdy meetups, gaming nights, charities like Habitat for Humanity, ballroom dance meetups (swing, salsa, etc.)

alice55 · Answer

You don't need to do anything special to attract them at least in my country people date anybody regardless of their race and nobody do anything special for it.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Shaking...

Countrygirl777 · Answer

Nah that is not what I like I feel like black people need to be with black and white need to be with white.

LeatherDame · Answer

They’re already attracted to you so just spend more time around them

zagor · Answer

Look good, act intelligent, be friendly and kind. And go to places where you'll meet non-black guys. Preferably not "meat markets", unless you just want a quick fuck.

9in_Serpent · Answer

That thumbnail looks so funny! 🤣🤣🤣 but i would assume just being straight forward and hitting on them should do the trick. Just dont be overly aggressive about it

Anonymous · Answer

You need to accept you are made for white men. That's about mindset and preference.
Second step is to accept what white people do is good. Accept black people are flawed just as people of other races. And get rid of your attitude

Anonymous · Answer

Act like a monkey and swing from a tree maybe? Lol

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

There's dudes with jungle fever out there

genericname85 · Answer

the color of ones skin does not determine how you attract them.

Ironic_Method · Answer

How forward are you being? I think a lot of non black people assume that you're not interested.

dudeinohio · Answer

Socialize in circles of those you are interested in.

TallAnon · Answer

That's a very broad question. in my opinion, be hot, be kind, make life comfortable.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

HAVE LONG HAIR, A BEAUTIFUL FACE, A GREAT BOTTOM AND LEGS AND BEST OF ALL, BIG BOOBS !!!

Pohjolan · Answer

Don't be fat and don't seem less interested than cockteasers acting being interested.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm here for the lies for us to be ourselves lol

Amur8711 · Answer

Not hard actually, one of my biggest crushes is black.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not a problem if she looks like Beyonce.

Woyboy · Answer

Probably because you have a good personality

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Race is irrelevant. Just be yourself. Be happy and laugh.

Feverishly · Answer

As cliche as it is to say, just be yourself. That's the most important thing.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Some like dark chocolate.

Yannae · Answer

Yes just be awesome to me.

Emmytexrex · Answer

They are humans just like you hmmm

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I prefer black girls than my own race

Staximus · Answer

Just ask them to go out on a date

Graptemys79 · Answer

The same way she would attract anyone.

Iron_Man · Answer

Be yourself wear short

LiamJHayden · Answer

I've dated melanin-enhanced ladies so yes.

jahaims · Answer

The same way any race does

DerekC321 · Answer

Just be yourself.

shortster · Answer

Show interest in them.

Pterodon · Answer

Walk up and ask them out

Anonymous · Answer

Be hot!

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

PUKE

Slim57 · Answer

Make the first move

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