Why do women overlook me because of money despite having a job?

[Anonymous]

[Fireguy17]

you might have the personality of a flat tyre.
I'm not trying to insult you, but to me it seems that while most males tend to be superficial, women tend to look past that and more for the real person that you are.
If all you have is some cash to bring to the table, while that might just suffice for some females, it will really limit your choices.

[Asker]

You misinterpreted my question, I'm saying they've rejected me solely because of money not because of other aspects.

[Fireguy17]

No, I didn't misinterpret your question. That may be the reason that they tell you, they are trying to be polite.

[Redstang88]

Yeah money is rarely the main reason they’ll shoot a guy down. The true gold diggers out there can won’t even engage a guy that doesn’t have money so they’re not really a big issue for the rest of us

[Nikki1989]

That is one of the old go-to excuses men fall back on for their failures with women. You might want to analyze your personality before jumping to outrageous assumptions.

[Asker]

It's a comment made by women who've dated me or stated in real life/apps.

[Abbycado]

We don’t care about money as much as you think we do. That’s why.

We value men for personalities. Anons don’t have them. Grow a spine first.

[Asker]

Then why tell a guy that their reason was for not committing, was down to money?

[Abbycado]

Lmfao, I’m in college. He doesn’t have money. Neither do I. XD

[Asker]

Then I don't understand why all the women that I dated rejected me because of money. Like I have never been rejected for personality which a lot of people do experience as you kw.

[Abbycado]

Dude, you’re in the same general age bracket as me. How much money can you earn even at 24?

[Asker]

I don't know personal but I'm only making 20k right now a yr & yet it seems women expect me to be making more than that.

[Abbycado]

What’s your age?

[Asker]

23 years till April

[Abbycado]

Shit dude. I am 19 and make less than half that in a summer, if I am lucky. Girls you age are in college or in shit jobs. They shouldn’t expect so much.

[Asker]

Well they seem to. Which is sad because I'm not arse***of bloke or toxic compared to a lot of guys.

[Abbycado]

I’m sure you aren’t. You see that the thing is that shallow girls go for that sort of thing. You want a shallow girl?

I come from a wealthy family. I still ain’t got shit to my name. Want to know why? My parents pay for school and expect good grades.

Do you know what happens if I don’t get them?

[Asker]

No but that seems to be the most common type of person in my area.

[Abbycado]

That is really sad. Big city then?

[Asker]

Not quite but not far off. I think I need to save up more to get away from this area as the quality of person is poor.

[Abbycado]

Yeah, I can get that. I come from a medium city. I am in school in another medium city, despite our university being huge. Sometimes, you have to get away to find what you are looking for

[Asker]

I guess so 🤷