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Who has it harder: women or men?

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  • ohsheeT
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    I think it really depends on the man or the woman I mean there's a lot of guys out there that can't do anything there's a lot of women that can because they try and they have succeeded but I think it just depends on the person the individual

    I know a lot of women that are better off than men

    And I know a lot of men that are better off than women but I also know a lot of men that don't even try

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  • LiamJHayden
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    Women. I don't bleed or bloat monthly, and when I succeed in business no one asks if I f-ed my way there.

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      Great answer!! That is true.

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      This.

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  • Anonymous
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    It depends on how you look at it. I think a lot of us as men will say men have it harder. But to a lot of women because we don’t all complain, cry or talk about the hardships we go through, to them life must be easy as a man. At the same time women will most likely say they have it harder. They often defer to well women get pregnant. Which yes that’s true for 9 months, but that’s a choice, they’re not forced to. Not to mention women make it sound like they’re pregnant every year of their life till the day they die. Might seem like that for some women who are baby machines, but that’s not all women. A lot of women won’t even have children but they still defer to that. I think they feel as though their lives are harder because their emotions take over in pretty much all things. For example, a girl at work was upset one day. Found out some of the other women were getting together outside of work to have fun but they didn’t invite her. She had a bad week all because of this. I don’t think women can handle a lot of things emotionally, it’s like an overload for them. So that’s probably why they say they have it harder. If you look at the questions on this forum it’s all basically women getting their feelings hurt about something a man did or didn’t do. They’re controlled by their feelings.
    If we’re talking about dsting, I think men ah e it harder. A majority of women think 80% of men aren’t even attractive. So those men don’t even get looked at. They will never get a chance to be w someone unless he wins the lottery or something. Meanwhile women on the other hand, even if she’s fat, not the best looking, one of those 80% of men will still take her. But it doesn’t work the other way around. A lot of women think they’re on a higher level as far as where they think they should be.

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  • Lynx122
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    Hmm I think it's human nature to adapt to the good things and not notice it as much and focus on the bad things. Like I had a matabolical deficiency and it had quite an effect on me then I did these tests and they found it and gave me something and it helped immediately. Even a month after I started taking the supplements, I felt as if I had lived like this for my whole life. It just became normal and now I don't even think about it except that I have to take my supplements :).

    Contentment can be had without status and riches so why are these discussions always about money and power? I'll just live my life and not complain anymore :)

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  • Anonymous
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    Women because in the US, their rights are going to be taken away soon, so they will no longer have the same benefits they used to get. It will be very hard for them because they might, due to pregnancy complications won't be able to get an abortion. Project 2025 will make sexual imagery and porn illegal, so they won't have Onlyfans or men simping and giving them gifts and money anymore.

    There will be more discrimination than can be fully predicted. They are already discriminated against in the workplace and it is only going to get worse. It's going to go back to the times when they were forced to marry mediocre men for them to be eligible for them to be considered for a job. Men who are going to be in charge of the state will be in control of women's bodies.

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  • HighValue
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    Men have it far harder.

    Until millions of women willingly get their limbs blown off and shot to death defending our country, they shouldn't complain about having it even as hard and really shouldn't have any say/vote at all either.

    Any woman in these comments that still has all of their limbs, isn't blind, etc. Is lying and greatly exaggerating if they claim they have it harder.

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    • lil_will_12
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      Some women do want to fight, and some disagree with the draft (i assume thats largely what you are talking about here? Or just war in a broader sense?) but the main problem in my opinion is that we still have the draft, government should take it off and make it all volunteers (in my opinion)

      But the flaw in your argument, is the crucial fact that not every man goes to war. If you want to show how men have worse lives , you should show an example of everyday life that all men go through🤷‍♂️

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    • HighValue
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      @lil_will_12 How about men getting their children stolen from them, or alimony, false accusations, unequal sentencing for the same crime, a man goes to jail for not providing healthcare for the kids, but a woman doesn't, extra exclusive free money for college for women, etc? There are MANY ways that men have it much harder than women.

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  • Zack-Bann
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    Some men have have it harder than women and some women harder than men, with the inverse being true as well


    Men and women are different in both strengths and weaknesses so they face different challenges in life


    If you look a the empty half of the glass you might thing the opposite sex has it easier than you but if you widen your view you’ll see we all have our burdens

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  • Unit1
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    Gee, i fucking wonder

    Who has it harder: women or men?Who has it harder: women or men?Who has it harder: women or men?
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    • lil_will_12
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      Not
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      War

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  • Anonymous
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    men objectively have it harder than women under every equalized metric

    free speech is the biggest one where men are told to shut up, man up, stop whining while feminists are allowed to run their mouths online in safety

    even when it comes to reproduction, paternity fraud ain't a crime nor is the opting out of fatherhood an option

    and when it comes to war, famine, poverty etc. yeah fuck it, it's not even close

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  • brichardson1080
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    Men. Not only do we have more responsibility, but we also have a greater chance at dying in war and difficult jobs. Statistics have shown that single men raise children better than single women. From what I've read, a male father figure gives a child their confidence and identity during adolescence. A woman "could", depending on if she has a strong personality and good at disciplining. So, if you've had father problems growing up, you may have some problems.

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  • RageBabe
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    It's a human experience that is not exclusive to one gender; both can and do experience struggles in life.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      Thank you beautiful for not continuing this stupid competition game

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      You know on second thought now that i think about it women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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    • RageBabe
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      @9in_Serpent No problem.

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  • Apple1996
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    Probably men. I look at men's lifes and constantly think I could never lol I notice lots of men turn to drugs/alcohol because it's hard for them just to live everyday 😭

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  • TheBootyChest
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    I feel like it can be both, just different reasons. And if I am wrong I think its fair to say that men have a lot of struggles that just don't get talked about enough.

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  • Ms_Facesitter
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    No idea, we all have our struggles. But since it's in the dating tab, to find a date I think men have it harder.
    To find a good partner I think it's about the same.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      i think women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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  • Nikki1989
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    Who has it harder: women or men?

    I need to say no more!

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      A world with extremely backwards and unnatural priorities

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      You know on second thought now that i think about it women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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  • LeatherDame
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    Women and it’s not even close.


    Trans woman, I’ve been both, women have it harder by a long shot.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      i think women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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    • LeatherDame
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      It’s definitely rough on both though you clearly have less bodily autonomy as a woman than a man. Plus men will literally walk through you in public, which hadn’t happened to me since I was a young teen when I dressed masculine.

      Add the amount men help themselves to your body and the lack of ability to do much about it in most contexts+ a healthy dose of victim blaming culture and it can definitely suck to be a woman on a bad day.

      Men also have it rough with being isolated and emotionally handicapped by our somewhat emotionally avoidant culture here in the west but they do largely have the tools to solve that themselves and it’s not being forced on them from without.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      I don't know this patriarchy although might align with some masculine traits it is very ruthless and very much so feels forced upon us at least it does feel that way for me. It like takes my very basic instincts and cranks it up to a 1000% and makes it a very extremely aggressive and competitive and kill or be killed extremely violent world to love or live in

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  • NewWaves
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    This is getting old.

    They both do. It's not a competition.

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    • chris_987
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      It's actually clear that men have it harder because when women take on the male role they become masculine. And when they take on a more feminine le they become softer. So you can literally judge it by that standard

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      @NewWaves thank you beautiful for not continuing this stupid competition game

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      You know on second thought now that i think about it women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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    • NewWaves
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      @9in_Serpent oh lol the dreaded patriarchy... right.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      @NewWaves i mean it undeniable that system does exist just as Amazon the company exists. its real and it dictates everyone’s lives i am sure you can feel it too right?

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    • NewWaves
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      @9in_Serpent no, sorry. I don't subscribe to that viewpoint.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      Fair enough but i believe eventually you find out its true….

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    • NewWaves
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      @9in_Serpent... sure. i guess we'll see. But I promise and pray heartily that if it is true it doesn't turn me into a man-hating, perpetually angry, crazy-eyed person. Crossing my fingers.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      No it shouldn’t make you hate men only despise the system even more to how it destroys both sexes

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  • paledreams
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    Periods

    There I said it. And other hazards for women with the male population/lesbian/bi population - poor women

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  • molonski2
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    I think for the most part things are generally much more difficult for women.

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  • lorenzomichael
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    I don’t know what the right answer could possibly be. However I do know a few women that can make it hard for me. So I can give it right back to them. So I guess I do know the answer both of us.🤣

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  • slatyb
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    Nothing men do today outside of war compares with carrying a child and giving birth.

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  • genericname85
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    men. cause i don't see any companies fullfilling a "mens quota" around.

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  • Dongie
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    Who really gives a fuck? It's individualistic anyway.

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    Men by a factor of 100. Women live on free-trial easy mode.

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  • larry69
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    Men for sure. Women can pick and choose.
    Men get constant rejection.

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  • Anonymous
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    for america at least no idea, both sexes have their pros & cons

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  • animesenpai
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    I think it sucks pretty equally for everyone but they are different challenges

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  • Crazzyyworld
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    Whoever dream too much not enjoying his her life

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      i think about it women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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  • kaucky1
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    Girls do but rest of guys are brutal because something not stay on their vessal cuz girls not being satisfied growing beards all mostly desired guys be gals for day to month or when seems fit to man up

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  • foxsquirrell
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    It's not easy to answer this question. There are ups and downs for both I think.

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  • Hispanic-Cool-Guy
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    In general both equally. We all suffer in life, some worse than others.

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  • Raaj4you
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    It depends on the person. Life is easy for handsome men and beautiful women.

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  • Enginn
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    I think women has it harder. If you know what I mean. Lol

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  • 9in_Serpent
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    Um we are both human beings living in a very materialistic society and world… We all have it extremely hard

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      Its like asking who has it harder a female or male bird?

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      You know on second though now that i think about it women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      Thought*

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  • Slim57
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    It's hard for both no ways about it. Though it does seem more are willing to help women before men.

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  • turnpost
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    Its reallllly hard to say.

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  • Kingofkings1992
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    Men, and it’s not even close.

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    Both / neither.

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  • Agape93
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    Women.

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    • 9in_Serpent
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      i think women have it a bit harder because they live under a very toxic patriarchy… which is also very toxic for men but not as toxic as it is for women!

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    Context is King.

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  • Chthou95
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    Generally speaking men do

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    Women...

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