Who has it easier? Men or women?

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What are the pros and cons of being male?

crossdressingrihno · Accepted Answer

Men do and there are so many reasons why so I’m just gonna list five

Number one most of the dangerous jobs where you are at high threat of having your arms or your legs cut off or being burnt alive or blown up with dynamite or whatever other crap you can think of that sounds absolutely horrifying those are all jobs for men I mean sure women can take those jobs but they almost never do because they have a higher likelihood of getting into college and they generally take up the more comfortable fields and not the ones were your hand gets cut off by a chainsaw I mean did you know the wood cutting industry is one of the most dangerous industries out there?

Number to men are generally raised to hide their emotions or at least be significantly less emotional now you may think that means that they don’t have emotions but actually what that means is they’re just holding in all their anger and anxiety and depression and then of course if they bring this up there can I get insulted told to tough it up and some famine Nazi fuck is going to come out there and be like hey yo shut up it’s the patriarchy and men’s tears are cool and pog and I drink male tears in the morning. Since radical feminism is dropping another good example of how men get severely shafted by this is the double standard in dating of where men are told to be strong but then they’re also told to show their emotions because society can’t decide which they want more in emotionless robot or Casanova because you get punished for both and more often than not it’s actually the women who punish you for it so don’t get me wrong guys punish you for it too because why not stab your own people in the back am I right?

Number three when it comes to dating men get shafted first off they have to make the first move but if they make the first move at the wrong time they’re creep if they make the first move in the wrong way there a rapist or pedophile or a sex offender or any of these other names just even if it was like oh hey do you want to go out for coffee you’re still one of those because you never know what you’re going to get life’s a box of chocolates and dating the minefield filled with sexual harassment charges. Of course let’s say somehow you manage to dodge all those minds without getting blown up well now you’ve gotten onto your day who’s going to foot the bill well of course you are you’re the man you’ve got to be the provider Whoopty do now what if I told you it’s not super uncommon for a woman to be like I’m going to go date this man so that way I can get some food and then I’m gonna bail because tee hee hee free food pog I don’t care. No if even that wasn’t enough women get all the luck when it comes to divorce settlements they get half the man’s stuff all the time half of it even even if that woman did almost nothing to earn that money like she could literally just sit on the sofa all day watching TV it doesn’t matter the moment they divorce she’s getting half of his money he hast to sell the house she even gets half of his company because she sat on the couch eating Doritos all day and if that wasn’t bad enough she’s also going to get the kid it doesn’t matter if she’s a drug addict or not they’re naturally gonna be like oh hey she’s more suitable of a parent because she has two mounds of fat on her chest
Number four the schools are rigged. Don’t get me wrong women also have a tough in school actually I’m pretty sure at this point Schools shaft everybody it just depends on where you live because in some places Little girls are the goddess of everything in princess of the world no matter what they do Like in some schools little girls will go around kicking boys in the balls for no reason and they get in almost to no trouble for it I kid you not this happens but you want me to tell you what happens if a guy kicked In the balls hard enough? Internal bleeding severe damage hormonal issues psychological trauma and a whole bunch of other health issues which company it And yet the little girls getting little to no trouble for it because their girls. However on the other hand there was a trans boy pretending to be a girl who walked into a girls bathroom and raped somebody’s daughter at the school and you know what’s crazy about that the school board let them get away with it there’s currently a pending investigation and a whole bunch of other stuff the father of the daughter got arrested because he tried to speak his mind to the school board during a meeting and the police tried to restrain him and of course he retaliated because his daughter literally got raped in the school was doing almost nothing about it. And my second to last argument in the school category is actually a true story of something that happened to me of this gay student in health class who kept sexually harassing me in front of a teacher got away with it but I just said one main thing and almost got suspended despite having faced almost an entire semester of sexual-harassment from the same student in front of a teacher nothing only reason why I mean I express discomfort I told him I was uncomfortable I made it very clear but no nothing happened to that and then I say some thing a little offensive to him which by this point here I think is nothing happened because guess what he was a gay black student that was it that was the only reason why I mean I expressed discomfort I told him I was uncomfortable I made it very clear but no nothing happened to that and then I say something a little offensive to him which by this point here I think is well warranted because he’s A borderline sex offender but I’m the one who gets in trouble because why not? Finally for this one the schools are designed in such a way that the boys are unable to concentrate and are diagnosed with ADHD so frequently because of their inability to concentrate which is actually caused by the decrease in the amount of time people have gym class or recess and other things which is actually really important because little boys have testosterone and if little boys don’t burn that testosterone then they’re going to burn it elsewhere generally in someway that’s not appropriate which is why they need recess and long gym classes but we just keep shortening it for no good reason because why not And of course this is making it harder for students to concentrate and ultimately leading to worse grades also women are more likely to get into college because why not
Number five is that women in the LGBTQ community and whatever communities they all get these days and these parades and all these things telling them how amazing they are wild straight men Just get hounded on during all these events I know because it happens to me and yet we can’t say anything in return because otherwise we’re racist sexist we’re bigots and we hate the world and want everybody to die you see the issue that right it’s like come on men are literally over half the reason why you have power and dentists and toilet paper and all these things you take advantage of including clean water and access to food because somebody else to do those jobs and those aren’t office jobs so generally it’s the guys are doing I’m not saying women don’t do these jobs just they don’t do these jobs nearly as often has been not because these employers aren’t letting them get the job but simply because women are more attracted to office jobs and men always get stuck with the garbage ones that suck And despite all that if I say that I’m proud to be a man I’m just gonna be called sexist or crazy or stupid or something like that it’s like man I did not choose to be a boy I did not choose to be born with the X and the Y chromosome I just came out that way and went with it

Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying women have it easy either quite frankly I think most people have it rough it’s not just men but this is an a matter of do women not have a rough life it’s a matter of which one has it worse and I’d say it’s men overall Like not only are we shafted so often but like we’re always told we’re not shafted and it’s gotten to the point where I think a lot of men don’t realize they’re getting shafted anymore because of literal brainwashing.

Now I know I’m gonna get hounded on for run-on sentences and all this other stuff and those people can read between the lines I don’t care cause I’m just answering a question and proving a point

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Both genders have things that are rough for them but I'd say that men have it probably worse because of how the world has now become and things have gotten worse.

Regardless where you live, most of the time if you're a guy and even if you smile and say a simple hello to a stranger woman on the street, she'll look at you all offended or sometimes just run the opposite direction screaming as if you pointed a gun or something. Being a man, we're told the day we learn to speak that boys don't cry and that as men, it's out job to be the stronger sex and that emotions are a sign of weakness and if you display your emotions, you're weak and a mysoginist. And it's not just women who impose this on us, but other men too.

If you're a man, a woman can accuse you of rape or sexual assault and destroy his life. Just the mere accusation is enough to get a man fired from his job, lose his home, destroy his family and get him rusticated from college. It doesn't even matter if you actually forcibly stuck your penis in her without consent or you changed positions during sex without telling her or even if she didn't like the way you looked at her, but most women who exploit men know this and they use this disgusting strategy to get what they want and it's a thrill for them. As a man, you're guilty until proven innocent, and even then, the false accusations will already have done enough damage while the woman who was responsible for the false accusations will get away scott free and be telling her other gals comedically about this one time she accused her boyfriend of raping her just so they could break up.

I could really go on more but this opinions crossing 300 words already so I'll just leave it there. But there you have it. Once again, I'm not pointing fingers at anyone and I'm no woman hater either. I know there are some good women out there too who know of this and find this sort of reality disgusting themselves, and I know that life isn't all easy for women either, but in our new day and age, things really have much improved for women over the years. What I said right there isn't even the tip of the iceberg as far as the abuse goes and most of the time, we don't even speak up about it for obvious reasons. But yeah. Those are my two cents.

sunflower00 · Accepted Answer

I don’t think you can judge who has it better because every single person has their own struggles. For example you could say men have it easier, but if you compare a homeless man with health problems to a rich, successful, healthy woman obviously she’s going to have it better.

When having discussions with my boyfriend, I have come to realise that men do struggle with some problems that we may not have thought of. That being said, overall he has been shocked at what women deal with daily and I think we would both agree than GENERALLY men have it easier. But both genders do have struggles, and obviously we don’t know what it’s like to live in the other person’s shoes.

Some issues I face personally as a woman is being raped once, sexually assaulted, harassed & followed on numerous occasions, being used, being looked down on, expected to do so much (such as housework etc), pressured into sex on lots of occasions, not being taken seriously, pretty bad sexism in the workplace, not being taken seriously by healthcare professionals & everything being blamed on my period, having to deal with issues caused by contraception but can’t come off it and so on

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

Girls have it easier. Girls get away with so much just because we are girls.

I have often hoped that in any lifetime I hope I am never a boy. I can’t handle being a man.

Things are harder for men in most ways. If there is a war they’re expected to serve in the war, always expected to show courage and protect and be strong both physically and mentally and the list just goes on and on…

Women get treated like children like we’re dainty little things to be protected. People seem to have more sympathy for women - especially in the Western countries.

I will say that I would not wanna be a woman in any Eastern country though.

melanieeeB · Answer

Each do have their problems and struggles in life

britishbby · Answer

Pros, you're genetically stronger and that and you also don't get targeted in streets or pubs as much aswell as not having periods, cons we get blamed for everything, everyone assumes your a preditor, everyone thinks life is easy, you're made to keep emotions down and never show any bad emotions, you always have to chase a girl the one time it's the other way the chase is short cuz we snap you up, everything cost more such as insurance for men, there's less style, and hormoans are fucking shit, yeh u get periods but we're so fucking horny like i dont mean to sound like a basic male but when u girls get horny or have ur period and can't stop it it's the same for us with us being horny just extreeem also we get random boners which isn't normalised and i wish and I no it won't dw but I wish girls would be more forth coming and understanding and even maybe help a guy out occasionally when he's really fucking horny cuz there's nothing worse than being horny and not being able to do antrhing it gets us depressed because that'd how our hormoans work we get horny we wank happy if not we get depresso because that's how our bodies work so there's more cons, don't get me wrong I know there's more cons for women in aspects but realistically men have it worse because we're always portraided as the bad people or pervs no matter...

he-takes-a-part · Answer

its all about how you teach your women. The thing is women empowerment to the world has over the year meant just that its 'womens' empowerment and not of the society as a whole. Whereas its mens who have been feeder since centuries now imagine had they not fulfilled their role or acted like or taught like the women today are behaving.

The earnings of a women is that of a women only and not of men. todays women after they start to earn a bit they think themselves as they have conquered all and start to defy, disrespect, burn the bridges they came over and remain selfish to their agenda and needs. mens are not like that from fullfiling their bio responsibility to acting as an agent of societal and facilitator they like doing everything. when it comes to women they act conservative in most of the cases even in their natural bio responsibilities towards men. SO its not about easy or tough its about facilitating your responsibilities and feeling happy that you satisfied these many lots rather reverse is the reality. its high time that boys have stopped giving in because the framework remains same its not that they are bored from girls or their needs are being fulfilled even better by paid up ones but the method as a whole has to change. If women empowerment is the end then dont forget the means are majority of mens. but you do forget once you arrive or leave alone whilst on journey.

views expressed are personal

Thankyou.

xJeremyx · Answer

It really depends. Most of the time, the law tends to protect or favour women as opposed to men. There are gender-based biases and stereotypes for both genders, with heavy stigma against non-conformists. There are some areas where women have it rougher, such as bodily functions (periods, childbirth, etc), and there are areas where men have it rougher (more prone to mental health issues, for example).

In all honesty, it never should have been "one has it worse than the other", although sadly this is true in many cases. It should instead be "Compassion and empathy shouldn't just be for a certain group of people experiencing certain setbacks/difficulties, it should be given to anyone who deserves it".

We aren't just men or women, above all, we are human.

StrongMale · Answer

I tend to think that men have it easier than women as a general rule. Women have to deal with menstruation, PMS, pregnancy, childbirth, UTIs and a whole host of other uniquely feminine issues that men don’t have to. Having said that, it isn’t always easy being male either. Here is my list of the pros and cons of being male (generally speaking)...

Pros: physical strength, mental focus, toughness, peeing while standing, stability, calm under pressure, few UTIs, and a simple wardrobe.

Cons: a relentless sex drive, not allowed to cry or express emotion, inability to multitask, facial and body hair (not my body, thankfully), difficulty communicating, unrealistic expectations, and male stereotypes.

Anonymous · Answer

Lets see, most men will never be raped, while most women are at some point in their lives. Most men don't have to worry about the pay gap or the pink tax. Most men don't have to worry about getting pregnant, periods, or the pain of childbirth. They'll never know gynecologists, stirrups, or speculums. Most will never know the pain of anal sex either because their partner demands it or "oops wrong hole". And most will will never know what if feels like to be reduced to a cum receptical while he waits for what seems like forever for their partner to finish rutting around inside them just to get off, or on the flip side, 30 seconds and done before it starts.

kataang · Answer

It depends on the person. We all live different lives with different struggles. Just because 10 women have it easier than you doesn’t mean ALL women have it easier than you. Just because 10 men have it easier than you doesn’t mean ALL men have it easier than you.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Nowadays its everything "go women power", even the damn film industry, look marvel now only does only female superheroes kicking men's butts.

This all is a result because old school society and annoyingly still today, women are seen as the "weaker gender" and constantly need assistance, more compassion and pity, and less harsh punishments.

While male's psychological issues get completely ignored (friends will drop you, family looks down upon you), if a man shows emotions he will be laughed at. We get forced and taught already already as a kid to swallow down our feelings, because the make you look weak and feminine. For frustrations and depressions we have to be a man and continue to work to provide for the state and family. If we get sick or so we are no value. No wonder suicide rates of men are so high

Also over 90% of work accidents are male, over 90% of war casualties are male, 80% of homicide victims are male...

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Women, generally. But the problem with discussions like this is their inherent divisiveness. BOTH sexes have their own challenges; some very similar and some very different. The battle of the sexes won’t end until the majority of us are ready to recognize that and practice compassion and empathy for the other. Even the best intentioned arguments today are fueled almost entirely from a jaded perspective on one side or the other.

RosieMelts · Answer

They all have their own problems and benefits. If aliens were real and we asked this same question, the answer would be the same. Men and women are the same species, but totally different breeds. They have their own struggles. Just like a husky and a grey hound. Both dogs, but different breeds. Can’t really compare them much.

TommyWiseau69 · Answer

Women. The group that has the highest suicide rates is short men. I'm also a short man and have periodic suicidal thoughts. Men have higher suicide rates because there's more pressure on them. There's much more men that are homeless than women. Go to NYC you will see. There's more appreciation towards women's body in the media. There's discrimination against men that aren't muscular and/or tall.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

This is such a hard question. I’m gonna say the women do in many cases but that’s not to say that men don’t. Men go through A LOT more as far as mental and I believe with their mental health bc they are taught not to be weak.

They’re also expected to be the provider all the time and are not usually provided for like we are in many cases.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I say it's even most men and women have their fair share of issues. Majority of the problems us men face have to do with being considered useful and productive in a workplace, while majority of the problems most women face is being seen as the inferior or more dependent gender. So I say we both have it rough.

I don't personally consider women inferior but that how society tends to view them.

KimmyKimchi · Answer

It's impossible to say because no man will know what it's like being a woman and no woman will know what it's like being a man.

Captaincheeks · Answer

I don’t think genders as a whole defines on who has it “easier”. It depends on your living situation and the society around you, people around you. And what country you’re from. many countries in poverty whether it’s men or women struggle worldwide.

LordOfThePines · Answer

We do. Yeah we are more prone to violent crimes, but a lot of our issues are do to our own mistakes and dealing with the resulting consequences, such as paying child support because we decided to have sex without a condom on, or are social stigmas we ourselves put onto our selves and other guys around us. We don't have that many legitimate problems. Women, however, very much do and a lot of those issues is because of us.

maximumpower · Answer

There is a load of emphasis on men to perform, earn, support and generally pull their weight in society.
Women depend primarily upon their youth, physical attractiveness and reproductive potential.
Neither have it easy; however, men tend to be able to fulfill their requirements a lot longer than women.

CelticCrusader · Answer

Thats a question too big in scale to answer in certainty but i definitely know that guys have it much much harder than most woman give us credit for. Its not easy in any capacity.

Shamalien · Answer

god is nicer to is but society is way worse. We have superior biology in many ways, less maintenance required, stronger, smarter, faster, denser bones, etc, but we are beasts of burden for women to use and abuse here in western society.

tl dr we foot the bill and see little of our hard work

Rania05 · Answer

I do want to stand by my gender, but I can only confess that we had it easier the younger we're and the men has it easier the older they get.

Autember · Answer

It'll be a never ending battle but I honestly think men have it easier? While there are pros and cons to both genders so really there isn't a true answer.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Females have it easier because its easier for them to play victim if things dont go their way. When things dont go a mans way no one gives a fuck. There are men being killed every day fighting in ukraine and most media attention is on the women who "had" to evacuate

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It’s a trade off. Men get total freedom in exchange for no one giving half a lukewarm shit about us. Women don’t have complete freedom, but the world cares about them and will give them a helping hand.

Anonymous · Answer

Both sexes have different problems, none of them have it easier over the other.

but don’t worry, men will tell you women have it easier and women will tell you men have it easier. More so men who will say women have it easier. I have seen that stuff a lot on reddit where men cry about how easy women have it

likelyOK · Answer

I’d say men bc generally they don’t have to worry about getting assaulted or getting pregnant. Biologically easier.

melaniee789456123 · Answer

I would say it's 50/50. I say this because everyone, regardless of gender or identity has so many hardships in life.

dustybiker · Answer

It’s not that black and white. It depends. Most situations men will always have it easier. Others woman have adjusted to know how to work it.

Spiritofn · Answer

Men. Why I don’t know, all I know is I’m fuxking awesome and chicks suck. Tough times sometimes make gods and not because they’re immortal but because they are and they also realise that they aren’t truly gods.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Men have it easiest. Their gender holds political and industrial power.

MCheetah · Answer

Women and super rich men are the only ones allowed to fail upwards in society.

Anonymous · Answer

Men have it is easier. They get pampered by women and incels still have tantrums and become homicidal and suicidal despite having everything handed to them.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

John's Hopkins (the leading university studying gender reassignment), did a 20+ year study of tranny's who made the switch. Every single subject said that life was easier and people were nicer as a female. Every single one.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

Both have it hard in their own ways which both of them won't understand properly.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Who has it easier?  Women.  But women won't believe that. You can only believe it if you're a man who had been fucked over by a woman while she gained.

JohnK123 · Answer

Con: females saying stuff against all straight white males

con: having to say everyone’s beautiful when they aren’t really 😂 (some are gorgeous but the ones that’s aren’t well u can’t say that without getting stoned to death with hate)

BlueScorpio · Answer

Easy when it cones to what? Dating? Career?

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

dogs... dogs have it easier... and cats... JEEZ do cats have it easy

Vegasrunner · Answer

Men by far. I dont know many men that would trade places w/ a women. The one sure way to start a fight w/ a man is to call him a female.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Pros strength cons trying to find a partner who isn't just out for hook ups an can. W them self's an allow you to see the little flaws they have

Echosoul · Answer

Pros: - not really any r*pe risk - can't get pregnant - no periods Cons: - at a dating disadvantage - more likely to be drafted into war/dangerous situations

Straight2thepoint · Answer

Easy answer, when the ship is sinking, or the building is on fire, or a mental disorder ki!! er is going rampid. Who is first out to safety?

genericname85 · Answer

women obviously. they have all the same rights and half the obligations.

barn_stormer · Answer

men. we don't worry about stupid shit like women do.

Chthou95 · Answer

Women. Women complain about the fake patriachy and have oppression obsession. But if they were to actually observe the differences between men and women they'll see that they have it easier

Waldoe · Answer

Men... are like toasters... they need to be "plugged in" to feel useful... that's why we are always looking for that special "Receptacle"... Where, oh Where could She be? hehehe (dirty old man joke)

Po1989 · Answer

It's a myth that men have it easy. A lot of feminist women like to say men have it easy because they ignore 98% of men and focus on the top 2% that have things easy.

Anonymous · Answer

I think the men have it better then women. They did not have menstrual cramping, didn't have to worry about getting pregnant when having sex.

Lookingforthetruth · Answer

Which gender dies sooner and has the highest suicide rates?

jimmy2 · Answer

Men we don't have hormones, don't have emotional as women. We don't bleed. We just have our dicks hanging around 😂

Hardworkingguy · Answer

The pros are that we usually have many less rivalries and we don't care about what other men think about us.

TonightYouu · Answer

Women duh I don’t want to work I wish I could just marry a guy and have him do all the work housewives in America live like queens

TroyDT · Answer

As long as we do not marry or knock her up, men.

Anonymous · Answer

Women hands down.. In society women have value inherently, men have no value unless they provide it via working or some other means.

TammyVeracious_III · Answer

Us. We get underestimated. We can get away with things because of that.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know for certain. But I know for certain I'd never want to be a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

The strong thrive. The weak perish. Its not about who has it easier.

Anonymous · Answer

Men have it harder the reason I say that is the suicide rates

Punkin_Annie92 · Answer

Both can be difficult depends on the person!

ElementoP · Answer

Pro: Women Con: Women

Brandi555 · Answer

Men. Obviously

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