+1 yI'll tell you why women have it more difficult than men. Women have to shave like half their bodies (which is very time consuming) they don't 'have to' but would men like that? I highly doubt it. Have to go through their time of the month. Have to worry about things like yeast infections. Need to prevent unintended pregnancy with Birth Control pills and condoms to make sure you'll have some kind of protection. Some women can and have become pregnant even while using these. Then if they want a child, and conceive one, they have to deal with 9 months of mood swings, cravings, taking prenatal vitamins, and being careful what they put into their bodies since it can harm the baby. Then having to deal with the labor and all the pain that comes with it. For some women it can last for days. Have to worry about looking your best which means for most waxing eyebrows, upper lip, etc. Wearing makeup. Feeling like they're not good looking or skinny enough for guys because most (not all) are so shallow to not want someone who is larger than those models on TV commercials and advertisements.
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+1 yi believe being a female is harder than being a male. we basically can't do heavy manual labour in general at our jobs, but a few do or can, we have our monthly whcih makes life a hassle for us girls, and then if we get pregnant, it's nine monthes of pain and being careful and not being bale to do as much as what we did before. it's not fun at all and also we always have to or not always but are in a way always subjected to pressures by the media or guys to look good or 'pretty' or whatever. idk, I believe being a girl is so much harder than a guy. when a girl gets pregnant, nothing really happens to the guy.
you can argue for either I guess. those are just a few points, general and not refering to everyone but yeah, having a period nearly every month sucks12 Reply
Asker+1 yI think guys have it harder than girls do when it comes to romance, dating, and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. The reason why is because almost all the time the guy has to ask the girl out on a date, the guy has to take the initiative, make the first move, start a conversation, make small talk, initiate flirting, etc. All the girl has to do is accept or reject the guy.
Asker+1 yI know it is tradition, it has been that way for centuries, and will probably still be that way for another Thousand or Million years. Like it is easier for a girl to find and get a boyfriend than it is for a guy to find and get a girlfriend. Shyness hurts guys more than it hurts girls.
I think if your male , your going to think you have it have it hard , if your female you will think you have it harder. Both genders have it hard , with women its the whole child birth thing , periods,menopause and I also think its harder for a girl to feel accepted as far as the way she looks is concerned , girls are always seeing images of skinny girls and feel they need to look that way to fit in and be liked by guys, also when it comes to work I think woman have it harder I told my career teacher I wanted to do electrics and he just laughed and said leave it to the men..( Infact many guys laughed and said it was not going to be able to do that)
obviously guys face there tough time's but I'd say women have it a tiny bit harder than the guys.14 Reply
Asker+1 yTrue, the only part of life that I think girls have it easier is when it comes to dating and relationships, love just comes to girls, while us guys have to fight tooth and nail for it.
Asker+1 yDon't you agree that girls have it easier when it comes to dating?
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I don't think that girls have it much easier dating, love doesn't just come to us. We all go through a lot of ups and downs during dating but we vent to all our girl friends and try really hard to make all you guys think that it comes easy to us when in reality it doesn't at all. haha =]
Asker+1 yWell the way I see that girls have it easier is because since us guys usually have to approach you, make the first move, start a conversation, make small talk, and then ask you out.
One word on why I'm glad I have a Y chromosome - menstruation.
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3 moI believe women have it harder physically. Life is much more painful for obvious reasons being periods, and pregnancy/childbirth. Also something a lot of people dont consider is how much womens health is lacking, and how womens health isn't taken seriously and pain is often dismissed by doctors. It makes quality of life miserable for some women (myself included with having endometriosis that took so long to get diagnosed and once diagnosed did literally nothing to help) My endometriosis makes my periods the worst pain I've ever felt in my life and I've broken bones, and got hit by a car and my cramps are worse than any injury I've ever recieved. It makes keeping a job impossible because I can't work the first day of my period my pain is so bad I have seizures and obviously no job wants to keep someone who calls out once a month. Also women are weaker, have to live with much more fear than men do. But one thing I would like to add is i acknowledge men have their own struggles. They are looked at to provide for the family no exceptions (yes most women do too but people dont look at women who are struggling to provide the way they look at a man struggling). Men (especially introverted men) struggle with having to be the initiators in situations, also if a confrontation happens theyre expected to defend and provide safety for their family in scary situations. And I know there's many other things I didn't list for men, I only included a few to acknowledge that yes men struggle too in different areas and I appreciate and respect their struggles and efforts. But my answer is still women have it harder, especially physically, involves a lot more pain that I could only imagine what life would be like to not have to live with on a daily basis.
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+1 yYou are saying girls have it easier just because guys have to make the first move blah blah blah-that is hardly serious stuff is it? Women have it much harder-we are the ones who have to go through pregnancy, we are th ones who have to go through menstruation, we are the ones who have to go through the menopause. Women face a lot more discrimination then men, especially in the workplace-even now. Also, we are more at risk of rape etc from men because we are the weaker sex (in general).
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Asker+1 yI think it is serious stuff, because rejection is not fun, it is frustrating when you see all the other guys out there that have better luck with women.
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Well it isn't as serious as pregnancy, discrimination or rape.
Asker+1 yWell the pregnancy part can be avoided, women can take the birth control pill, women can get an abortion, so in a way, women can skip all of that.
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Yeh I've already commented on that below. Pregnancy can be avoided but not for every woman throughout their life because then eventually there would be no people. We have to give birth because that is why we are here-to reproduce. To say that "women can skip all that" just by getting an abortion or taking the pill has really f***ing annoyed me. But it is very typical of a guy to say that so unbelievably it doesn't shock me.
Asker+1 yYeah true, also in your opinion, do you think abortion is murder? even if the pregnancy was unplanned, accidental, is it still murder?
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I don't class abortion as murder. Although I think there should be no unplanned pregnancies or accidental pregnancies-if you don't want to get pregnant then take the necessary precautions. Because like I said in my answer, we are the weaker sex in general. Men can overpower us quite easily (in general). And yes, both go through pain but I still think guys have it easier. Much easier.
Asker+1 yYeah but there are a lot of people out there that have sex and it results in pregnancy that was never intended. Also it is easier for women to get laid than men.
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Back to sex again I see, you obvs want to believe that men have it easier just because you can't get sex or a girlfriend (i'm assuming) so just carry on believing that.
Asker+1 yI can get a girlfriend, just not the kind of girlfriend I want.
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I agree plus I think it's also hard as a female WAITING for a guy to make moves...and I don't want to make at least the big ones myself [asking a guy out, etc.] Sure I've heard of girls doing that but I still believe that that's the guy's job.
Asker+1 yYeah but waiting for guys to make the move is not as hard as being rejected and not knowing what to say to a girl.
+1 yI can see the points on both sides. But I lean towards the female, because I am one. =]
We have to go through the pain of having a baby, and that is a big reason for my opinion. (if one chooses to have a baby)
But then again, the males have to deal with the females mood swings and whatnot, and I have to give credit for my guy friends dealing with me. hehe.
If you had a choice for "They both have it equaly hard", I'd choose that.
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Asker+1 yTrue, but women can take the birth control pill, or get an abortion, so in a way, they skip all of that pain.
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Wow, in a way we can skip all the pain, are you for real?! Yeh we can all just get abortions and skip the pain-good plan!! jesus.
Women for sure. Society is much harsher to us, Mother Nature too. We got dealt a shitty hand that came with our design. No way in hell a man could handle half of what women will deal with in their lifetime.
Periods. Birth. Menopause. Discrimination. Body-shaming. Perverts and sex-crazed men. Raising children.
Especially menopause. If a man had two hot flashes, he would blow up the sun.10 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yIf men think you have it hard, try being a woman for a day. Both genders have struggles. For women its being pregnant for 9 months, periods and menopause. Also most girls feel pressured to look a certain way due to media and boys, there is always a time in you're life where you wish you can be that very beautiful, skinny model on the cover so you can fit in and be liked. Not to mention we are more likely to be raped and girls are way more sensitive/emotional. Now I'm sure guys have their share of troubles too. But in my opinion, I think being a woman is harder.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIn my mind, it is harder to be a female because well, guys are jerks. And girls have to deal with break ups when it is just so easy for the ex to get a new girl. And also girls are was mor sensitive. I mean come on. And on the other hand, men don't have to get through 5-6 days of pain dealing with bloody vaginas. 👍 And just because I'm saying these things doesn't mean all the way that I think it is harder to be a girl than a boy. I know there are some downfalls for boys too. But in my mind, it is way harder to be a girl. If you want to know what it feels like to be a girl, hey be like Bruce Jenner who is now know ass Caitlyn
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10 moGirls have society problems like. Walk like a girl, Don't speak much, Talk softly, and more...
Restriction on doing things and keep telling everyone what's going on in life.
Girls should know how to cook, clean clothes, clean house and allover whole household work.
Periods Pains.
Pregnancy.
Alway try to protect themselves from boys bad eyesight00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThis was already done...go search it?
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Asker+1 yI know that, I just want to see if I can get different answers.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIt is hard for both in different but equal ways.
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Asker+1 yI think girls have it easier because us guys generally have to initiate the date and relationship.
Opinion Owner+1 yYes, but this is just one aspect of life. I could match that with this "Women have more pressure to look beautiful." We could go on and on. I still say that men and women have equally hard lives.
Asker+1 yDo you women get judged for their looks, physical appearence more than men do? some people tell me that girls are just as shallow as guys.
Opinion Owner+1 yWell I think that advertising attacks women more than it does men. Advertisers really don't have to sell beauty products to men. It isn't just about being attractive to the opposite sex but liking yourself. This is something has become very difficult for women.
Asker+1 yYeah I guess so, but since you are a girl, do you think dating and relationships are easier for you?
Opinion Owner+1 yNo, not for me at least. I am 18 and I have never had a boyfriend or been asked out.
Asker+1 yWell I'm sorry, I can relate to you, I am 21 and never had a girlfriend, every girl I have asked out was either taken or not interested.
Opinion Owner+1 yTell me about it. See, it really is just as hard for both sexes! Lol
Asker+1 yYeah, I'm always just being myself, I never try to act like or be someone else.
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