Who lives a easier life: men or women?

Question

I tend to lean towards women because men simp for them an pay for them just existing.

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

I would say women have far easier lives. They receive more favorable treatment from the law for the same offenses, they are excused for bad behavior, the bad behavior they do engage in nareo longer against the law- nor are we allowed to criticize it without invoking an angry mob of feminists.

If a girl is at least moderately pretty she can expect a river of potential suitors, and easy access to sex (a girl who is a 6/10 has sex as easily as a guy who's an A-list celebrity). Dating is completely geared towards appeasing them, impressing them, etc.

They can expect to get more help from society and the government than a guy can at any point in his life except during childhood and extreme old age (I'm not making this up, I got the stat from a study in Tribe by Sebastian Junger).

Modern wars aren't total wars and this means that the loser's country isn't raped/ pillaged; so, it's almost entirely the men who die on both sides.

Women are more vulnerable, but society is geared towards their (and children's) protection- men are a vast majority of the victims of violent crime.

Thanks for Diversity Equity and Inclusion efforts like gender quotas women have a handicap on getting a job, and in some European countries getting elected office. Women have a trump card discrimination/ harassment to pull whenever they're in a situation that isn't getting them what they want.

Ultimately, most women just opt out of the workforce and are taken care of by men/ the government. I'm not saying having children/ taking care of them is easy, but if a woman married a relatively stable guy she never has to work again, while he'll statistically work himself to death. THEN she gets to live off his pension until she passes a decade later.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Let's take a look at the obvious things

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It's not like men wake up one day and decide "Ohhh wow! I feel so empowered! that's it. Starting today I'm going to join the top 20% of men, that the ladies are after" or "I'ma get rich overnight selling my sexy nudes". No one has turned into someone like Brad Pitt, Christian Grey or a millionaire in a short time. It has never worked like that.

In fact you'll encounter more a much higher number of trans-girls than trans-men. Some men get the idea that it's easier/better to be a woman and then get on surgeries and hormone replacement therapy and turn into women and continue their life as such. Their chances of succeeding and achieving happiness is increased. It's not a disease, it's a natural consequence of modern life. Hell even women are into women.

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Meanwhile there's been a story of a trans-man committing suicide.

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mamuma02 · Accepted Answer

No woman will ever know how it feels to be a man, and no man will ever know how it feels to be a woman.

Even if people change their gender, I m not sure if they will be able to reeaaaaaallly know how it feels.

Apparance can't make you feel exactly like other genders feels. And the hardest part is you can't really change your DNA and become another gender. Wich is why people take hormon medicin to change gender, but that is not enough either.

I would say neither of the gender lives än easier life, in my opinion. But if I would be rude then I would say that men are the ones that lives an easier life, if you look through history.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

No one does.

life is a choice.

happiness is a frame of mind.

be intentional with life.

Respectable of other people.

Don’t love 90% of your life reacting to things.

That’ll only be a life of reactions and not what you dreamed/envisioned/ wanted.

Live 80% choosing and being intentional and creating

and the other 20%, reacting for when things don’t go well and side track you a bit on those plans.

Stop pointing fingers. Let’s all grow up, and bring about the lives we want.

Amen?

AMEN!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Most people think that their life is more difficult than the lives of those around them. Men think their lives are more difficult than women's lives, women think thir lives are more difficult than men's lives, poor people think their lives are more difficult than the lives of rich people, etc. And each group is absolutely convinced that they are right!

1. How do you measure how difficult your life is? That is just a matter of opinion, and the opinions you will receive will all be biased.

2. Even if you could get a valid answer to the question, why does it matter. I'm a guy so if guys' lives are more difficult than girls' lives, does that mean I have a valid reason to feel sorry for myself? Valid reason to be pissed off at girls?

Anonymous · Answer

Women live much easier lives. I don't want to hear women or girls say, ohhh if we go out we can get raped. What the hell are women talking about, if a guy is wearing expensive clothes or shoes in a bad area he can get shot and killed. Women don't have to do hard labour work. Women nowadays say I don't need a man? Give me a break, the roads you're driving on is paved by a man, the cars you drive is made by a man, the minute a woman or girl feels fear she'll go to a big strong guy or male police officer. Young women today don't care about getting married, or have kids and they think cooking food is deemed as oppressive. I didn't say women need to cook for guys or men. But I learned to cook to learn a skill and cook for myself. Women don't know the pressure there is for jobs, in sports, defending a girlfriend or wife, being ridiculed in a feminist extremist era. I don't care if women or girls read this and give it a thumbs down, go ahead but I'm speaking facts. Until women step into a man's shoes, a guy's shoes... Don't talk shit about males.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I think you are motherfucking on point. They got simps and shit while we have jack shit. Take a cruise through the tent cities and look for chicks... the only ones there are sluts. Meanwhile, you'll see plenty of motherfuckers that did some shit like serve your fucking country and have not even been to jail once in their life.

I get to come home and watch my youtube without commercials because I pay like a dumbass. I get to listen to these chicks talk about how oppressed they are, but I don't see them in the street.

There is always going to be that bitch or two that's NAWALT as all fuck and they'll claim to be homeless and not even a slut... why are they here on the internet with us then? That question alone curb stomps their argument.

I'm just a motherfucker living my motherfucking life.

CateM · Answer

Nobody said life was easy. Both sexes have their own hardships, and it depends on the person, and a lot of people say their opposite sex has it easier. And some good points were made. We'll start with the obvious here, women face all forms of misogyny such as unequal pay or discrimination, some women have really bad periods that can make that can send them to the hospital, and the dreaded pink tax. But women often get lighter sentences for worse crimes than men. There are a lot of men who are victims of rape or domestic violence, but for some reason nobody seems to give a shit about them. There's also toxic masculinity that never fails poison men every day. Both sexes have their own struggles so it's hard to say who has it easier in life. But if you want my opinion on who really has it the easiest? The rich.

Anonymous · Answer

I think women. As I noticed, my guy friends and I are much more successful and naturally gifted at mathematics. My friends and I are in positions of privilege. I never had to struggle with money, and girlfriends always pampered me.

Sure I had some hardships as a younger man. But the older I got, the more wiser and better I got. And 29, almost 30, I actually feel bad for a lot of women. I used to think men have harder, but now I can actually see it's a lot easier being a man if you manage to survive your early 20s. It's just your teen years and early 20s kind of suck.

You become more resilient to stress because you are more used to rejection from women. And can handle a lot more challenging jobs. So you're earnings go up like crazy. Men have a shitty start to life, but it gets a lot better as time goes on and you work.

If you work hard in your 20s, you really see the benefits of it in your 30s. But you just got to survive the shitty early part of your life.

Haha456 · Answer

women actually have to go through pain every month with the menstrual cycle.

women actually have to go through the painful trauma of childbirth.

women make less money than men because of discrimination children.

the poorest people in the world are also women.

women are also more likely to struggle as single parents.

men have more opportunities in life than women

how do you still say men have it harder?

Cassie88 · Answer

It depends on where in the world you happen to be. If it's the Islamic Middle East or Africa we're talking about, then men definitely have things easier, but if it's Scandinavia, NZ, Canada or any other Western nation, then obviously women have things easier.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Cats live an easier life.

Whether men or women live easier, who knows. It’s an age old debate that can never truly have a correct answer. Life in general is hard, sure being a guy can make certain parts of your life harder, but being a woman can make certain parts of your life hard too. What men deal with and what women deal with are usually completely different issues, so… I’d say it’s pretty even.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Both find it harder, experience wise. But women have it harder, biologically speaking. Women have periods each months, cramps, not physically strong enough, gives birth, can have problems with maternal, reproductive and gynecological health, hormones, and so on. Seeing many scenarios like these, struggling with health is the hardest thing. 🥺

boggboss · Answer

Honestly depends different aspects make life easier for one or the other a example with a stroke of luck and looks women can get men to simp if she dont mind that type of attention equally tho as a man I have never feared leaving my house after dark and thought I might get assaulted or raped

Msputiton · Answer

Guys will always go women have it easier and women will always go guys have it easier.

The fact is men have no clue what women have to go through.

And women have no clue what men have to go through.

Both have their own unique struggles related to their gender.

So instead of trying to make it some weird competition just respect each other's struggles.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Women. All they have to do is dress up put on makeup and hangout at places rich guys hang out and they get noticed. Men have to bust their asses to have a ripped body a $500k a year job , a sports car , a really nice house or apartment and work everyday. Women don't have to any of those things and never will. Being a guy sucks. Plus let's not forget she's always looking for something better. And never forget you're just a stepping stone on their way to the top.

sunflower44 · Answer

Men all the way lol but then again I'm biased as a woman. Like for an example women literally spend so much time on their appearance while men breeze through life looking ruggedly handsome when the truth of the matter is they were just too lazy to shave 😏😜

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

In the general sense there isn't "easier" life based on gender.

You can definitely screw up your life by making bad decisions and the nature life and the circumstances that are out of your control are going to cause you troubles and pain regardless of your gender.

dustybiker · Answer

Depends on skills. Both genders can have them or lack them. I’ve known plenty of men who couldn’t change a tire to save their life. This can make life a bit more difficult..

AmyHew1tt · Answer

Another one of these? Seriously? Neither has it "easy." We just have it easier than each other in some areas and take that for granted.

TenderFantasy · Answer

Rich people have an easier life.  It's not male or female, never was.  Heck maybe whites do too, at least in comparison to minority people.

kylee2437 · Answer

Can’t go off based on gender. People are out here living more difficult lives than us everyday. Sounds like you need to count your blessings

aficionado · Answer

Rich people live easier lives. When you have money, life is a piece of cake, irrespective of gender.

MCheetah · Answer

In today's society? Undoubtedly Western women. Throughout all of society: The rich and royalty.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Under 30, perhaps even under 40 in some cases, women for sure. But after that, I do see it shift. It seems the older men are happier.

jshm2 · Answer

Kids have the easier life. Everyone looks after kids, even when they've got fuck all themselves.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

it's hard for ugly women but still, they manage to find a simp

SweetTwistedSatanist · Answer

I lean towards women, because it's all I know. And I don't care for 'simps'

TotallyAlmost · Answer

Men in the whole. They do the hardest jobs that do the most damage to the body, including many life threatening careers. And they die younger than women in the end, I think that's the proof.

Minahh · Answer

Bruh no. We bleed every month and have to deal with sexism and misogyny. I would say both men and women have it hard. Just in different ways.

Anonymous · Answer

Look at all the whiny men on this post. Go cry me a river, guys!

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the individual, and the society. In some countries men definitely have it easier. In general, in western societies women typically have it easier today.

Camson22 · Answer

men have it easier, they dont get pregnant or have periods.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Women.  Don’t believe me? Then look at traditional male and female roles

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Women, especially white women, live their lives on super easy mode.

Anonymous · Answer

Women’s life is easier. She can raise child that’s it. But men has to provide his family for over 25 years. Men live 10 years shorter than women that proves that mens life is much harder

Anonymous · Answer

women live an easier life materialistically, but I think its harder for men mentally

kespethdude · Answer

only incels use the word "simp".

Heolurt · Answer

Females for sure

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

A matter of perspective lol.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Women without question

Akam93 · Answer

Neither.

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