Who lives a easier life: men or women?

[chris_987]

I tend to lean towards women because men simp for them an pay for them just existing.

[JamesDiaz11]

I would say women have far easier lives. They receive more favorable treatment from the law for the same offenses, they are excused for bad behavior, the bad behavior they do engage in nareo longer against the law- nor are we allowed to criticize it without invoking an angry mob of feminists.

If a girl is at least moderately pretty she can expect a river of potential suitors, and easy access to sex (a girl who is a 6/10 has sex as easily as a guy who's an A-list celebrity). Dating is completely geared towards appeasing them, impressing them, etc.

They can expect to get more help from society and the government than a guy can at any point in his life except during childhood and extreme old age (I'm not making this up, I got the stat from a study in Tribe by Sebastian Junger).

Modern wars aren't total wars and this means that the loser's country isn't raped/ pillaged; so, it's almost entirely the men who die on both sides.

Women are more vulnerable, but society is geared towards their (and children's) protection- men are a vast majority of the victims of violent crime.

Thanks for Diversity Equity and Inclusion efforts like gender quotas women have a handicap on getting a job, and in some European countries getting elected office. Women have a trump card discrimination/ harassment to pull whenever they're in a situation that isn't getting them what they want.

Ultimately, most women just opt out of the workforce and are taken care of by men/ the government. I'm not saying having children/ taking care of them is easy, but if a woman married a relatively stable guy she never has to work again, while he'll statistically work himself to death. THEN she gets to live off his pension until she passes a decade later.

[Sparrow012]

100% agree. Its not politically correct, but it's for sure an untold truth

[Anonymous]

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It's not like men wake up one day and decide "Ohhh wow! I feel so empowered! that's it. Starting today I'm going to join the top 20% of men, that the ladies are after" or "I'ma get rich overnight selling my sexy nudes". No one has turned into someone like Brad Pitt, Christian Grey or a millionaire in a short time. It has never worked like that.

In fact you'll encounter more a much higher number of trans-girls than trans-men. Some men get the idea that it's easier/better to be a woman and then get on surgeries and hormone replacement therapy and turn into women and continue their life as such. Their chances of succeeding and achieving happiness is increased. It's not a disease, it's a natural consequence of modern life. Hell even women are into women.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/RjhFfKHSujg

Meanwhile there's been a story of a trans-man committing suicide.

Figures

[mamuma02]

No woman will ever know how it feels to be a man, and no man will ever know how it feels to be a woman.

Even if people change their gender, I m not sure if they will be able to reeaaaaaallly know how it feels.

Apparance can't make you feel exactly like other genders feels. And the hardest part is you can't really change your DNA and become another gender. Wich is why people take hormon medicin to change gender, but that is not enough either.

I would say neither of the gender lives än easier life, in my opinion. But if I would be rude then I would say that men are the ones that lives an easier life, if you look through history.

[chris_987]

How about now, would you switch genders with a man?

[mamuma02]

I would not, I like being a woman evennif it has many downsides.

[chris_987]

What are those down sides

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Stop being a pussy and answer the question

[mamuma02]

Want me to make a whole list?

And then when I do, you will start to complain. Anyways there is not neen cause majority hehe already knowa those downsides of being a woman. Anyway I know men also have hard time too and many downsides of being a man,.

[chris_987]

No I would want to know the downside so I can learn

[mamuma02]

Then I will take the downsides i have as a woman:

Heavy period that cause many other health issues. Having cramps,

So many clothes options

Not being taken serious as men in the family

My littlr brother gets more freedom tham me just because he is a boy

If I get even one minute late home, its as if I have been killed outside, my mom assuming i am week.

Problems with the bra, causing pain in some parts

Some of my oncles experting women to act like servants treating then like kings.

I get easly judge even for a tiny mistake even though my brother or male cousins does millions of mistakes everyday.

People trying to convince me to be in a relationship eith their son
Geting judge for what I wear or drink

Its even harder being an African girl because Africans goosip a looooot. If I do something wrong, the whole world would know. Its like I constalely have a satellit spying on my every move, so I have to always be careful of what I do outside. Its like being an actress.

I learned to cook since I was a kid, just because its my passion. But if I can't cook some tradition foods from my hometown, they start to complain and say that I can't cook, althought i know how to cook many food from different counties. They exepert a woman to be an expert in the kitchen, its annoying.

If a girl and a guy goes to the restaurant and the girl pays the bill, the restaurant's waiter will thank the man instead of the woman. The prejudiece of thinking that woman don't have money.

[mamuma02]

Some guys have tried to make me date them while flexing with their riches because they think that all African woman only wants money. I get why they think that. But its not respectful. I don't know if uts just prejudice of African woman or if its racist.

A guy can say how many peoplw he has slept with, but if I dare ro say how many, I probably would be slutshamed by 80% of my family members, even tho the people i slept with are not many. I met a guy who i dated one week that had sayd proud that he has slept with over 50 women. While i grew up knowing that is whong for a girl to say.

Even when I m wearing pants or shorts, they keep telling me to cross my legs. I know how ro act respectful in public and even how I would act beside a president. But why should i worry much of how I sit at home?

Its not comfortable to say this, but you are pestering me to tell you. Anyway I m telling you from my view. I know there are other downsides such as pregnancy, abort bla bla bla...

[chris_987]

Ok well I wrote down my responses because you said a lot so I want to make sure I respond to every thing you said hopefully.

First the period pain, that caused by low iron in your diet. Our food isn't nutritional anymore, so you might what to do a blood test and see what vitamins your lacking, if you're east African I would suggest eating more healthy carbs like yams and cut out the vegetable oil.

Next, how is having a lot of clothing options a bad thing? Women love to shop, that why they have a lot of clothes. Men love to play sports and videogames that why we have a lot of those. You complaining there too much clothes is like a man complaining there's too much videogames.

And you said your brother gets more freedom, well a boy would get more freedom because he can't get pregnant, I'm sure when you have a daughter you will restrict her freedom so she doesn't mess up her life, I don't think your brother can do anything as bad as if your where to get pregnant by a guy who did care about you or the baby.

The bra is not that bad because you can choose not to wear one, but more men will come after you.

You also said your uncle wives treat them like kings, most women want to treat there men like kings especially if they love and respect them, remember the man is willing to die for his family so I'm sure If you felt like a guy would risk his life for you, youd treat him like a king too

You also said people want you to marry there sons, well that isn't a bad thing because girls tend to choose bad men, didn't you said you slept with a guy that slept with over 50 women? Yeah if you had a arranged marriage and guys were both virgins your would be better off because you'd just choose guys who sleep around.

Hopefully that everything, and yeah I believe girls go through different challenges but a lot of guys are lonely and don't have the confidence to find relationships. So you probably don't know about that because your attractive and been in a lot of relationships.

[mamuma02]

I sayd i dated a guy who had sex with more than 50.

And about clothes, it makes it harder to find what you wear if you have way to much. Also its easly to notise if a girl wear the same shirt twice than when a guy wear a shorts twice.

If you gave many games, is it harder for you to choose.

About a bra, I can't just choose to not wear one, because I hahe saggy tips and it would be even more painful without the bra.

About period, loosing so much blood every month is not a fun thing. It cause me to need more blood, iron and vitamin b12. I dont enjoy having period. Also the pregnancy protectiob pills that was suppose to make me bleed less and not cause me to have less iron, they did not work, I still have low iron. I already did blood test many times, why else would i know all of these? I have to go back in February to take more blood test. The iropn pills the doctor wrote for me to get at the farmacy, makes me puke everything i eat, so it does not respond very well with my body.

About my onles, its because the country is still under a patriarkat system. But its changing. The women don't enjoy to do that, they just do that just so their in laws won't judge them. I would not mention thos if I had not seen this many times with my own etes and heat tje men and woman in my family being like this. I don't mean all the men and woman in my family, cause some of them are modern and men and women help each other with chores and with getting money to the table.

[mamuma02]

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Why should I get less freedom just because I have a pussy, I get that its for protecting me, but its not fair. Boys gets also raped. People just worry that if the girl gets pregnant then the family will lose honor and be seen as not taking good care of the girls. I m not the one asking horny idiots to come rape me just because I step outdoors. Why should he get to come home late and not me? There are more danger outside than just being raped. You can get robed or killed. You might end up in a fight with drunk peopme outside.

I just guys to be in a serious relationship, and if there is some red flags i would notice after, then I break up with the guy. My mind when i date is always on to be in a longterm relationship, so if I end uo sleepingbwith the guy after dating for a while but then the relationship ends after some weeks or months, then why should I be slut shamed?

Only been in 2 relationships in real life. And other 2 was online. And the other 3 was a short date that did not lead to much

[mamuma02]

And you say a lot of guys are single and have no confident, so I would not understand? Well same goes fot women, many are also single with no confident. I have a friend that has had a crush in a guy since in 7th grade, it has gone 6 years, and she still have no confident to ask him out. She just stalk him on social media.

[mamuma02]

I used to not have confident to approach a guy i like, so I sed to write live letter or poem and put it the the Boy's locker that i had a crush on, but i never wrote my name on it. After i started using social media apps and got more confident as people approached me instead. I was just a bit Lucky. I used to be very shy, but I started to try harder to ger more confidence. I couls not even raise my hand in the classroom because if jow shy I was, but when I was 15, I tried harder to get out off one of my shells and be less shy and try to raise my hand often.

There are also many rules for girks to follow than for guys innmy countrie. Unfortunatelly i rebel sometimes if thet try to make me feel less worth than men. They be like " oh men don't like women who whistle or bike" but I do it anyway, why should I care about that. Should I stop to bike just to please them? No. Do you know that in the law in my country, woman can't inheirit land or other inheirtage if they have husbands or big brothers. But thankfulky starting to slowly start even if the law is not changed yet. It has been on the line for more than 10 years, but some greedy people still don't want to accept it to be a law so more women can also be heirs.

[mamuma02]

Thank you for MHO by the way.❤️

[chris_987]

So do you want to leave your country and go to a place where women are more free? Cause I guarantee you won't be happier, because every country has trade offs, like you can live in my country where women have more freedom but everyone has an STD or is pregnant early.

So did your friend ever lose her virginity to the guy she likes or did she end up with the same confident guy that slept with over 50 women. Because I would say that the main difference between men and women no matter how shy are girl is she still has the option to be with the confident guy that gets a lot of girls, where as the guy in the same situation, doesn't have the option to wait for a confidant girl. Because men and women are different.

[mamuma02]

I know men and women are different, have you not read the first frase on tge first opinion i wrote? " No woman will ever know how it feels to be a man and no man will ever know how it feels to be a woman."

Thats because we are different. We try to understand each other, but we will never know fully how it feels to be someone else.

I do live in country were women have more rights than in my country, so I have knowledge of how it feels to be a woman in a free country and how it ferls to be a woman in my home country. Lets say i have the best of both worlds.

Anyway I know being vry free is not 100% the best either couse there is danger in every countries. There are pros and cons.

And i don't think you read everything I wrote.

I sayd I m the one who dated the guy who had sex with over 5 girls. And I sayd that by friend with no confidence had a crush on a guy for many years.
You are mixing everything.

I guess you must be from USA. Sorry if I guessed wrong. On movies and social media they talk about how easly it is to ger std in the USA.

I live in Europe were its alowed to have sex at the age of 15 lagally, but i heard some even have it at the age of 12 years old. Anyway the point is its not so good to be very free either, thats how teens ends up getting pregnant. But if you are not stupid abd know how to kerp yourself out of trubble, then a free country is better than a country that is conservative and has a patriarkat system.

Keep in mind that I m talking about my view. And I don't know about all the hardship men go thought because if their gender or how hard it is for them to be single. Just as men don't know about all the hardship women go through in the same road.

If we keep talking about this, its going to be a never ending conversation. I think its spon time for an ending.

[Rosexøxø]

No one does.

life is a choice.

happiness is a frame of mind.

be intentional with life.

Respectable of other people.

Don’t love 90% of your life reacting to things.

That’ll only be a life of reactions and not what you dreamed/envisioned/ wanted.

Live 80% choosing and being intentional and creating

and the other 20%, reacting for when things don’t go well and side track you a bit on those plans.

Stop pointing fingers. Let’s all grow up, and bring about the lives we want.

Amen?

AMEN!

[OlderAndWiser]

Most people think that their life is more difficult than the lives of those around them. Men think their lives are more difficult than women's lives, women think thir lives are more difficult than men's lives, poor people think their lives are more difficult than the lives of rich people, etc. And each group is absolutely convinced that they are right!

1. How do you measure how difficult your life is? That is just a matter of opinion, and the opinions you will receive will all be biased.

2. Even if you could get a valid answer to the question, why does it matter. I'm a guy so if guys' lives are more difficult than girls' lives, does that mean I have a valid reason to feel sorry for myself? Valid reason to be pissed off at girls?

[Anonymous]

Women live much easier lives. I don't want to hear women or girls say, ohhh if we go out we can get raped. What the hell are women talking about, if a guy is wearing expensive clothes or shoes in a bad area he can get shot and killed. Women don't have to do hard labour work. Women nowadays say I don't need a man? Give me a break, the roads you're driving on is paved by a man, the cars you drive is made by a man, the minute a woman or girl feels fear she'll go to a big strong guy or male police officer. Young women today don't care about getting married, or have kids and they think cooking food is deemed as oppressive. I didn't say women need to cook for guys or men. But I learned to cook to learn a skill and cook for myself. Women don't know the pressure there is for jobs, in sports, defending a girlfriend or wife, being ridiculed in a feminist extremist era. I don't care if women or girls read this and give it a thumbs down, go ahead but I'm speaking facts. Until women step into a man's shoes, a guy's shoes... Don't talk shit about males.

[Opinion Owner]

Let me also add the law is far easier on women than men, especially with accident claims cases with lawyers. Studies have shown this to be true. Women don’t have to worry about things like child support even if she’s rich or wealthy. In western countries 3 things dominate the scene — rich white men, third wave feminist extremism and the LGBTQ+ views being pushed in the media, at work, online, in movies, magazines and etc. That’s all the west stands for now. LGBTQ+ I don’t care if you’re gay or lesbian that’s your life but it’s like someone who’s anti religion or anti god, do you want to have religion pushed at you in a work place or have religious parades that are like pride months. Society is on the brink of collapse.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think you are motherfucking on point. They got simps and shit while we have jack shit. Take a cruise through the tent cities and look for chicks... the only ones there are sluts. Meanwhile, you'll see plenty of motherfuckers that did some shit like serve your fucking country and have not even been to jail once in their life.

I get to come home and watch my youtube without commercials because I pay like a dumbass. I get to listen to these chicks talk about how oppressed they are, but I don't see them in the street.

There is always going to be that bitch or two that's NAWALT as all fuck and they'll claim to be homeless and not even a slut... why are they here on the internet with us then? That question alone curb stomps their argument.

I'm just a motherfucker living my motherfucking life.

[CateM]

Nobody said life was easy. Both sexes have their own hardships, and it depends on the person, and a lot of people say their opposite sex has it easier. And some good points were made. We'll start with the obvious here, women face all forms of misogyny such as unequal pay or discrimination, some women have really bad periods that can make that can send them to the hospital, and the dreaded pink tax. But women often get lighter sentences for worse crimes than men. There are a lot of men who are victims of rape or domestic violence, but for some reason nobody seems to give a shit about them. There's also toxic masculinity that never fails poison men every day. Both sexes have their own struggles so it's hard to say who has it easier in life. But if you want my opinion on who really has it the easiest? The rich.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Dude the question said MEN or WOMEN Stop being such a pussy and speak up for women unless you think men have it easier

[CateM]

@PainusNdeeAnus Men or women don't necessarily have it easier than the other. "Stop being such a pussy and speak up for women unless you think men have it easier"? This is the reason I stopped following you

[CateM]

@PainusNdeeAnus Not that you'd give two shits about anyway

[Haha456]

women actually have to go through pain every month with the menstrual cycle.

women actually have to go through the painful trauma of childbirth.

women make less money than men because of discrimination children.

the poorest people in the world are also women.

women are also more likely to struggle as single parents.

men have more opportunities in life than women

how do you still say men have it harder?

[chris_987]

Well men do have to do something with there life in order to have a life, a lot of women don't, cause the option to marry someone who has something going for themselves is always there for a woman

[Haha456]

men get to abandon their kids and never get judged for it. men get to sleep around, while women can't.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Who kills themselves more?

[chris_987]

The sleep around thing is more for getting pregnant, no parent wants there daughter to get pregnant before she's old enough to take care of a child, and if you have a son you don't really care of he's having sex at a young age.

[AshleyO]

i live with my dad , my mother left when i was 10

[Haha456]

@chris_987

people don't care about boys having sex at a young age. because they know boys can't get pregnant. and secondly, its always girls that are being raped, sold into sex slavery by boys. girls are the victims when it comes to sex, boys aren't.

[chris_987]

By that logic children have a harder life than women cause they are always the victim

[Anonymous]

I think women. As I noticed, my guy friends and I are much more successful and naturally gifted at mathematics. My friends and I are in positions of privilege. I never had to struggle with money, and girlfriends always pampered me.

Sure I had some hardships as a younger man. But the older I got, the more wiser and better I got. And 29, almost 30, I actually feel bad for a lot of women. I used to think men have harder, but now I can actually see it's a lot easier being a man if you manage to survive your early 20s. It's just your teen years and early 20s kind of suck.

You become more resilient to stress because you are more used to rejection from women. And can handle a lot more challenging jobs. So you're earnings go up like crazy. Men have a shitty start to life, but it gets a lot better as time goes on and you work.

If you work hard in your 20s, you really see the benefits of it in your 30s. But you just got to survive the shitty early part of your life.

[Cassie88]

It depends on where in the world you happen to be. If it's the Islamic Middle East or Africa we're talking about, then men definitely have things easier, but if it's Scandinavia, NZ, Canada or any other Western nation, then obviously women have things easier.

[chris_987]

The woman in the west would disagree with you lol

[petitedollbabee]

Cats live an easier life.


Whether men or women live easier, who knows. It’s an age old debate that can never truly have a correct answer. Life in general is hard, sure being a guy can make certain parts of your life harder, but being a woman can make certain parts of your life hard too. What men deal with and what women deal with are usually completely different issues, so… I’d say it’s pretty even.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

All of you women are cowards I pray you never have sons if you refuse to acknowledge the struggles men face

Who kills themselves more?

[petitedollbabee]

I never said men don’t face any struggles. I was simply saying that the struggles that men face and the struggles that women face are almost completely different so there’s no true way to compare the two, to decide who has it worse. Chill out.

[chris_987]

I blocked him, he was being too unbearable even for me

[BiteMyArse]

Keep your comments to yourself then don’t block me like I give a fuck about what you have to say when words online are enough to make you tuck tail and run you pussy

Like I said who KILLS THEMSELVES MORE?

[chris_987]

Lol why make an account just to block, clearly there are better things to do in life

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Both find it harder, experience wise. But women have it harder, biologically speaking. Women have periods each months, cramps, not physically strong enough, gives birth, can have problems with maternal, reproductive and gynecological health, hormones, and so on. Seeing many scenarios like these, struggling with health is the hardest thing. 🥺

[Msputiton]

Guys will always go women have it easier and women will always go guys have it easier.

The fact is men have no clue what women have to go through.

And women have no clue what men have to go through.

Both have their own unique struggles related to their gender.

So instead of trying to make it some weird competition just respect each other's struggles.

[boggboss]

Honestly depends different aspects make life easier for one or the other a example with a stroke of luck and looks women can get men to simp if she dont mind that type of attention equally tho as a man I have never feared leaving my house after dark and thought I might get assaulted or raped

[sunflower44]

Men all the way lol but then again I'm biased as a woman. Like for an example women literally spend so much time on their appearance while men breeze through life looking ruggedly handsome when the truth of the matter is they were just too lazy to shave 😏😜

[Hellraiser1984]

Women. All they have to do is dress up put on makeup and hangout at places rich guys hang out and they get noticed. Men have to bust their asses to have a ripped body a $500k a year job , a sports car , a really nice house or apartment and work everyday. Women don't have to any of those things and never will. Being a guy sucks. Plus let's not forget she's always looking for something better. And never forget you're just a stepping stone on their way to the top.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

In the general sense there isn't "easier" life based on gender.

You can definitely screw up your life by making bad decisions and the nature life and the circumstances that are out of your control are going to cause you troubles and pain regardless of your gender.

[dustybiker]

Depends on skills. Both genders can have them or lack them. I’ve known plenty of men who couldn’t change a tire to save their life. This can make life a bit more difficult..

[chris_987]

Yeah but a woman who can change a tire is more likely to get a man who can change a tire to pull over and help her

[dustybiker]

Yeah. He wants her number. She’s a smart woman.

[AmyHew1tt]

Another one of these? Seriously? Neither has it "easy." We just have it easier than each other in some areas and take that for granted.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Who kills themselves more?

[AmyHew1tt]

@PainusNdeeAnus What does that have to do with it? A millionaire living in a penthouse with servants, an overpaying job, a swimming pool, and a hot lover will commit suicide if they're depressed enough.

[TenderFantasy]

Rich people have an easier life.

It's not male or female, never was.

Heck maybe whites do too, at least in comparison to minority people.

[TenderFantasy]

Ooh, I forgot age discrimination. Those over 40/45 have a harder time than those younger than that.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

You’re a coward

[TenderFantasy]

@PainusNdeeAnus Lol how? I am just reporting on what I've seen! What's your evidence that what I've said wasn't true!

[kylee2437]

Can’t go off based on gender. People are out here living more difficult lives than us everyday. Sounds like you need to count your blessings

[chris_987]

Don't you think it's strange that most men will say women, and most women will say both or neither. It seem to me like women can't relate to men on any level.

[kylee2437]

Anyone that decides to have race wars with no factual information needs to get a life’s

[kylee2437]

Life*

[chris_987]

Well there was a women who became a man and committed suicide afterwards because she was treated so badly as a man, so I do think a lot of women will be shock at how poorly people will treat them if the were a man

[kylee2437]

I’m 100% sure that’s not the issue. The issue with that person is they have identity/ mental health issues that made them commit suicide because that person wasn’t getting the help they needed to clear away those mental health issues.

[chris_987]

No they didn't it because they thought like you did, that men had an easier life. And they were so shocked by it that they couldn't live with that thought. Image if you where a guy and your loneliness depended on how much many you made. Women can't relate to that situation.

[kylee2437]

Where did I say men have an easier life? Lmao cut it out. You are literally talking about some transgender that obviously had mental issues from the very beginning

[chris_987]

Lol you can watch the video, and see for yourself if she had mental issues, but I would argue that all trans people have i mental issues

[kylee2437]

Well that’s what I am saying. All trans people have mental issues, so it has nothing to do with being a man , it has to do with the already present mental health issues.

[chris_987]

But then you could make the argument that no women will ever know what it's like to be a man because only an unstable person would want to switch genders

[kylee2437]

So you are trying to argue my point lol you are essentially agreeing with me. The example you mentioned has nothing to do with gender, it has to do with the mental state of that transgender person.

[chris_987]

No I was saying that if you believe any one tries to switch there gender is insane that you can't say for sure who has a worst life. I was restating what you said.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

You women are such cowards it’s pathetic

Who kill’s themselves more?

[kylee2437]

@painusNdeeAnus men are also more likely to REFUSE therapy.

[aficionado]

Rich people live easier lives. When you have money, life is a piece of cake, irrespective of gender.

[MCheetah]

In today's society? Undoubtedly Western women.

Throughout all of society: The rich and royalty.