An 18 year old likes me and I'm 10 years older, is that normal?

[Anonymous]

She said she likes me and says the age difference does not bother her.

[Zack-Bann]

If she’s legal you’re doing nothing wrong no matter how hard people will try to paint you as a creep


Maturity is very arbitrary and not linearly linked with age


When it comes to minors it counts as abusing an underdeveloped mind but by the time someone is old enough to drive and to vote they can make choices about romantic partners too

[D_Bone_Steak]

Bro... you're living the dream! Only the women your own age are going to have a problem with this... because they view you as a resource... a resource one of them can't take advantage of because you have a younger chick.

[Asker]

I've also unexpectedly fallen for her as well, we have a date.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm happy for you. I for one think the man-woman relationship flows better with such a age gap. Less arguments, dominance struggles, and petty shit tests... and I'm only saying that from experiences I've had on both sides of the fence.

[Asker]

Her older sister is actually the same age as me and helped me talk to her, she cares for her sister being happy and thinks we'd be a good match.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Women know it's a better deal... the women that don't like it, they're judging from a very selfish point of view. They view it as a loss for their own options and the younger woman as competition. You'll see the same shit with the passport bros... the women left behind that parties and has random sex seeth about it.

With all that said, her sister cares for her younger sister I take it. Very different mindset than the sea of seething women of cope out there. She's not calling you weird and is in fact suggesting it.

[Anonymous]

you should stop worrying about this and enjoy what you've got

LGBTQ relationships aren't normal yet those who engage in it don't worry about it

if you want people to control your life for you, then keep on worrying

[zagor]

As long as she's mature for her age, it's fine.

[DrPepper12]

Currently YES! Older men are very desired by the young women. Enjoy it!

[BarryLiverstone]

Sure, we have friends of all ages I life

[Asker]

It's more than that, she has a crush on me.

[BarryLiverstone]

Why does she have a crush?

[Asker]

She told me I was nice and funny, we work together.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then it’s no big deal. You are friends

[Asker]

You think it would be okay to go out with her?

[BarryLiverstone]

Go out and what?

[BarryLiverstone]

You can go out as friends with other coworkers

[Asker]

Eat, or see a movie

[BarryLiverstone]

Right. Invite a few coworkers out after work and eat

[Anonymous]

No, that is weird.

[Asker]

Should I give her a shot?

[In_Trance]

it's common.

it is normal... you tell me