How come when a man cheats on a woman, she gets blamed?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[ohsheeT]

Have you ever seen a man take ownership of something that he's done hell no it's because they're manipulators and of course they have to blame the wife she didn't give me any sex so I had to go find some why didn't he just get a divorce I know it's ridiculous people are ridiculous really and if a guy can get away with it he's going to say it because of course he can't be the bad guy even though he is

[ManOnFire]

Really? I rarely see or hear that. It's almost never the woman who gets blamed and almost always the guy who does. Either him or the woman he cheated with.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so you’ve never heard people saying excuses like ”she didn't give me enough sex” or smth along those lines?

[ManOnFire]

@chocolatetwopointo Very rarely. The vast majority of people tend to think of the cheating guy as a piece of shit.

[chocolatetwopointo]

personally I've never seen that happen

[Apple1996]

Women get blamed for anything and everything. Some men will even blame women who they don't know. Saying shit like "you are the reason that men cheat". I've seen that used many times against random women who the man barely knows

[Wallythewalrus2]

I'd be lying if I said I didn't like it when you get feisty!

[Apple1996]

@Wallythewalrus2 sometimes i can be a spicy little apple 🍎

[msmissydc]

About which women do we speak? But lets be real both are gonna get blamed. Men always find reasons to blame women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im talking ab the people that blame women by saying ”she didn't give him the sex he wanted” or anything along those lines

[msmissydc]

Oh yeah I thought as much. I dont know the answer but I wanted to make sure its not about the women who the guy cheats with. Because if she knows he is not single both are to blame. Not tue cheating victim though, thats fucked up in our society.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah and by the way when the girl knows ab it (ofc its js as bad) i only see the girl blame her and say she's gna beat her up and people blame her more than the man, same when she doesn't know

[Ms_KnowItAll]

I feel like men also get blamed when they cheat. Everyone is responsible for their own individual actions, regardless of their perceived justifications.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im talking ab the people that blame women by saying ”she didn't give him the sex he wanted” or anything along those lines

[Ms_KnowItAll]

Who knows. I hear the same thing from women, "he didn't give her enough attention and affection"
Some outsiders will just defend their own sex/gender when they are judging another relationship. Probably because they feel like they can relate with the other person's feelings and thus, understand their actions.
It's stupid though. There is no justification for it - in my opinion.

[ChicoFromThe305]

All I know is that I personally always blame the cheater cause that's who's suppose to be blamed

[Anonymous]

I don't know who would blame her other than other men with a cheater mentality.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im talking ab the people that blame women by saying ”she didn't give him the sex he wanted” or anything along those lines

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah only guys who would give themselves permission to cheat in that scenario blame the women.

[Anonymous]

It's usually the opposite actually.

[chocolatetwopointo]

LMFAO okay please elaborate

[Opinion Owner]

Male cheaters are maligned far more than female cheaters. Most people say when a woman cheats it's because her partner didn't give her enough emotional support. Think about it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well since men cheat more, women get more of the ”ur not enough for him” treatment.

[Opinion Owner]

Before age 30 women actually cheat more than men. At around age 30 it flips and men start to cheat slightly more than women, but even up to age 50 the difference is not significant, only about 3%. So your theory is false.

[chocolatetwopointo]

if u google ”who cheats more” it will say men. probably bc at 30 women settle down and have kids, men dont care ab that, apparently.

[Opinion Owner]

Let me know if you need some help understanding the graph. As I said, women cheat more than men before age 30, and men cheat slightly more between 30 and 50, with only a 3% difference.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? men still cheat more so this proves my point further.

[Opinion Owner]

OMG you are dumb. Are you on the spectrum?

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope, men still cheat more I don't know what to tell u lmao and where did u get that graf?

[Danny_dan92]

She shouldn’t

[In_Trance]

it takes two...

[chocolatetwopointo]

and?

[msc545]

Why not?

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym why not?