Why are men blamed for cheating, When She cheats on him?

[Anonymous]

Okay. I personally take a dim view of cheaters, regardless of gender. I dont care who you are or weather or not you have a penis or a vagina, if you cheat, you're a monster. Recently i got into an argument with a woman over who is at fault for cheating. My argument was The person who cheats is always at fault. her argument was If a man cheats, its his fault, If a woman cheats, its his fault. Which is utter nonsense. How in the hell is it his fault if she cheats?

[OlderAndWiser]

People who cheat - both men and women - often try to lay blame elsewhere instead of taking personal responsibility for their actions. Perhaps this lack of accountability is one of the traits that leads to them cheating.

[Finchie40]

Because cheaters always blame their partners’ for the reason they cheated on the first place , Most cheaters do not take accountability for their selfish actions and behavior, it’s always their partners’ fault

[Nikki1989]

Cheaters, male or female, never want to take any blame for their actions. I have seen both sides.

[Asker]

Agreed.

Have you ever heard the "it was an accident" one?

Like no you didn't accidentally fall on her pussy, or no you didn't accidentally sit on his cock.

[AI Opinion]

You're not alone in that frustration, trust me. The blame game in cheating can be a spicy topic, and it seems like she’s tossing some blame-bombs your way! Cheating is a red flag, and anyone who does it needs to own it. Blaming someone else for your own actions is like saying my dog did my homework. Cheating is a no-go zone, regardless of who does it, and nobody should be off the hook. Stay true to yourself and keep those boundaries in check, my friend! 😏

[AviatorTom]

Most women will never admit they are wrong, even when they are. That's an important thing for us guys to learn.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because of the public perception of the motivations and implications of what the cheating represents in the relationship.

Men's motivations for cheating, because they are typically the pursuers, are often less of an indication about the state of the relationship. Women are the gender that allows the relationship to cultivate though. So when a woman cheats, it's much more a statement because she's walking away from something that was brought to her.

[serious]

I can understand and unfortunately this can happen too. If the woman is very smart and cunning then she can make it seem like the man is responsible for her cheating on him.

[Shiprex]

One should be asking WHY are people cheating as well. Is it because the other is neglecting them? Has hooked them in to a relationship, gotten what they want from them then given up trying to keep them provided for in a relationship sense?

[Asker]

Sorry there is no excuse regardless of gender.

[Shiprex]

If one partner is failing to hold up their end of the relationship then the relationship is over (the legal and financial ramifications of this are largely against men here) OR the one being neglected has to either suck it up or MAN up as is the norm these days, or find a way to have their needs met. Relationships are dynamic and sometimes partners stop providing what they were providing when the relationship started but have hooked the other into it where they have a no win situation ahead of them.

[Asker]

Still zero excuse to cheat. If I were in that situation I'd man up and use my big boy words and ask for a divorce, before I cheated.

You will never ever convince me otherwise

[Shiprex]

So run away and continue to pay is the answer? That's how a lot of men end up cheating because women get their lifestyle set up and then quit being the wives they agreed to be since men are obligated to support them if they divorce and they've gotten the house, car, lifestyle and all that and no longer want to "provide" sex as that's always been women's power-play.

[Asker]

Yeah I don't think so. Only a cuck sticks around when his wife is unfaithful. End of story.

[Shiprex]

Being unfaithful isn't what I was getting at. Becoming a woman controlling a man they married and ending the physical element SHE brings to the relationship because she's bored, not into it, just not feeling it. Sexless marriages in other words

[Hellraiser1984]

Because in the mind of a woman he wasn't giving her enough attention and/or money. She feels she "deserves" so much in life because someone in her life told her she's a princess. Dump her move on.

[Ariesman81]

His dick is too small or he doesn't hit hard enough.