Why does every woman I run into turn out to be a liar who leads people on?

[Anonymous]

Eventually they show their true colors and turn into a completely different person

[D_Bone_Steak]

It could be that women are liars that lead people on.

If I'm wrong about that though... it could be the women you're attracting. In that case I would analyze yourself as to what you're doing to attract that specific type of woman. Allow me to elaborate...

I myself don't attract with anything other than having muscles, a big dick, pretty smart (not the smartest), and most of all... a promise that I won't catch feelings and have no problem with her moving on to go fuck Chad and Tyrone. Basically, I attract married women, career women, rich women (usually from a divorce or child support), women in college, and basically women that just want to fuck and don't have time for "relationships"... they have no reason to lie to me and trying to lead me on will just equal me shutting it down because I don't have time for more than just fucking. Now, on the other hand... that guy that just wants a family and leads with his wallet gives a woman all the inspiration in the world to lie to him and lead him on. The incentive is there for that guy to get manipulated. Did any of that make sense?

Just to be clear... every human has the ability to be a thing... but muggers don't rob homeless people much do they and carjackers don't really go for the guy that rides a bicycle to work, right? If you simply don't have (or don't advertise) what a person would want any reason to lie and lead you on for... those people will skip over you. A gold digger might look at me with lust, but if her goal is to just get some gold, she's probably going to call me a loser and do us both a favor and not waste our time. She has no idea I have a grip of property and material things... because I just look like a dirty hiker and I don't talk about that shit. If she wants to "date," she will have to ask and pay for it all... I don't offer shit except fucking. A woman worried about how to get her rent payed sees me as nothing but a lost cause... even if she wants my big dick.

Just food for thought. I was once a blue pilled simp of a dude and I was getting played like it sounds like you're getting played. I was a try-hard... desperate for pussy. At a certain point I started becoming the opposite. One can only get burned so much until they become a lump of coal... and when bitches burn the coal, they pay the toll. 😂🤣

[Anonymous]

Because those women have honed thier craft.

I know it's f***ed up to say this. But usually, the best women don't show you a whole lot of interest. The game players have spent a lifetime honing their craft and know exactly what buttons to push on guys to get them to roll over and beg. Inexperienced guys read this as, "I might have found the one." That wasn't by accident. That was all part of her plan.

[Anonymous]

Or you could’ve gotten the wrong impression and now you’re salty that things didn’t work out in your favor. It happens.

[Asker]

Im not an idiot. I know when something doesn't invloved being lead on and when it does

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you are if this has happened with “every woman”. You could be oblivious, in denial, etc etc….

[Asker]

All meaning the 5 women I've talked to have all lied. Is it possible i can delusional? Sure. Is it possible that the 5 women i talked to were terrible people? Sure

[Opinion Owner]

Yes both routes are possible, but when the exact same outcome happens with woman after woman, at some point you have to look inward. You may not be as good at reading signs, interpreting body language, etc as you think. And absolutely nothing is wrong with that, if anything I’d say it’s an opportunity to learn more about yourself for personal growth.

[Opinion Owner]

Like if I were cheated on 5x in a row. The first time would be one thing, second time maybe a coincidence, but then 3rd, 4th, 5th, at what point do I ask myself if maybe I’m picking the wrong men? There’s always something to look back on.

[Asker]

Does bad luck not exist in this universe

[Opinion Owner]

I’d say 5 women in a row is more than just a touch of bad luck. Besides, I don’t believe in luck I believe in learning from my experiences so that I don’t repeat the same thing over and over.

[Asker]

Luck does play a factor in life. If i get hit by random car out of nowhere, that's just bad luck

[Opinion Owner]

Not everyone is superstitious my friend.

[Asker]

That's the problem

[Opinion Owner]

That doesn’t make any sense. Like did whether or not those women believe in luck have to do with the outcome? Blaming what you’re going through on superstition is completely dismissive, because this isn’t just a case of bad luck. Not 5 times in a row.

[Asker]

How do you know that? Do you know how life works and think everthing is guranteed in life

[Opinion Owner]

I’m asking you a question: did whether or not those women believe in luck have to do with the outcome? Is that your belief? If so then go ahead and elaborate on how.

[Asker]

They didn't expect anything. So it would have to be luck or fate for that matter

[Opinion Owner]

That makes absolutely no sense and you know it.

[Asker]

Why doesn't it make sense?

[Opinion Owner]

You said they didn’t expect anything, what does that mean and what does luck have to do with it? You sound like you’ll blame everything in the world except your own behavior. How you’ve handled this conversation has shown a lot about your personality and truly makes me wonder what those 5 women’s perspectives of you are. 5 in a row, mind you. There’s a reason for that and the more you speak the more you show. In this conversation all you’ve done is rebuttal and make excuses, you aren’t giving anything said any genuine thought instead just blame it all on bad luck and that just shows such a lack of emotional maturity dude.

[Asker]

Are you a psychologist? Do you really gather a bunch of information from this interaction all because i brought up luck?

[Opinion Owner]

Is this a compliment?

[Asker]

Nope

[Opinion Owner]

That was sarcasm. Duh.

[Opinion Owner]

Since you so kindly called me a psychologist and all☺️

[red-lipstick-girl]

Not all women are the same, some women are good and valuable

[Asker]

Most women are like that

[ChicoFromThe305]

You must be surrounding yourself around the wrong people

[Asker]

How do i surround myself when i know nothing about the shitty things these people are capable of doing later on?

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's where morals play a part, if you see they have strong morals then you can somewhat guess the type of person that they are

[Asker]

That's a scary shit. People show you this good side of them and then down the line, they screw you over. I couldn't predict that

[ChicoFromThe305]

I could, that's why actions speak louder than words, it's why I insist on a virgin christian woman, there's nothing more healthy than a god fearing woman, same with men it works both ways, it shows these people live by a code and their morals are Christian built, people can say whatever they want about Christianity but one thing that's for certain is that morally it has the healthiest way a human can live their life and usually morals is a part of their character, you want a long lasting healthy relationship, get into the words of God and find someone that lives by those values as well and God willingly, it won't fail.

[ProbablyClueless]

You have to be more diligent about setting boundaries with people. Strong, healthy boundaries scare liars and manipulators off.

[LazerBean]

That must be your type

[Asker]

Guess im a piece of shit then

[LazerBean]

It's possible

[Asker]

I am a shitty person

[LazerBean]

Okay

[Asker]

I deserve what happened to me i guess

[Anonymous]

happens to the best of us