Why did my boyfriend suddenly asked me if I had my period last month?

[Anonymous]

I told him a few days ago I had a gynaecological ultrasound checkup. And today he suddenly asked me this.

[ohsheeT]

Have you been allowing him not to wear a condom because if so he just freaked out

And you better both look at this moment as a learning experience because two people that say they love each other protect each other no matter what with a condom or on the pill but you both have to keep each other in check to protect each other that is called love if one of you do not want to wear protection or take protection that's not love that's being selfish and anything in the world can happen then and guess who's going to pay for it you are because the guy more than likely will just leave so both of you better think about this one

[WindAtMyBack]

Totally guessing here.

My guess is that he doesn't know much about women's health. I suspect it's an innocent question he asked out of ignorance. He may have related going to a gynaecologist with thinking you were pregnant. Hence, wondering if you missed your period.

Maybe you should sit him down and explain some things. Men are ignorant because they are kept in the dark. So enlighten him.

Again, this is total guess based on the little you said.

[Asker]

Ahh… so he was suspecting I was pregnant? But we do “pull-out” method, so there’s no way we would get pregnant. 😂

[WindAtMyBack]

LOL at the sarcasm. :)

But yea, he may have thought you were pregnant.

[spartan55]

@asker
Hopefully you were joking when you said there is 'no way' you can get pregnant using the withdrawal method..😂 😂 😂 Because you certainly can.

[spartan55]

@WindAtMyBack
I don't believe she was being sarcastic.

[Asker]

@spartan55 there’s possibility but it’s very low, lower than 1%. So he shouldn’t be worried about it..

[spartan55]

Uh... wrong... perfect use (never dribbles before he shoots) of the pull out method is 96% effective, but typical users are 78% effective.
Not sure where your facts are coming from.

[itsannalee]

It’s simple…
It’s because some women get periods only in short time, and not that much blood. She doesn’t have any symptoms, like emotional changes, moo swings, charms or any pain.


People won’t notice if you just spend your day just like normal day.

[itsannalee]

Sorry i was going to reply someone lol

[spartan55]

So he isn't aware when you have your period?

[Asker]

No cause I change my pad at work. I never throw my pads at home 😂

[spartan55]

But how does he not know? You live together?

[Asker]

Yes we do

[spartan55]

OK... again, how can he not know you are on your period? So you change your pad only at work? Why can't you throw it away at home?

[itsannalee]

@spartan55 It’s simple…
It’s because some women get periods only in short time, and not that much blood. She doesn’t have any symptoms, like emotional changes, moo swings, charms or any pain.

People won’t notice if you just spend your day just like normal day.

[spartan55]

Still weird that you don't dispose of the pads at home but whatever. What if he wants sex?

[itsannalee]

Not all people have sex for every single day, normal period is start from 24 hours to 10 days. So if someone have only 2 or 5 days that’s still normal. Nothing weird here.

[spartan55]

Yeah, I know all that. So your boyfriend just happens to never want sex when you are on your period? Okay... this is weird.

[itsannalee]

This is not weird, you just don’t know much about women body and health.

[spartan55]

Yeah you're right. I just learned what a period was yesterday.

[Danny_dan92]

He thinks you’re pregnant

[Asker]

Ahh. But we do pull out method, he shouldn’t be worried about it

[Danny_dan92]

Great plan… lol