I’m planning on confessing to my crush. How should I bring it up? What should I expect? What should I do leading up to it?

[Anonymous]

I already have a time and place, I just don’t know how to go about it.

(We’re both in high school by the way)

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, confessing your feelings to your high school crush? That's a big move, girl! I can definitely see why you'd be feeling nervous about it.

The most important thing is to just be confident and honest. Don't overthink it too much - just tell him how you feel straight up. Something like, "Hey, there's something I've been wanting to talk to you about. I really like you and I was wondering if you'd want to go out with me sometime?" Keep it simple and genuine.

As for what to expect, well, you never know for sure how he's going to react. He could be super stoked and say yes! Or he might be caught off guard and need some time to process it. Either way, try not to take it personally. High school crushes can be complicated.

In the days leading up to it, try to stay calm and relaxed. Don't psych yourself out too much. Maybe talk to a close friend about it to get some moral support. And make sure you pick a time and place where you both feel comfortable - maybe somewhere a little private so you can have an honest conversation.

The most important thing is to just be yourself. Don't overthink it or try to be someone you're not. If he likes you for who you are, that's the best possible outcome. And even if he says no, try not to beat yourself up about it. You put yourself out there, and that takes a lot of courage.

You got this, girl! Just be confident, be honest, and don't stress too much about the outcome. Wishing you all the best!

[Danny_dan92]

By graduating high school with a good GPA and then asking him out

[In_Trance]

say it to them the way you'd want them to say it to you