How do you know when you’re better off staying single?

[MoonFace2]

[es20490446e]

I noticed I'm usually very happy when single, and usually miserable when dating.

It just happens I find my individual life quite interesting, while I maybe have been not too selective about who I have dated.

Yet if I had a girlfriend I'm unsure how I will balanced both. Work kind of absorbs me.

[ClassicDropout]

If you're happy single, you might as well stay single

[MoonFace2]

I’ve been in love three times and I could be happy with the right man, but for me, the right man never came. So while I often feel lonely, I also feel like I’m better off alone than unhappy.

[MoonFace2]

In this case, am I better off staying single? If there’s been no one else I’ve loved recently?

[ClassicDropout]

I wouldn't have the real answer to that. Only you can tell if you're truly happy being single. I can tell you that I am. I wouldn't go out of my way for any relationship, but if one came to me, I'd give it a shot. I feel like you're in the same boat.

[MoonFace2]

Yes, I feel like I am in the same boat, too

[AmeerX]

Bad advice.

[Anonymous]

When you are unhappy more than you are happy when you're with someone else.

The reality of life is everyone you LOVE will hurt you at some point. But the ones that truly love you do not do it intentionally, maliciously. Everyone you love will hurt you at some point. You just have to determine who is worth bleeding for.

And if that is no one, then you should probably being single.

At least that's my take on it.

[virtualwasp]

ill e etter off when im left alone by everyone and their pathetic partners

[MoonFace2]

Oh? What makes you feel that way?

[RHK36]

When being with someone disrupts your peace instead of adding to it.

[AmeerX]

Staying single is not good if you intend to marry. If you are just fooling around then you can stay single all your life

[ClassicDropout]

Bad advice.

[AmeerX]

Marriage is to have children and sanctity of physical relationship.
If someone says they want to have all the things of married couples without the actual marriage even if it's not a registered but a temple marriage they are just ruining themselves

[ClassicDropout]

And who decided that? If I met a female version of me, we'd get along just fine and not get married. There would be no ruining of anything. Its about compatibility. YOU might be ruining yourself by skipping marriage, but I can do it just fine and others can too.

[AmeerX]

I want marriage lol.

[EmmaMary]

Fortunately I don't have a clue... Sorry.

[Jennz6]

When you’re happy and independent