Is it best to stay single?

Question

I’ve been unable to fall for any of the guys I’ve dated since the last one I ever loved romantically ended up turning out to be a narcissistic stalker. I don’t know if I just don’t fancy any of these men or if I’m damaged by what happened in the past.

DenizLikesTennis · Accepted Answer

This question cannot be really answered because you are responsible for your own happiness and no any relationship in this world could fuel your energy.

You are an adult. So being single has sooooooo so so many reasons that it could be your own fault or not. We really can't tell why single you are.

In like 10-15 years later, you will have different problems. So these things won't matter in near future. Being single is survivable. Keep your mind busy with new adaptable skills that will make you attractive, take care of your mental health especially.

And skip all the low quality women/men that demand you to be "Funny, cracking jokes".. such unrealistic standards... and if I have to say it, those are not women/men... they are (...)... you know what I mean.

And the most important thing that nobody sees > READ BOOKS ABOUT PSYCHOLOGY AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT. JORDAN PETERSON. THAT WILL TEACH YOU SO MANY GOOD LESSONS. READ A LOT OF BOOKS.

Dress reaaally well, take an interesting book with you and sit in a restaurant. That'll make you look exceptional and interesting.

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

I think stay single is good, attached is better.

Reason: ultimately we have a desire for intimacy that need to be satisfied.

Statistically, married people are generally happier than singles.

Hence if you can put away relationship and be happy, good for you.

But if you keep thinking of sex, intimacy and companionship everyday, then it's better to seek out a committed relationship.

Unit1 · Answer

Well if all you can choose from are like these it only makes sense to stay single.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

I never like settling for less, now that I'm older and wiser. And I won't repeat my same pitfalls again lol. So I'm happier single, as i merrily love daydreams over unrealistic perfection lol. I find I save more money on me, and I contribute better with family and friends and my hobbies no nagging wife. No nagging offspring. Peace ✌🏻☮️😀 and this is my view only. good times keep rolling on for me 💗😊😊

BlackJeep · Answer

I had a tough break up and it was hard to find someone better. I worked on myself and put myself back out there and found someone who broke up with her boyfriend the same time I broke up and she was also working on herself. We were in the same spot emotionally and slowly grew together. Don't give up

YourExLover69 · Answer

Well I have same experience as you. Due to trust issues and past bad experiences I'm staying single nowadays. For now I just want a girl who is talkative and be my friend. Ask me random questions daily talk chat etc. Before anything serious happens between us. But unfortunately I haven't found such girl 😔

Anonymous · Answer

I think you need to do some self reflection about what kind of men you are actually attracted to. If the only guy you've ever loved was a narcissist, you have a problem that is common among women. Not sure how to help you get over that.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

In life if you never try you will never know & if you want to stay single it’s up to you & if you want to find that special wonderful someone keep on trying.