Is it best that I stay single?

[Anonymous]

I’m 22 and never dated, I’ve been wanting to go out on dates but haven’t had any luck. All I do is get ghosted by all the guys I talk to, no one approaches me in public, and it seems like whenever someone is interested they only want sex and nothing else.

I feel like it’s very hard trying to find someone who actually wants a relationship and not just hookups. And I dress very modest, I don’t show a lot so I don’t get why that’s all a guy want when he see me.

I also have a guy friend who likes me and I like him too but he also likes 2 other girls so basically he’s indecisive on who he want. And I don’t have time trying to get him to pick me. He’s off-limits cause his situation already seems messy.

But at this point I feel like I should just stay single. I know don’t have to be with a guy, but sometimes being single does get boring for so long. But I doubt I’ll find anyone anytime soon.

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Thank you to the ones that have been helpful. The rest that are worried about me being anon or trying to make everything my fault, I’m just gonna block you cause who pissed in your coffee?

[dtweed1996]

It depends really but it’s up to you honestly you could choose to stay single, or keep trying to go look for your significant other.
I mean like before last summer I was single just meeting and dating because I wanted my first real relationship to be my only eventually I met her over the summer in her eyes she took a chance as she looked at me, while I just took it slow and observed her because I didn’t want to get played again and after her birthday in September I finally fell into her custody because most women I met just try to play me for easy money and only two successfully did that. The first was some woman named rose I eventually just stopped falling for her tricks then she ditched me. After that I just fell for anabel who was doing something a little similar to rose but when we were together she tried to ask me for money again then I told her about rose then she was like forget about her then I was like stop being like her. She was a little dramatic when I said that but she understood ever sense then we talk about our future together and express our love for each other now that feels like real love.

[HighValue]

Being single is better than being with the wrong person.

I think one of the easiest ways to get someone to start talking to you would be to wear a political hat or shirt for whatever you strongly support. That will get some people to dislike you, but it will also get others to like you and maybe start a conversation with you. You should get to know more people that way.

[Changiis07]

You should stay single until you feel completely ready. 22 is still a great age. Men are just more visual and no you don't have to change your whole wardrobe to get a guy to like you. It's best to know that's all they want from the beginning which prevents you from getting hurt. There will be someone that likes you for you and wants to get to know you. In the meantime enjoy being single and meet other people and yes your guy friend well yu are smart. You don't want to be an option

[mark000h]

You just need to look for guys who know what they want. More mature guys who are looking for a relationship and don't play games. It's ok to be single, but nothing wrong with wanting companionship.

[JayLiche]

Nah
getting into a relationship with the right person is worth it, it’s therapy.

They make you forget about everything wrong in your life, you think about em & things they’ve said & Done all day long..

You see random gifts you think they’d like,
You get to brag to your family & friends..

Once you get familiar with their family it’s like a 2nd family & everyone is usually super nice

[Interstate]

First off, whether or not to date is dependent on what is within your best interest. Nobody knows what is best for you but YOU.

[VikingWarLord]

Just join OnlyFans, you females have been given a golden ticket with this social media and all these Beta Males who will worship you

[William2198]

What do you look like? And do you even want to be single? Doesn't sound like you want to be single.

[Asker]

Cause technically I wanna give up. Why keep searching for something that won’t happen? Like a little hope is there, but what’s really the point? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[William2198]

What are you actively doing to try to get a guy? What are your methods?

[William2198]

It really doesn't matter what you're doing, I know your issue. It's your attitude. You are reaping what you sow. If you like the Bible it is what Jesus taught. If you don't like the Bible, it is what Newton taught his 3rd Law. The Law of cause and Effect. Gl. No such thing as luck though. https://youtu.be/LMvYaNbp14I https://youtu.be/XxWm0gLNPbw

[RoccoJones]

As long as that question gets asked: the answer is always yes

[InferiorElegy]

That's up to you. As a female it's up to you wether you date or not.

[sensible27]

Well, stay single till you find someone you like?

[fireforeffect]

You will find the right person, be patient.

[Anonymous]

If you want to be single be single