As it states based on this info which would be better to pursue: I sometimes feel a constant back and forth between being single or getting married. Next year I will final graduate from a program that will grant me a lot of independence took me extra time because my last education institute dropped the ball I graduated late by about a year and I'm not licensed in that degree and it doesn't have the best earning potential in hindsight. Basically I will finally have a major aspect of my life together at 32.
Now as you can imagine going through that first bit while at the same time having a 4 year relationship end really caused depression and I wasn't really independent at the time as a result. That combination caused me both to not date as much or more plainly I wasn't as appealing to many women as a result. So as you can imagine time has passed without me really living the single life or gaining those relationship experiences. Now I have always wanted to get married and have children I know that is out of the norm for my generation (which makes dating prospects harder) but it is something I KNOW I want.
But, I have heard stories of guys who never got to date or sleep with a good amount of women before settling down and felt trapped in marriage or manifest those feelings in anger or cheating or even rush into marriage with someone who is not right for them. Is this a grass is greener on the other side of the fence deal or is there truth to it? When I get married I want to be fully committed to my wife and be a great Husband and Father. Many resources that offer advice to people over 30 who want to get married are usually for women not men. But, men do have a biological factor too having kids too late for a man has a potential to cause issues as well as being too old on a scale as a child grows up. Sorry if this is confusing but I am looking for insight/advice on whether I should try to gain those single experiences first or focus on finding marriage? Q? Just ask.
