To marry or to remain single?

[enterr10]

What's better choice according to you and why?

Get married and have kids

Get married but no kids

Remain single but have romantic/sexual relationships

Remain single without any sex/romance

[kylee2437]

I’ll remain single until I find what I’m looking for, and I’m strict with that. Having a partner around just because you want a partner but they don’t make you happy is not the move

[Jasmin01]

Isn't it the dream of most girls and probably guys too, to get married and have children? At least that's how I would like to have my future.

[enterr10]

Maybe you have such dream because you are very young now. That's why you are living in a fantasy

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I have a pretty happy marriage, and we love our children. We made our choice and are very happy about it.

[enterr10]

Got married at what age?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I was 27

[enterr10]

Do you ever regret getting married?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

You don't message do you?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Not at all. It's challenging, but I feel like overcoming those challenges with someone you love is very gratifying.

[enterr10]

Living married life is more challenging or living single , sexless romance less life?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I think being single and not having a fulfilling, romantic relationship, would not suit me well. It's very much a personal preference.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Get married to a compatible woman, but have no kids.

[enterr10]

How to know who is this compatible person?

[TheSpaceGnome]

A compatible person thinks like me, has the same hobbies and interests and lifestyle as me, but is an attractive woman.

[WhitneySnow]

Get married after college but no kids right away

[enterr10]

But eventually have kids at a later stage?

[WhitneySnow]

Probably

[Anonymous]

I am just going to have kids via surrogacy. Dating is a waste of time and money that could be used for surrogacy.

[enterr10]

Why have kids?
Wouldn't it be difficult to handle and raise kids?

[clampfan101]

The best choice is to know which of these will make you the happiest and finding someone who feels the same way.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Married with kids

[enterr10]

Wouldn't it be a difficult life?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Are you tryna talk me out of having a family in the future? 😭

[enterr10]

No I am just curious 🤨

[wiltingrosepetal]

Well yes of course it would be a difficult life, that's what raising kids is like

[enterr10]

If having a partner and kids is difficult then why prefer it over being single and alone?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Ask your parents

[enterr10]

Lol. You being rude now

[wiltingrosepetal]

Dude what's your end game here? Are you tryna convince me to be single alone? Cause that's what it looks like