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Not viable in my opinion. Women are too much hard work and not worth the squeeze.
Look at the advice that is given. You just have to be their best option and do this n that then that and this. Repeat that over and over.
But they are going to divorce you at 8 years anyway when the 1.8 kiddies hit primary school.
If you are exciting, she look for someone who is stable and provides electricity everyday. If you are stable she'll look for someone exciting cause she misses the thrill of having electricity that day. She'll basically won't what she has once she has got it.
You are best off with 6 month relationships which is the natural length of the same.
Definitely want to get married one day, but not everyone has the luck to find someone who would sleep with them under a bridge. I want someone who can weather the storm with me. Someone who's with me through thick and thin. And someone who has unwavering faith in my character, who isn't influenced by others opinions. That is an extreme rarity nowadays.
Me and my sweetie have been together almost 6 years and have done our own marriage ritual but yes, I would like to make a big , public, official affair out of our wedding ceremony and I could get all dolled up pretty and we could have a big, week long pagan, drunken festival! Yay! 😊
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I am trying to get married. Just after Christmas, I lowered my expectations, a little bit, and I am about to lower them again. I need to get married this year, before my sexual market value drops.
What do you mean lowered your expectations?
@whosnumber_1 That means lowering my standards. Borderline guys that in the past, I rejected because I was seeking better, I will now accept.
Curious to know what things you are willing to overlook?
@whosnumber_1 It is not that I overlook anything, only that I will accept a little less. Expand my acceptable age range by a couple. A little less in looks, athletic ability, height, and income or potential income.
Your only 21. I think you are thinking too hard on this. Putting to much emphasis on his building blocks rather that concentration on how your relationship compliments each other. You have many years of life to worry about getting married
@whosnumber_1 I don't have time to wait. If not already, my sexual market will drop.
@HighValue Age 19 to 24, acceptable looks, and the potential to earn $100,000 by age 30.
What are you talking about? You have "Sexual Market" late into your 30s for making babies
@HighValue what are you taking about? Women can easily have babies in their 30s
@whosnumber_1 Look into statistics, talk to paternity doctor, and take a biology class if you think that. After 35 it is less than 1% chance. And no, that doesn't mean someone has to try over 100 times to be successful, it means less than 1% of the population can even if they try thousands of times after that age.
@HighValue I'm not hear for a class on statistics from the university of High value. This girl is 21 and already worried about her fertility and desirability drying up. What I'm trying to provide is a little encouragement
@whosnumber_1 Encouragement is good, but intentional dishonesty isn't. This is coming from a certified teacher that passed all content exams on the first attempt, not just some random person that doesn't know what they are saying. She has plenty of time NOW at her age, but people that try to pretend that time is longer than reality aren't helpful.
@HighValue you go girl!
@whosnumber_1 A woman's ability to make babies peaks at age 16 and goes downhill after that. Lots of things affect sexual market value, that is, your desirability as a wife, but looks and youth are primary. 2,000 years ago, sexual market value peaked at age 13. In the Middle Ages, it peaked at 16. In 1950, it peaked at 18. In modern times, a woman's sexual market value peaks at ages 20 to 22 and goes downhill after that.
@Kelley1, i do understand where you are coming, but you know that we have IVFs, and adoption.
Then also forcing marriage, and having expectations at all is going to hurt you.
Body + intelligent= no time for you
Body + dumb= won't have a good future.
No body + intelligent= have time for you but will be very sad all the time. Or nerdy.
No body + dumb= (someone like me) always complaining about luck, reality, etc, but loves unconditionally.
Super generalized, but it holds in a lot of conditions.
Finding the perfect match is nearly impossible.
Yes the world is big, there are billions of people, but how many are you going to reach out in time, how many will be interesting in you (men are always interested)
But they also want love and peace, if you are more active than them, they are going to take it on their egos. And reject.
Just find someone who you can tolerate, tolerate daily struggle, and settle down.
Living together will force love on cause that's how it is.
If not then just get a divorce and start again it will be difficult but not impossible.
I was 13 when I started looking for love, and I am 27 now, I am ugly, skinny, self obsessed, and boring, I can't run, I can't drive and I have wasted my youth in studying, watching movies, and just observing others, I am still not good enough for anything but I am trying to be.
People say that I am young but I am already having back issues, pain in joint, etc.
Some things should happen to me in my 40's or 50's are happening right now.
So I'll just say get down with someone who you can tolerate for life
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Yes, I have always held out hope that I might meet the right man and be married one day. However, if I don’t find him, which is seeming increasingly likely, I’ll enjoy the perks of being able to spend my money however I wish and live where I want and do as I wish.
Thanks. I have lots of things to be thankful for, so I should be thankful. However, I’d swap most of my nice things for a decent partner.
I keep meeting losers.
@Jordi2525 I’m not sure; possibly. Why?
@Jordi2525 a eunuch is a man who can’t have sex, as he has no testicles because they were removed as a result of having cancer, or being a trans man and having no men’s genitals. Right?
I hope it is ok to say it straight out, like that.
Being married once was a good experience overall. I don't think I'd do it again, unless I met the perfect woman for that. Mostly, I'm looking to keep my life as simple as possible, with less stress these days.
You're a wise man 🦉 I hope you often keep or will consider becoming a fan of Owl things - 🤪
@Hiker_011 you've been there done that 💒 💍 was it a nice wedding and all, man? 😁 At least you've done it ✅ and now enjoy the benefits of being bachelor again hopefully it wasn't a expensive split 🫰 💍
@NicholasofAustralia
Yeah the wedding was ideal for me, I enjoyed it. I was never a rich man. The split didn't hurt financially. I do feel lucky to have experienced being a husband and a father. I love my son, and I got to fulfill those dreams. Now I can hopefully make be on to new relationships, and new experiences.
@Hiker_011 and can I ask one question about your marriage - ☺️ did you even get to fulfil any desire of "sorry if this is the wrong category topic" - anal sex? Your wife receiving of course, not you 😁 🕳️ ah well or ex wife I should say. Nope for me I'll just be enjoying my bachelor life until the grave 🪦 merrily 🤭
@Hiker_011 and may I compliment your style of eyewear 👓 "it's very late 2000s - Sarah Palin would approve" type eyewear 👓 none of those big black frames everybody wants. Thick frames - vomit 🤢🤒
@Hiker_011 I'm so glad they still exist. They're like cool floating eyewear 👓 ultra modern. Why they phased out after 2010s I'll never know - sigh 😔
God bless Sarah Palin 😙
Thank you, good sir 🎩 🎩 a top hat to us all 🎩
You know , I'm at such an age , if the correct showed up ( somehow ) I'd love to , but that is so highly unlikely , and it would come with a serious contact and she'd have to be more wealthy than me , so highly highly unlikely but I'm open to the thought.
First time around it was pretty horrible.
Marriage, but no kids. The world we're living in is not a great place, and it's only going to get worse. Having kids is not only expensive, but trying to navigate them morally in an immoral world will be challenging. It's heart-breaking to see kids who were instructed right throughout childhood to still end up choosing the wrong road in adulthood, because they so desperately wanted to see what was on the other side of Right.
I'm recently widowed.
I have no plans to remarry.
I do plan on dating.
@ManOnFire Thank you.
Been there done that with marriage and kids. I enjoy the single life and lots of choice at the moment. Would I ever get married again? Sure. But I'd be much more cautious about my choice.
Most divorces are initiated by wife. Getting married- just for her to make me single again- for her money reward- is stupid and convoluted. Just skip to single- do not pass go and- do not collect- i mean pay her 200!
Will probably start thinking about planning a wedding this year 😬 yay us
How old is he? Haha
@RaulG4mer234 same age as me?
I doubt that will happen women nowadays want total control they want to be in charge the shot caller and I’ve seen it with my friends. The woman are always in charge. I don’t do that i’m not a submissive husband. I’m an alpha male
Never again. Realized its nothing but a trap. There is no real reason to get married in this day and age.
Im perfectly happy being single, enjoying my hobbies and dating very casually.
Yes I want to get married, but I'll have to die first to do it. Cause all my dream was to fall in love before I get 20 but sadly I never got that.
I did fall in love, but nobody fell for me.
So now I think a new birth will be better cause the dreams where never fulfilled.
Also the other part is I have been successful in the eyes of my friends and family, but not in my own.
My purpose in life has lost as in the time I wanted to complete is gone.
It would be nice to get married but I don't think it'll ever happen but I'm ok with that
I know those feels 💒😶🌫️😶
I completely get what you are feeling. I feel the same.
And matter of fact I am not ok with it but trying to wrap my head around it.
@samael_kmarty yeah there are days where I wanna meet someone especially with everyone around me having someone and I being the one person that is still single amongst them.
Ya that is exactly my life as well
I want to meet someone good, but the thing is even after lowering my expectations the rejection is a bit harsh.
I would like to get married, but my personality seems to mitigate against that as I push women away if it gets too serious. Also, the laws currently in force would make marriage for me foolish unless she is quite wealthy.
Seems like that ship has sailed for me too at 32+ lol 🚢⚓
So duh I voted selfishly B 😂😂😂
@msg123 I can appreciate how at 39 to my 32, you're also embracing the "road less travelled" - and solo 🙃🙂😝 never having to come home to a nagging wife after a long day 👔 is a bliss 🙂↔️
@msg321 whoops 🤭😬 wrong typo. @msg321 I can appreciate how at 39 to my 32, you're also embracing the "road less travelled" - and solo 🙃🙂😝 never having to come home to a nagging wife after a long day 👔 is a bliss 🙂↔️
It's what I find freeing that others who've already married and maybe have a baby already - i think to myself "ah yes, but is that wife and those screaming brats worth it" - everyday versus the bachelor lifestyle 🙂↔️🤭 I think I know my cake 🍰
I hope you will have a wonderful marriage life, Nicholas. Honestly idea of getting married makes me scary a little bit. It sounds like a huge responsibility but I guess I should get married otherwise I will regret staying single in the future. I hope I will meet a good woman to get married.
You do you. 😎 As I said to someone else, nah I prefer my desired it seems intended lifestyle lol - a bachelor life I'll continue enjoying until my grave 🪦 at old age 🤭 one day
m Not interested in marriage.
Not interested in staying single forever.
I stand for ones of the missing poll options: Standard long term relationships.
*for one of
No problem 👌🏼
I haven't seen a single guy who is actually happy after getting married, they're in a constant loop of stress and anxiety. Finding the right person, an understanding woman, is a one-in-a-billion chance. Staying single seems much more appealing.
I don't believe in marriage. I'm happy in just relationships
You know I completely agree, I used to think marriage are better for women but it's not.
It's a trap for women.
Took me years to see that.
I'd really like to get married, but chances for that are close to zero.
Why? 8f you want to share ofc
*if..
I'm already too old for marriage.
Even when I was younger, things were always like this:
Girls I like - Usually don't like me back.
Girls who like me - Are usually not my type.
You can get married between 36-45 too. IAM single and I am in this age gap too and I am hoping getting married one day. If you are religious just pray for a woman who you like and like you back maybe the creator will help you.
I'm not religious, but I'm still hoping. Though, it's not a very realistic chance.
If you don't want to get married I can't say anything but if you want don't be hopeless, being hopeless attracts negative energy and makes people's work harder
I do want to get married. I'm trying not to attract negative energy, I'm still hoping.
Been there, done that. Never again. Today's marriage is a horrible idea for men.
How was the divorce though? 💼
@NicholasofAustralia Very painful. Fortunately we have no kids so it could have been worse.
@ManOnFire Yup. I won't put myself in that line of fire again.
I definitely want to get married to the right guy.
Marriage has no benifit for men whatsoever.
I will never get married again. One mistake was enough.
You have to dream big in this life.
of course I wanna get married
It would be nice to be single forever tbh but unfortunately I have to get married otherwise I won’t have kids or a life beyond work ☹️
Nobody likes me so I've given up on that particular notion
Probably, but not anytime soon.
I wanna get married someday.
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