Is it a red flag if my boyfriend is liking other women’s pictures on Instagram?

[candycane]

[Finchie40]

If it bothers you , and you find it to be disrespectful , then yes , it’s a red flag and , it’s considered cheating , because your partner is showing interests in other girls’ and letting those girls’ know he is checking them out. It’s one thing to look but to act on it? Is crossing the line , it shows lack of respect for their partner. If your boyfriend truly loved and valued you , he wouldn’t be investing his time and attention on these other girls’ How would he feel if you were liking other guys’ pictures? He would consider you cheating on him if you did. So you have every right to be upset and you have every right to right to have words with him and tell him how disrespectful it is to you , and you have every right to dump his ass over it

[ohsheeT]

Well you know the old saying two red flags are better than one you could do the same thing and then say what huh what are you talking about why can't I look at these guys are like these guys you do the same thing

[SueShe]

If there are an equal number of men and women's pictures he likes or accounts he follows, then it is OK in my opinion.

However, if those pictures or accounts are solely those if women, then it is a huge red flag.

That would indicate that something in your relationship is not working well if he has the urge and need to follow and like pictures and accounts of women only.

Time to have a serious face-to-face conversation and to set boundaries and limitations.

[emeraldsaphire]

I like guys photos sometimes too. I mean I guess it depends on what the photos are of. If he's just liking a photo of his friend playing mini golf who cares, but if he's liking a photo of an only fans model, this MAY be the sign of a porn addiction.

[Zack-Bann]

No it isn’t


God I hear this all the time


It’s literally a double tap on screen and a scroll by within 0.3 seconds tops


It doesn’t mean anything and it never will


No one stops and falls in love before liking a picture on fkn instagram


Most of us do it instinctively without even thinking.


Stop being insecure about losing him.
He knows he can’t do better than you

[HighValue]

No more than a woman having social media at all with a public account.

I think it is a sign of a low quality partner, but so is a single woman past 30. People can't expect a high quality partner if they aren't high quality and desirable themselves.

[Anonymous]

This gets asked constantly. The answer always depends on the context. For example, if he's liking his female friends posting family photos, it's obviously fine. If he's liking 19 year old thirst trap photos, it's a red flag. I'm guessing your situation is somewhere in the middle.

[itsannalee]

Depends on the pic, if sexual pics yeah.
If just random pics from his friend’s account I don’t think so.

[Daniela1982]

What would he say if it were the other way around?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/twQeObqu8SU

[lightbulb27]

Yes. He he should be observing how bitchy moody and difficylt they are to deal with so he can value you more. Unfortunately they dont post that reality online

[strateguy632]

In your picture yes because he ignored you when you are together but usually that is fine. No worries.

[Lliam]

Yes. Looking at photos or even videos is one thing. But liking someone's stuff on Instagram is interacting with them. And that ain't cool.

[bowenw]

I don't think it is. I follow many female celebrities and friends on there and like all their pictures.

[queenbecca]

Your reaction is really up to you! It's not something I mind but it would bother others. No wrong answer.

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on whether it's pictures in general or just the sexy ones.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Could be, but he's a boy, so OF COURSE he'll look at hot girls' photos.(If he attempts to contact them, run like h**l, lady !!!)

[KrakenAttackin]

How many sneaky links do you have in your Instagram DM's?

[In_Trance]

Gtfo his social media before you fuck everything up

[khyabaldwin14]

depends on what he’s liking if it’s just a regular picture of her then probably doesn’t mean anything

[Bklynbadboy12]

No but how do you even know he's doing that. If your invading his privacy then that's the red flag

[Anonymous]

Unless he is sexting them then I don’t see it as being an issue.

[blueonblack22]

Yellow flag maybe. But not a red flag.

[CarolinaGirl5]

The redflag is you invading his privacy

[Yannae]

No, my girl friends are cool. You should meet them

[Luopio27]

No it is not! Untill he starts flirting!

[PeachyPie93]

Yes..

[Danny_dan92]

Probably

[mstoxicprincess]

prolly yeh

[Jay-_-]

Yes huge red flag

[Babygirl_S]

Yes!!

[eagle1951]

yeah

[straightmax12]

No, it's not.