So yesterday i almost had an argument with my boyfriend. It's the second time I saw him like some random women's ass pictures on Instagram. I guess its my PMS or something i just couldn't take it. I went crazy on him. We were in bed and he was asking me whether i could give him a back massage when i already gave him the massage the previous night though i'm also tired, and at the same time i saw him liking some random ass pictures/ bikini pictures. Then am like, wow you serious, you're liking this and that and you dare ask me for massage !! How about i also post pictures like that, you gonna like it? He was like confused then later wanted to just not talk about it, that he doesn't want to talk about it, don't fuck my mind etc etc. I wanted to talk about it, wanted to understand oh is this what you like tell me we can just resolve this matter now instead of letting me sleep with a bitter feeling but no he just didn't want to talk and just slept shortly. As a girl i just feel so weird like what the hell is going on, i just want him to explain himself. I don't know if you girls out there also feel weird if your boyfriend likes other random ass/bikini pictures, how would you feel about this? Or did i really over react and i should say sorry? Now i can't even see his previous Likes on instagram, i don't know probably he changed some settings on his Instagram so now i can't see whose posts he liked **** Is there any option like this on Instagram where you can choose whether to allow your followers to see what posts you liked? He went to work early morning and ever since that he didn't text me nothing, i literally have no idea how to handle this situation
Does that bother you if your boyfriend likes other girls' pictures on Instagram?
Honestly, I would be jealous if my future boyfriend likes other girl's pictures on Instagram especially if it has a primary focus of body exposures. I do not know if it's because if I am insecure about myself or not. But a healthy relationship includes trust, loyalty, commitment, and the list goes on. I know it is natural to still be able to look at other people and admire their features but if I was in a relationship I would not especially like other boy's body pics because of I only like my boyfriend's because his body is MINE. Therefore, I would not share my eyes on another man's body. However, since it's social media, I would not mind liking my guy friend's pics because they are cough cough my friends.
First, I wouldn't have gotten into an argument, I would have peacefully talked out the situation with your boyfriend. The argument can show that you didn't have trust in him and he could probably sense that.
All you can do now is bestly, settle down and sit with him, Communication is the key in a relationship. Talk things out earlier and clear the harsh atmosphere. Tell him straightforawrd how you feel.
yep probably the way i talked to him at the beginning wasn't so lovely, but then later on i tried to talk to him without shouting, i asked him just explain it to me. But he just turned his back on me and slept, i think it's ungrateful given the fact that i cooked him dinner he ate he was happy and wow when i wanted some answers he reacted like this. Well the whole day he didn't try to communicate with me at all but he could post pictures on Instagram, his actions isn't making me feel any better so far. So how do i keep cool when he's back from work? at this point i don't know what i can say
That’s very petty of him to ignore you like that... although I have not really been in a relationship I can’t give you much advice because I don’t want to make you do anything that can negatively affect your relationship. If you decide to ignore him then that can either 1) make him miss you? 2) cause more damage to the relationship.
At this point, when he goes home me maybe be in the kitchen making lunch? Dinner? And then if he does come in the kitchen offer him some. Maybe put on a cooking/ baking video in the background so he could know you’re in the kitchen.
If he stills ignore you for 2+ days, he’s very ungrateful and selfish of how you were trying to communicate to him how you feel and how he was making you feel insecure in the the relationship. If he doesn’t take your feelings in consideration, how will he take care of you when you marry? And arguing something as little as a picture on Instagram comes into ignoring? What happens if you guys argue about something worst? No no I’m not claiming abuse. But these are just my assumptions, please don’t take it for word.
If he's double tapping on an obviously provocative picture of a girl he knows in person, maybe. wouldn't warrant an argument or a fight. He's with ME for a reason.
nopes those are just random people, not people who he knows in person. I understand what you are trying to say but the thing is he saw how upset and mad i was, but he still wouldn't do anything to make me feel better, that hurts me even more he didn't text me nothing
Frankly, if you're upset about him liking random instagram models to where you got upset, mad, and freaked out on him I wouldn't change it either. Your behavior, frankly, is irrational and misplaced. It stems from YOUR insecurity about yourself- don't ruin your relationship because of your own personal issues.
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