Guys does it bother you if your girlfriend weighs more than you?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are both attracted to each other, but I can't help but worry about me weighing more than him. He does not know how much I weigh but he jumped on my scale one time and was about 20lbs less than me. This really bothers me for some reason. I mean I'm not fat but I'm also no cheerleader, I'm 5'7 150lbs and he is 5'8 130. Anyways should I cut some weight? I exercise at least 5days a week but I could always change my diet I guess. I think if I weighed 130 I would feel much better.

[bratattack]

That is a horrible thought! DONT YOU TRY TO LOOSE WEIGHT BECAUSE OF THAT! You work out more than a lot of people. You are tall. You seem to be at a healthy weigth to me. Losing 20 lbs is a biggggg difference. You prob have a beautiful body type right now, at your healthy weight. 20 lbs is a huge difference. You may end up looking sickly. AHHHHH please don' t do this. If your reason for dropping even 1 lb is because you don't want to weigh more than your boyfriend, then you already know it is a bad idea. That is the wrong sort of motivation. I'm sure you are beautiful and wonderful. And plus, he's dating you now, not you 20 lbs lighter. Obviously he thinks you're awesome and hot. There is no need to change. Please believe this. And if you can't get it out of your head then get rid o the scale. What do you need it for? If you eat well and exersice the who cares what you weigh. You are the way you are supposed to be if you're healthy. I am positive you are beautiful. Look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself that. Good luck...stay awesome

[Anonymous]

LOL just feed him more food! You're not even fat! Losing weight and your healthy lifestyle because of some boy isn't worth it.

[KevininLA]

There are plenty of girls I like who weigh that much or even more. Some dudes are just really slender regardless of how much they eat. It's hard to beat them in weighing less.

Don't worry about it. If he was worried about you weighing more than him, he probably isn't the right guy anyway.

[Kellen21]

That is literally impossible in my situation. But I like thick girls. But if you want to lose weight go for it.

[The-Dude-Next-Door]

Your boyfriend is just a skinny stick. It's no big deal to weigh a little more than a skinny stick.