Guys, do you care about a girl's weight?

Question

Do guys care about how much a girl weighs? (Be honest) if so, how much is too much? And why?

melandbel92 · Accepted Answer

Listen if the guy is worried about weight, unless he's into fitness and a health freak then he is just a ego statistical ass. All men have different tastes and preferences. There isn't such a thing as too big to me but I will admit there Is a too small. If I can see ribs and you look like you are going to blow away I'm going to try and force feed you a couple cheeseburgers. All women are beautiful in their own way same as men. I've started to gain weight. I weigh 140 which is. 20 pounds over what I've ever weighed and honestly I like it. Lol my boobs and my but have gotten bigger to and they tend to be good assets lmao

Ninja97 · Accepted Answer

I don't get why people refer to "larger girls" as fat, obese and disgusting" when we are humans too, and also when they say that like "bigger girls" it's called a fetish. Hello? We aren't some horse or donkey that you can rent to curb your sexual desires and then throw us back into the cage the next day. WTF. We are people, some of us are actually sick but people judge us way too quickly , by calling us fat slobs, or disgusting. I do not condone those whom weigh 400+ kg's from unhealthy lifestyles. I'm just saying, stop treating us differently. It's seriously not okay!

sjoes006 · Accepted Answer

Speaking as someone who has varied in size to a young person, I think long-term it is more important for you to decide this is the size I'm comfortable with and find a way to maintain it.

Once you find the size that fits you everything else will fall into place because you will have confidence in your person as a whole. Confident well centered people have a glow and can command a room. The key which is easier to learn young is finding that comfortable weight and portion control/ exercise (that you enjoy) to maintain.

Anywayysss · Accepted Answer

I like it when girls have some meat on them. girls that are too skinny are gross in my opinion. however there are all different types of bodies out there ranging from skinny but not fit, or fit but not skinny. there's those who are fat and those who are really thin and everyone has their own opinion on the topic but it basically comes down to what that individual is attracted to, same reason why you're not attracted to certain races, its what you like. be happy with what you have and if you dont like it then try doing your best to change it, but thats not always possible.

gray_sailor · Accepted Answer

I met, fell in love with and married my wife 9 years ago. At the time she was a big beautiful woman.

Since then, by her own decision, and with my support she has lost 175lbs. I was sexually attracted to her then and I still am.

She is my girlfriend, my wife and my lover. I love her more and more every day.

Insomniac11 · Answer

I like curvy girls.
Here's how I judge if you're too skinny:
When I hug you, if my hands touch the opposite shoulders, you're too skinny. It's like hugging paper. It's awkward, and in no way fulfilling.
Here's how I judge if you're too big:
If I hug you and my hands can't touch, you're too big.
That's a personal preference. What really matters to me is personality. We can work on outer appearance later.
Basically my mentality is that if I work hard to make myself proper for you, you should do the same for me.
You should have expectations for me, because I will have expectations for you.

NexAngelus · Answer

every girl is different. weight number can be misleading. bone structure and height alone change weight a lot. some girls have more "meat" in "important" areas ;). i like to see height/weight as i know roughly if the girl is gunna be skinny or fat or what not. but once u see and know the person i would worry more about looks as far as attractiveness and bmi or hips for health reasons. besides going to the doctors i never weigh myself. its stupid. ur weight can change so much from water and what u just ate to when u last took a dump... im serious.

BioDiezel · Answer

Weight, as a number on a scale means absolutely nothing. Human beings are all different, and each person has a healthy weight range and body composition. Rather than worrying about those numbers, it is way more important to focus on keeping your own body and confidence healthy. Maintaining a healthy weight reduces the risk of numerous diseases and conditions. it takes great effort and dedication to maintain the necessary healthy lifestyle, but it's absolutely worth it. Knowing the work you put in to keep your body in shape should give you confidence in yourself, and nothing is attractive like a confident lady. Furthermore, seeing a healthy body is associated with a healthy personality and attitude. Being in shape attracts partners not just because of a healthy good looking body, but also because of the attractive personalities that usually go along with them.

Dannieee · Answer

In an ideal world we would all simply look on personality and not the outward appearance but back up and realize that we are all human.. You know? We are gonna be attracted to different types of people, simply because we have preferences and sex drives, whether or not you're a healthy weight. I am a "stick" and I wish so much that I had curves, but then for some reason, it bothers me when I read the guys' comments that say "sticks" are not attractive. But THEN I realize that that is THEIR preference, and they can't help it. Like, I don't like super buff dudes or heavier dudes because that is my preference.

Kountry_King · Answer

I mean I'm the type of guy that if I like then I like she could be fit, skinny , chubby , thick or whatever. My last gf was chubby when I first met her and was beautiful to me then and she got bigger and thought it'd be a problem for me or I would be embarrassed she was big but I didn't care I still loved her and saw her as the day we went met. Now if a woman gets heavy to the point where its a health concern and she doesn't want to even come down a bit I'll just leave because I don't want to stick around and see the negative effects that come with that

MichelleJustAsking · Answer

I don't think guys care about weight as much as they care about lifestyle.

If a guy or girl is overweight because they eat poorly and never take the time to exercise, it's a sign of laziness and lack of self respect and someone who is hiding behind excuses instead of finding solutions. Those qualities are NOT attractive regardless of your size/weight.

BUT... if you are taking care of yourself and demonstrate that your health and body are valuable, then a guy isn't going to care much about the weight.

Klaatu51 · Answer

sure i do... and why "much" and not "less"? i'm into chubbier girls! :-P

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Well it's tricky because everyone wears their weight differently. 2 girls that are the same weight could look totally different based on other factors. I feel like as long as she's healthy, wears her weight well and carries herself properly, actual weight shouldn't really matter. But that's just my opinion.

Popcorncake · Answer

I'm kind of picky when it comes to this, but apparently what you girls concider overweight is more than i would think it is personally. If it is like a layer around you and if you got a stomach that isn't bulging out but has some fat on it it's fine. Still to 80% of guys a pretty face is more important than any other body feature. This doesn't mean that a pretty face is all that is required at any time but it means that improving the rest of your body so that you could basically be a model is doable, but like many things hard work and effort is required for success but it always pays off.

ccp16 · Answer

I just enjoy dating someone who is more or less on my level, other wise I feel weird. Like a girl can be too fit for me to really enjoy, but a girl can weight too much as well. I like just normal perhaps slightly above weight girls as that is what I consider myself.

CreepyOldMan · Answer

Yeah, I really do. I find obese women intolerable. It's something more visceral than just not being interested. It speaks volumes to me about their personality.

100,000,000 people don't all have thyroid problems. So that excuse doesn't work.

I am really frustrated and angry about just how fat American women are getting. It is a disgrace and it pisses me off, because there is no excuse. It seriously pisses me off when that I have to look at so many fat pigs every day.

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

It's not really how much she weighs, but HOW she carries it. Some women carry 200 lbs better than others.

Mesonfielde · Answer

There is a minimum and maximum threshold for weight, below or above which the girl is just usually not physically attractive at all. I like girls with a BMI of around 22, so don't think you have to be stick thin. I even like a little extra tummy. Not too much, but a bit.

Otherwise, attraction is mostly in the face, voice, behavior and mannerisms, plus overall personality including likes and dislikes.

posted · Answer

Absofuckinglutely.
A huge factor in this question is..
You'll have a 6956894858 pound woman saying she's 'chubby'
while guys in the comment may say a girl with like 5-10 somewhat extraish pounds is chubby.

No guys I know date girls who aren't close to average, sure some girls who have a few extra pounds can be really sexy, some just workout even and get bigger legs/butts. But in general I would go skinny over overweight. I'm pretty fit so a girl I'm dating should be average at least.

Blue_riBBon · Answer

love wouldn't give choices. it just happens.
apart from the quote "love at first sight" is considered when someone look beautiful but how do you know it's personality or nature without getting to know them?

I believe you like the girl/guy if you're totally compatible with his/her nature

ImKervin · Answer

Honestly. I have limits to when a girl is simply to fat. I've dated chubby looking girls who were so unfit but that didn't matter to me. But when you're very big to the point where I cannot lock my fingers around you when I want to hug you then its a problem.

sobg71124 · Answer

I prefer them a little "chubby" Not really fat, but "thick" or "curvy" or "voluptuous". Size 10-14 is pretty nice! Occasionally, depending on her shape and how attracted I am to her, I find myself attracted to girls a little above or below that size. But skinny girls do absolutely nothing to attract or turn me on. No thanks!

DaveyYourFavey · Answer

I do care.

Curvy girls (not fat or chubby) are my number one favorite, with fit girls coming second.

What I really don't like though, is when girls are insecure about their weight or when they are dieting to meet the media's perception of beauty, which in my own personal opinion, is not beautiful at all.

gonyr · Answer

There can be girls who are chubbier that are way hotter than skinnier girls. Wi that said, there's a limit to how far it goes, for me at least. But whatever. Everyone is into different things. There are plenty of people who are in the 'bigger the better' type. I don't judge

σαςReverie · Answer

The best guys you can find don't care about the numbers. They just care that she's confident, comfortable in her own skin, and works with what she has! : )

deActivator · Answer

It is not about weight, more about right proportions, and placement of that weight. You can get there with exercice. Two girls may have the same number of kgs/lbs, hight, and many same features, but you will see the difference between a girl who takes care about her body in some kind of motion.

mistersjmcg · Answer

Omg yes, I have an athletic body. I want my girlfriend to be able to understand nutrition (understanding doesn't mean you can't eat junk) at the bare minimum, her exercising would be a bonus. But I won't tolerate a fatty. I love ASS and boobs, but only if it's on the body of a woman in shape! not a sluggish 'curvy' figure for a GIRLFRIEND. For sex... I'm open to experimenting. but still there's a limit.

hkg36c · Answer

Off course we care!
No guys like fat girls, except guys with fat fetish.

Weight must be proportional, not too fat, not too skinny. But some guys still like skinny girls. So it's better to be too skinny than too fat, if you had to choose, but still, what's best is proportional.

cjmtherfcker · Answer

Well personally I would go for bigger than average before skinnier than average. My current girl was a twig when I met her and the sex used to be so painful because the pelvis is so hard. She has gained about 10-15 lbs and it makes a big difference. But yeah I'm more turned off by skinny than chubby

front2back · Answer

I've dated overweight women before and have found many attractive before. However, I do have my limits.

ifyouwannabe · Answer

Most guys do... usually just "overweight" at all is seen as a negative, but if the guy is overweight too he usually won't care as much. This is just based on being around guys and what I've heard them say.

Flat4 · Answer

Her physical size and therefore weight is a big part of my physical attraction to a girl. My girlfriend is 110lbs and think she looks stunning.

It's not shallow before people call me out on this. It's nothing different to the guy being turned on by a 200 lb girl and not liking a skinny girl!

whydoit · Answer

A let me tell all you young people out there today When It comes down to love ,?
Don't matter how big you are let It be known that there Is a lot of beautiful big woman out there Don't worry about the cover just read the book So what I'm trying to say no it don't bother me

JimenyzCricket · Answer

I think being healthy is attractive. Not underweight and not overweight. Being healthy shows at least a small degree of discipline and self-respect. Everything should be done in moderation, and that includes eating and being active.

Anonymous · Answer

Well depends,

If it's a genetic disorder then I can't judge her and if I do I would hate myself for it.

Though if she is just a binge eater, I might not be too keen. Not just because I may not be physically attracted to her but because her lifestyle is unhealthy and can be quite self-damaging. I am a Med/Science college student so I am aware how dangerous such a life can be. As a guy who often prefers to walk to the shops rather than drive and likes evening walks, we won't have anything in common.

Though if she is trying to loose her weight or is unlucky (like a genetic disorder), then I have to respect her rather than shit on her. A fat woman is not below a fat man. The circumstances matter etc etc

To be honest the only 2 women I have dated are average/slim so I don't have any experience dating "fat" women.

Hope you think this is a neutral viewpoint from a males perspective.

imjustadude · Answer

It isn't fun if she is so fat she isn't healthy or has hygienic issues. A little extra weight can be nice if it is in the right places. Lack of muscle tone from inactivity isn't sexy even on skinny girls.

Kshppatel · Answer

I'm 200lbs so I probably won't date a girl bigger than me unless she's taller also lol. Everyone likes different things in people so who are any of us to judge? With that being said I notice more people respecting me as I have lost more and more weight and more girls responding positively which us great but kind of disappointing tbh..

Abe90 · Answer

The guy above at the top, pretty much summed it up. But not every guy isn't like him. i know guys that won't date a woman simply because she has a real small stomach or is slightly chubby. I think it just comes down to if we connect with the person or not. If you like them regardless of their weight, then go for it.

Anonymous · Answer

I care a lot. I cannot date someone who is even slightly overweight, because I stay fit and exercise myself. And one should be able to control what they eat.

Sorry if this sounds harsh - I also would not date a girl with the "fat" genes (you can tell by looking at how wide the butt is in proportion to the body, and also her mom). I'm a pretty nice guy but this is just my stance on dating.

murphtheman · Answer

it not the wheight it how it looks on her plus size girls can be really hot, but sorry if your a Micky D's chow hound, laying on your butt doin nothin, thats just nasty

Xelebrum · Answer

As long as she's healthy and weighs less than me, I don't really care.

Dansexual · Answer

Don't care what the scale says but if she looks fat then yes. My wife started getting a bit too chubby so i told her to diet. I don't mind fucking girls that have fat but sure as shit don't wanna be married to one.

MyBabyAngels · Answer

Am glad to see most men dont really care about actual weigh just how well u carry it. Is the person that matters. Be healthy, look good for you n am sure many would find you attractive n be confident it makes you look even better ;)

GadzQue · Answer

Thin people are beautiful, but fat people are adorable.. :) but at the end of the day what matters most is the inward appearance.

Nomad93 · Answer

Personally I do care I wouldn't want to date someone heavier then myself I just don't find that attractive at all physically it's a deal breaker for me. Just friends is where we would be headed, or nothing cause I can be a jerk I guess

Waterways · Answer

Yes, in that they have to be in decent shape. There's no way to put a set number on it since it depends on their height and body type, but BMI is a pretty good guideline for the majority of people.

N192K001 · Answer

So long as her health is not jeopardized and she still has a figure, I probably won't really notice the difference.

HarleyTrailmaster · Answer

Some guys do, I prefer my women to have have some meat on them, I think it's all in the way a woman carries herself. A healthy woman is way more sexy than a skeleton. My first wife was 180ish and my second was 270ish. The first marriage I was too young and dumb, second marriage she was just too lazy. For me a beautiful smile and great personality wins everytime.

HashtagFaceGram · Answer

I care about health. So body composition more than weight I suppose. I would want her to be at least somewhat healthy, because I am somewhat healthy. And, tbh I don't find obesity attractive. I'm just being honest here.

Blushfairy · Answer

It isn't the weight or the kgs itself right?
It is more about how the weight looks on your body. Somebody with the same height and weight may look entirely different seeing how everyone put on weight in different places :)

Anonymous · Answer

For The Most Part NO!
My Wife Is Height Weight Proportionate, She Is 170, I Think She Looks Amazing, I Love Her Body, She Is Beautiful And Very Sexy!
What I Don't Like Is When Someone Let's Themselves Go And Become Really Heavy.
While Some Are Turned On By This, It's Not For Me!

eanubis89 · Answer

You should be more specific with your question as your title. It can hurt a lot of woman's feelings who are on this website when they see what 54 of those guys responded. I don't want to sound bitchy with my respond.

lordAlex818 · Answer

Yes. I prefer thinner girls. I can't say exactly what weight or BMI is too much for me, since all bodies are built differently. However, if you look overweight, then I'm probably not interested. Every guy likes different things tho.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I do but only when it sends her going down a dangerous and unhealthily path.

GeoffreyCrayon · Answer

Yes. The girl has to be a healthy weight. I can't be with someone who is overweight. Granted there's a big difference between a woman being overweight and a woman thinking she's overweight when she's not.

SupMuggle · Answer

I believe that weight a should never make a difference besides it should be then moan you love not the size. Besides if she wants on to lose weight that's fine. as long as she is healthy and happy it shouldn't matter.

the_real_know_it_all · Answer

i do care if she is obese, but i do like my girls with meat (a little chubby) cause i like touching her and if she is chubby there is more of her. Dont become skinny asf cause it is not that attractive attractive. So i really dont care if you weight 100 160 200 lbs as long as you are attractive and not obese.

1GuyOpinion · Answer

No. Not exact number anyway. I only care if she look decent (which most of the time is associated with a healthy weight)

KDA20 · Answer

Personal choice different men go for all different types of women.

Wator_Deng · Answer

I think the weight really needs to be considered. But I also believe that love can change everything. More importantly, the weight can be changed. Through their own efforts, will live better.

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

I do care to a certain extent. It wouldn't become a problem unless she was over 150 lbs or under 90 lbs (approximately). This is assuming that she is 5'5- the average height of women

Waldoman7 · Answer

in theory, yes. in practice, no. there comes a point where i find girls to heavy to be very attractive, but love happens where it will and the person you love is always attractive to you.

ThatGuy98 · Answer

As long as she is of a healthy weight it doesn't matter as much as how the weight is disturbed on her body. Some girls that are 20 pounds heavier than others might look better because the weight is located in her butt and breasts for example.

meatballs21 · Answer

Yes, I care how much she weighs. I can't answer how much is too much without also going into her height which is crucial to determining whether she's overweight or not.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

i like a girl who is at least 30 pounds less than me... i weigh 170, so i would like if she was 140 or under

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